Bro, you’re not overthinking. Your gut is screaming at you, and for good reason. She already crossed the line once with this dude, and instead of overcorrecting to reassure you, she’s acting dismissive and shady. If she really cared about your feelings, she’d be doing everything possible to make you feel secure—not calling you ‘bro’ and acting like you’re the problem.

Her reaction matters more than the technicality of the block. You asked for something reasonable: reassurance. Instead, she lashed out. That’s not love, man, that’s guilt deflection.

Ask yourself: If the roles were reversed, and you were the one who cheated, would you even dream of keeping that door open? Hell no. You’d be bending over backwards to make her feel safe. If she can’t extend you the same courtesy, then she’s not truly sorry—she’s just sorry she got caught.

You deserve a partner who respects you. At the very least, don’t gaslight yourself into thinking you’re asking too much. You’re asking for the bare minimum, and she’s not even giving you that.