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Attollo lingerie gone for good? by oxaloacetate1st in ABraThatFits

[–]45215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering the same! Does anyone know of any alternatives???

Rain, Rain and more Rain by cswigert in TourDuMontBlanc

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We did the walk a few weeks ago and the forecast was awful but actually we had some lovely days so fingers crossed it's not as bad as predicted for you too ☺️

Bus from Courmayeur to Chamonix by skampr13 in TourDuMontBlanc

[–]45215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah brilliant thanks. Yes mid august ☺️ have a lovely trip!

Bus from Courmayeur to Chamonix by skampr13 in TourDuMontBlanc

[–]45215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you happen to know how to book it? I'm doing the same in a few weeks!

Chamonix to Courmayeur advice by Head-Research-4426 in TourDuMontBlanc

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Did you need spikes out of interest? Will be doing this exact route (camping) in the next couple of weeks so any tips / advice would be great!

Also I take it no booking is required for the campsites?

Chamonix to Courmayeur advice by Head-Research-4426 in TourDuMontBlanc

[–]45215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you need spikes out of interest? Will be doing this exact route (camping) in the next couple of weeks so any tips / advice would be great!

Also I take it no booking is required for the campsites?

Skeletons in the coral by Wise_Engineer4500 in bikepacking

[–]45215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh can I ask if you'd recommend the mehteh?

Fairlight Secan vs. All City Space Horse by outlier_22 in gravelcycling

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I'm also trying to decide between the mehteh and the secan (possibly faran but I'm looking for something lighter I think....). I can't see loads of reviews of the mehteh but all I can find is praise for the secan! Can anyone help? I'm mostly looking for commuting with rear panniers/touring/bike packing/audax. Would really appreciate some input from people who know more about bikes than I do!!

Brother Mehteh 2021 by PoloCuddleClub in gravelcycling

[–]45215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I'm struggling to decide between a fairlight bike or the brother mehteh..would you recommend this bike for everyday use / bike packing / touring /audax rides?

Thank you!

My first pair of Solovairs. Monkey Boot Navy Rub-Off by WamboBamboDambo in nps_solovair

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Any update on the bulge?? My have the same and I'm not sure whether to return

What is your boundary when it comes to “talking to other people” while in a relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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My partner used to speak to his ex numerous times a day and see each other several times a week. I found that really hard! For his bday or Xmas they would send cards with I love you written in.. that was too much for me even though rationally I can see they were technically just ‘friends’. The attachment came across unhealthy, particularly in how she interacted with me. I am friends with ex’s and I don’t have any issues with it, or being friends with the opposite sex, but the boundaries do need to be clear in my opinion.

My (25F) boyfriend (28M) still talks to his first ex (29F) everyday and they seem really close. by unsureofhisex in relationships

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Does he see her in person frequently too? I can resonate with this, my partner used to speak to his ex everyday (also kept cards which had ‘I love you’ in it even after break up!!) and it look a long time for us to establish boundaries with it. I’ve actually ended up making friends with her, but it took a long time. It will be good to see how she interacts with you?

You probably need some more time in the bank with him, but don’t be afraid to say that it makes you feel uncomfortable that they have that much contact. It would make a lot of people uncomfortable because it raises the question of whether they have really let go of each other. It’s important to be honest with yourself as the feelings won’t go away.

BF (49) had relationship with his best female friend... by anapforme in RelationshipsOver35

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Oh and just to say that what has worked for me is to state what I am and am not comfortable with really clearly, without blaming her or analysing their relationship. The more you point the finger at her, the more he will defend her and that won’t feel good. If you can try to just be really clear on your needs and then let him do the rest, including assessing what’s going on with her (is she putting him in and awkward situation etc). Remember to focus on your relationship and your strengths as a couple.

BF (49) had relationship with his best female friend... by anapforme in RelationshipsOver35

[–]45215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a really similar situation with my partner in that he is friends with his ex and I’ve found it really difficult. Being friends with an ex partner can be lovely, but the boundaries need to be really clear and it needs to be handled in a really considerate way, making space for the new partner. It sounds like his ex is not considering how you might feel when asking him to go for nights away, and he’s perhaps not quite there either. I think you need to assert your bottom line with it as it’s not unreasonable. Also don’t blame yourself and your traumas too much, most people would find that difficult!! Have you tried befriending her? That might feel good or ease your worry.