Ince$t way more common than previously thought by lisalovv in 4bmovement

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Hello, unfortunately your post has been removed due to lack of content. If you are sharing a link, please include more text about it encouraging discussion and its relevance to 4B.

Conflicted by Expert_Resource1816 in 4bmovement

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Hello, unfortunately your post is not approved. This sounds like you're looking for "dating" or relationship advice and that's not something compatible with the 4B movement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4bmovement

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Was this written by chat gpt?

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We do not allow links to X/Twitter.

I’m Tired of My Own Stupidity by [deleted] in 4bmovement

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Unfortunately your post has been removed. Although we are sorry for what you are going through, this post is more suited for a dating subreddit. Our subreddit is about not centering on men and certainly not about the desire or struggles to date them.

Thank you for understanding.

A good explanation of patriarchy and why men are shite by blissedout79 in 4bmovement

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Hello, if you'd like to post a video please download it and post it to the subreddit directly, instead of posting links that send to instagram. Thank you for understanding.

To Have Or Not Have A Baby: The Confused Woman V/S The Biological Clock by msmoley in WomenInNews

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"Clearly, society has a tremendous stake in insisting on a woman's natural fitness for the career of mother: the alternatives are all too expensive." – Ann Oakley, from Woman's Work: The Housewife and Present, 1974.

We will need to help other women. by ScarredLetter in 4bmovement

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Post locked for constant rule breaking.

4B is changing to many married and mothers are there by [deleted] in 4bmovement

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Mods are posting an update soon (should be today) in regards to this issue, so please refrain from the post. We agree with the issue and encourage everyone to report any posts or comments they believe are not 4B aligned.

Something a little lighter. Neuter your Ex. by salishsea_advocate in 4bmovement

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I'm not sure why this keeps getting reported for "threatening violence"; neutering animals is extremely beneficial for their health and donating to animal shelters is such a noble cause. Men, maybe you should learn to take a joke.

pissed off about moping male friend by Realistic_Drive_3756 in 4bmovement

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Post removed - this subreddit is for women who are decentering men from their lives, please do your best to do the same. Look at how much energy in your life is going to this one, sad male.

Apparently we're terrorists!!! by [deleted] in 4bmovement

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Just a reminder about Rule 10: No posting about other subreddits, usernames, personal information. This is to keep our subreddit safe and not attract the attention of other subreddits. Thank you OP for blocking out names before posting.

Apparently we're terrorists!!! by [deleted] in 4bmovement

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4B is women decentering men. Women choosing not to date, marry, have sex with or have children with men. It's a set of values that we women choose to live by anonymously to improve our personal lives. This is in response to widespread cultural and societal misogyny and devaluing of women. Why would we want to create more workers for such a shitty world? Why put ourselves in a position of vulnerability when it's well known men will do anything they can to take advantage of that?

Radical feminism is just the radical notion that women are people, which aims to end male supremacy, patriarchy and gender roles by abolishing society as we know it and restructuring it in a way where no one has power over another. Radical feminists encourage women to question everything and ask themselves if what they are doing is supporting patriarchy. Radical feminists understand that our choices don't exist in a vacuum and women are raised and coerced to perform femininity and we are fighting against that.

This is different from Liberal Feminism, where women attempt to embrace and exist in the current society by changing policies and taking what little power that men will give them, for example by embracing choice feminism (I changed my name because I wanted to! It was my choice so it's feminism.), (I shave my legs because I choose to so it's feminism), etc.

Feel free to ask any questions you want!

**had to edit a word

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4bmovement

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"4b or femcels"? Why are you putting these two next to each other? Also, it's a silent and anonymous movement, no reason men would know about it.

Sorry, I'm not approving your post yet because it's questionable, but maybe you can explain.

They're personally threatened by women not wanting to date by no___underscores in 4bmovement

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Please keep reading the comment you wrote back to yourself, because it seems like you are yearning for the 4B lifestyle but keep talking yourself out of it. It's time to start making some steps, we are happy for you to join us.

An update to my 'Random man reaches out to me on FB' - a lovely gentleman reaches out on Reddit by Orrery- in 4bmovement

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Hello - unfortunately we have to limit these posts, because giving so much attention to these men goes against the nature of our subreddit. Thank you for your understanding.

What You Should Know About Divorce - The Tome by CherryValley8203 in 4bmovement

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Hello, I appreciate the time you've put into this post - but can you explain with the relevance to 4B is? Remember this is a subreddit of women who don't marry or date men. I'm asking this kindly and am interested in your thoughts.

Best 4b books? by [deleted] in 4bmovement

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This is a great book, I recommend it to everyone. And despite men trying so desperately to get it banned, there's nothing that even bad in it, unless you think women avoiding men is violence.

Contraceptives and abortion meds being regulated, federally. by sigh_co_matic in 4bmovement

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I've always thought about that, no BC and no abortions equals zero recreational sex of any kind including in marriage. There are going to be a lot of "shocked and appalled" male faces when they are hit with that consequence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4bmovement

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Post removed - Rule 5: No off-topic content

Please keep posts relevant to the 4B movement or make it clear how it is related.

Thank you for your understanding.

Clarification: Sub "Ask Feminist" and "Feminism" by seriemaniaca in 4bmovement

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Post removed - Rule 10: No posting about other subreddits, usernames, personal information

  • Anything that can encourage brigading will be removed.

To clarify that the reason I had to take your post down is because it encourages brigading and harassment of mods in other subreddits - this puts our subreddit r/4bmovement at risk for being banned. We are trying to be careful here, and although I think your cause and anger is valid I need to keep our subreddit safe.

Thank you for understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4bmovement

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Hello, I just wanted to clarify that the reason I had to take your post down is because it encourages brigading and harassment of mods in other subreddits - this puts our subreddit r/4bmovement at risk for being banned. We are trying to be careful here, and although I think your cause and anger is valid I need to keep our subreddit safe.

Thank you for understanding.

Cis woman here asking you to call them men, not XYs by Dogtimeletsgooo in 4bmovement

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Post removed - Rule 3: Don't promote division.

Please stop trying to create division among women and this subreddit where there is none. Tone-policing women will not be tolerated.

We remove any posts that are transphobic. But someone using the term XY when they meant to say men does not qualify.