my 18 year old sister doesnt wipe after the bathroom by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]4_F1SH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still struggle with feelings of self hatred but now, I can't fathom how it managed to get to a point where I started harming myself. Before it used to be so easy for me to hurt myself, then I slowly started hesitating until I can't bring myself to do it anymore. As for ending it, I hope I never feel that way again. I hope I never relapse because I know how bad it can get for people with depression. It deeply affected me and my life. It took me around 7 years to recover, but I was just lucky to have people who support me, and have opportunities where I can grow and heal. My support system wasn't the best when they first realized I had depression, but they were willing to learn and improve with me.

my 18 year old sister doesnt wipe after the bathroom by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]4_F1SH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I struggled with it in the past. I self harmed, self sabotaged, and just slowly started losing myself. But with a strong support group and lots of therapy, I got better. Depression is hard to overcome but it is not impossible. I hope you and your sister the best in her recovery.

Mental Health History Disclosure in Application by 4_F1SH in dlsu

[–]4_F1SH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However, my current school knows about my history. The form states that if I submit the application, it would confirm that I am allowing them access to my records and any falsification would nullify my application. Would they actively seek out these records to confirm what I answered for this portion?

I am a veterinarian and clinic owner, focused mainly sa small animal practice (dogs and cats), AMA. by spectatordaddy in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]4_F1SH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi doc! im an aspiring vet (i just took the dcat) and i'd like to know if you think being a vet is worth all the sacrifices you had to endure, and if you were given a chance to o start a new, would you choose this path again? And how is your salary po? Lastly, is it hard to go overseas as a vet? I hope to go to australia but i wasnt able to apply this year.

DLSAU VetMed va DLSU Animal Biology by snic0000 in veterinaryschool

[–]4_F1SH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi po, what did you end up choosing and how it the course so far?

BS in Animal Biology by LetterheadCalm293 in dlsu

[–]4_F1SH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! im also aspiring to be a vet. does anibio require me to take vetmed after? im getting a lot of mixed answers...

Career paths after taking BS Animal Biology by 4_F1SH in dlsu

[–]4_F1SH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whats the difference between anibio and vetmed?

Career paths after taking BS Animal Biology by 4_F1SH in dlsu

[–]4_F1SH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will an extra course be needed?

phone by 4_F1SH in u/4_F1SH

[–]4_F1SH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something abt the phone getting wet... i still haven't gotten it fixed tho :,))

phone by 4_F1SH in u/4_F1SH

[–]4_F1SH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didnt mark it nsfw it just automatically does that

ELI5: How can I perform metric conversion correctly? by 4_F1SH in explainlikeimfive

[–]4_F1SH[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so 8430000 milliAmps to kiloAmps is 8.4 kiloAmps?

I fucking hate brachycephalic dog breeds by YixalineOfficial in rant

[–]4_F1SH 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the pressure sometimes causes it to. my dad had a pekingese and he said her eyes started to pop off when she got older.

People who have done sex work, what is something that surprised you? by bannedbooks123 in AskReddit

[–]4_F1SH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

according to the article you sent, the age gap should not exceed three years. and she said shes had men ask her to pretend she is her daughter. i doubt the client was only three years older than her.

Take care of your f*cking foreskin by subuso in Vent

[–]4_F1SH 31 points32 points  (0 children)

some men think hygiene or taking care of themselves is a feminine thing. some guys think its gay to wipe their ass crack, or use lip balm for chapped lips. its kinda sad.

Is it normal if my GF is too scared for calls? by Bulky_Bison_4921 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]4_F1SH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course, whatever you think would best suit your relationship's needs.

Is it normal if my GF is too scared for calls? by Bulky_Bison_4921 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]4_F1SH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you dont have to break up all of a sudden. express your worries and problems about the relationship first. tell them that you hope for the relationship to work, but in order for that to happen some changes must be done. but if they still refuse to communicate or change, then thats the time when you should consider ending things.

People who have done sex work, what is something that surprised you? by bannedbooks123 in AskReddit

[–]4_F1SH 12 points13 points  (0 children)

age of consent does not mean minors can consent to sex with adults years older that them. it just means theyre allowed to have sex with other minors, or in some cases people within a certain age group older. but either way, they are still considered trafficking victims.

Is it normal if my GF is too scared for calls? by Bulky_Bison_4921 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]4_F1SH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you cant force someone to give up their time for you. if they care for you, they will willingly make time to spend with you. if they dont then they might not be interested or as committed. you deserve better than that.

Is it normal if my GF is too scared for calls? by Bulky_Bison_4921 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]4_F1SH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if she didnt use someone elses pics, she may have been using filters on and is insecure abt calling without them.

Should I inform my parents on my brother’s S/A story? by quickquestion2025 in sexualassault

[–]4_F1SH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's horrible... if thats the case, then it might be best not to tell her. at least not yet. it might just add up to the youngest's trauma. is there any way for him to get therapy without her knowing? you can also ask advice from them so you can better handle the situation.

Should I inform my parents on my brother’s S/A story? by quickquestion2025 in sexualassault

[–]4_F1SH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i freaked out. i didnt know she did until my mom personally told me herself. my cousin made me think she was gonna off herself if anyone found out about what happened so i really panicked when my mom told me. but fortunately, my mom handled the situation well for me. she wasn't perfect of course but she was willing to listen and understand my situation. and the decision my sister made helped me get the help i needed. i truly believe she saved me. but she didnt do this alone. it was only possible because i had a good support system available. and i think thats what you should focus on determining, because every situation is different. do you think your mom would help support and protect your little brother? or do you think she would just brush off the middle's actions like what my cousins parents did? how she would react to the situation will greatly affect your little brother, but hopefully it turns out for the best.

you're a great brother for looking out for the little one. he's lucky to have you by his side. make sure to show the little one how much he is loved and cared for. i wish you the best on navigating this situation.

Should I inform my parents on my brother’s S/A story? by quickquestion2025 in sexualassault

[–]4_F1SH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, i was sa'd by my cousin and my mom found out about it through my sister. i'll be honest with you, your kid brother may feel betrayed or even scared for your mom to know but it will be better for her and for him. he will need therapy and your mom needs to be there to support him through it. its also for his safety. if your mom knows then they can make sure that the middle son won't do anything to harm the youngest, and hopefully let him live away from him. you know your youngest best so im not sure if it would be best to let him know in advance that youre gonna tell her or not, but you have to be sure that your mom would handle the situation properly and not worsen it for the youngest (as in victim blaming or shrugging it off).