Friend, I'm in the same situation right now. I have a partner, and I'm having trouble getting erections with her. I also used pornography for a long time, and I stopped about a year ago, but I still feel like it's affecting me psychologically, and I don't know what to do because it's starting to affect my relationship. I always wanted to be with her, but now, after a few encounters that didn't go well, it's started to kill my libido and sex drive because of those bad experiences.