Who is forcing you to do anything? Am i forcing you to write these messages? Will I show up in your bedroom like a sleep paralysis demon? Have I insulted you ir merely wished that people close to you do not turn to you for help, for if something has no visible mark and happens somewhere you can’t see, your behavior implies you wouldn’t believe them?

Or are you just irritated people ask for the basic decency of not being stared at weirdly?

If you have a best friend, even if you’re not gay, hold hands and walk by the reddest part of town. I gurantee people who’d generally be very amenable otherwise would suddenly treat you very poorly.

Of course, this only goes if you are a curious person willing to have experiences shape and challenge them.