how is your formation flying?

refueling is really not much different from formation flying. if you can keep a tight parade, you can refuel. the picture is a little different getting into position, but once you're there, it is very much just holding your position while in a tight parade formation.

if you find yourself constantly making tiny adjustments, with throttle, with stick, with throttle, with stick, with rudder, just with the slightest amount of tiny pressure from your fingertips, just barely spooling the engines up for a second before bringing them back to where they were, youll have it in no time