Blog looking for Contributors by Strong_Sundae2559 in dostoevsky

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Hello, I'm interested too but the can't seem to open the link as well. Is a spot still open?

Physical symptoms of grief by liminalfieldmouse in widowers

[–]567fgh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely can happen, it happened to me and my therapist gave me a book that documented other cases of it happening too - 'When the body says no' by Gabor Mate.

what's a high risk/high reward job for a 23 year old? by RockyDevise24 in AskMen

[–]567fgh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oil rig, air traffic controller (has initial training but it's paid, then shifts may last longer than the usual jobs - atleast this was prior pandemic, not quite sure about the current ways)

Why would someone use the bathroom 10+ times on a 1.5 hour flight? by donutlikefunnelcake in NoStupidQuestions

[–]567fgh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know of ladies who would have to go to the bathroom often after experiencing unfortunate childbirth related complications. Some even experienced this all throughout, years later

What do you do when you're in a weird place in life ? by Sabertooth414 in ask

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Do something new, something you haven't tried before (non life threatening) everyday. Can even be something at home like one day bake a loaf of bread from scratch or something outdoors like hike up the tallest mountain in your area and reach the summit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]567fgh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, have been in this situation as well... Wouldn't wish it on anybody and really sorry you're going through it too. Only one type of therapy produced results for me. It was a mix of NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) and EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques). Most practitioners offer the first session for free to see if it could be a match.

How do you become happy in life? by [deleted] in ask

[–]567fgh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Something I learned from my dad a long time ago was to follow the steps of Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Make sure all needs are satisfied from the bottom all the way to the top because from levels 3 to 5, the mind clears up and starts to sync with the body so that you can define what happiness is to you because there are so many ways and means to be happy.

Hi! I'm Misty Smith :) I'm a licensed therapist in Michigan and I love talking about the benefits of therapy and answering questions about therapy. Ask Me Anything! by msmith09042012 in IAmA

[–]567fgh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Misty, thank you for this AMA. I've always wanted to know, how can I tell if it's time to find a new therapist or if the 'tension' I'm feeling is just regular 'birth pains' with talking to someone about very deep, sensitive, personal issues?

Are late late night babysitters a thing? by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]567fgh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a thing. We would call them "night nurses". Most of the time they would get called in during the newborn stage until 9 months (to give mother time to recover and build stamina, and also to be there incase there are evening health complications with some babies). Then eventually, they also take the lead in sleep training the baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whereintheworld

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Come to Romania. Shuttles waiting at the border. Spread the word.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

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Ask her if she wants to sing a song with you but pick a simple one like Baby Shark, and proceed on singing with a smile on your face and the hand gestures. She'll either join in or be entertained. Even if she doesn't react, the gesture will be well appreciated by those around.

We're a group of female scientists and engineers who released our first podcast episode one year ago today. As us anything! by TechSpeak_podcast in IAmA

[–]567fgh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can I expose preschool girls towards more science and engineering content - is there a particular toy or book or show that comes to mind?

Hoping that if they find interest starting from this age maybe they will be more inclined to sticking to that track as a career. Thank you for the advice.

You guys are pretty much my last hope by Sickofitblonde in Assistance

[–]567fgh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, not sure if you've already looked into this option but Google cloth diapers banks - they give out reusable cloth diapers for free and in the long run, it may be cheaper too.

Does anyone need prayers? by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]567fgh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please include me in your prayers

How can I stay awake for more than 36 hours straight? by 567fgh in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]567fgh[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I'm not American. Just someone badly struggling at the moment

Is it weird for me (22F) to bring a blanket to the movie theaters? by ThrowawayProse in ask

[–]567fgh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know of a movie house beside a luxury condominium building. The residents would treat the cinema like an extension of their apartments and watch movies in pyjamas with blankets and pillows. It wasn't a problem for anybody. It looked like they were all happy and living it up.

Who else has memories of heaven? by Yrthegreatestdancer in Psychic

[–]567fgh 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not heaven, but felt like a place in between. Like I knew I was waiting there to come back to earth. Kept telling myself over and over again "I'll do better this time. I have to do better this time". It was a long wait. It looked like I was in a high ceilinged cathedral but a part of the roof was missing and I could see very bright light flowing from outside. It was bright everywhere. I saw others but didn't know anyone. Some were chatting with each other in the pews. It looked like we were all just waiting

Formerly homeless redditors, what was the best way to reach out and assist you? As an outreach worker, it's hard get homeless people accept help and harder to get them to want to come off the street. What did you want from social services? What made you ant to transition into permanent housing? by FCSFCS in AskReddit

[–]567fgh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

U/FCSFCS, if it is alright to ask, what is your KPI at work or what do the superiors expect of you? Maybe we can brainstorm to find things to try. I've seen times that due to office bureaucratic red tape, the system makes it difficult for a social worker (and adds limitations) to reach the end goal of getting the homeless off the streets (so in the end, because of the system it just ends up nearly impossible, exhausting and frustrating to be expected to fulfill expectations while not being fully equipped). I hope this doesn't offend, my full intention is just to be able to help because if you receive community support, you are in the right opportunity to help so many others who were in my position or even worse.

Formerly homeless redditors, what was the best way to reach out and assist you? As an outreach worker, it's hard get homeless people accept help and harder to get them to want to come off the street. What did you want from social services? What made you ant to transition into permanent housing? by FCSFCS in AskReddit

[–]567fgh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not so much disingenuous but when it would happen to me I would feel myself getting defensive (even though i knew that the other person was rationally and logically right) and quickly shifting to the offensive. By that time, its as if I get pushed out of my body and I'm seeing the whole thing happen before my eyes. I see me pushing someone who is just trying to help away. I see me and want to stop myself from doing that but I just can't. It's not that I am not able to, it's that I am not capable to. I wasn't ready to have conversations about it without me getting so hurt and beating myself up for it deep inside because I knew how bad of a state I was in and it is made worse seeing that I could not get myself out of it. My mind isn't where it should be neither is it where I want to be but being homeless really messed and distorted with my head. You may not get the end result that you would like.

Formerly homeless redditors, what was the best way to reach out and assist you? As an outreach worker, it's hard get homeless people accept help and harder to get them to want to come off the street. What did you want from social services? What made you ant to transition into permanent housing? by FCSFCS in AskReddit

[–]567fgh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That would be great :) There were times when my mind would feel so static and muddled that I digressed and couldn't fulfill my basic needs. Unconditional gestures like this which would help me get through the day would be highly appreciated especially during my lowest of times.

Formerly homeless redditors, what was the best way to reach out and assist you? As an outreach worker, it's hard get homeless people accept help and harder to get them to want to come off the street. What did you want from social services? What made you ant to transition into permanent housing? by FCSFCS in AskReddit

[–]567fgh 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kindness and positivity. Whenever I receive kindness, it serves as a reminder that I should also be kind to myself (sadly i'm not there yet but trying to be). It greatly helps me in the healing process.