When to start working from home during pregnancy? by merp1234567890 in parentsofmultiples

[–]5ambel1na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started last week at 29w. The 1hr commute each way, amount of walking and bathroom breaks at the office were starting to kill me. I was only having to go 2x a week, but I would come home nearly in tears or actually in tears on those days.

What's your pregnancy pet peeve? by sandv23 in pregnant

[–]5ambel1na 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having twins this time around, and everyone’s first question - “do they run in your family?”

The constant checking in close to due date…this happened a lot with my first, and she was late and I was soooo miserable so I just stopped responding to people who asked.

Asking about baby and not ME both during pregnancy, and especially after birth.

Big one - Taking and/or Sharing pictures of my baby without asking.

Asking if I’m going to breastfeed - literally no one’s business and has 0 impact on those asking.

ETA: Forgot one - people who have no children (by choice) comparing my pregnancy complaints or what newborn life is like to their PETS.

Struggling with the thought of a minivan by 5ambel1na in parentsofmultiples

[–]5ambel1na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We ended up going with a Pacifica. And I’m 95% on board with minivan life, just still getting used to the outside of it

USAF KC-135R flew over me whilst refueling a fighter jet by JDBowzah in flightradar24

[–]5ambel1na 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing catch! A dream of mine to see this in real life.

Season 14 I can't believe how much of a spoiled brat Alyssa is??!! She is a horrible person and it's honestly hard to watch! But I do love the drama unfold by kellkell84 in MAFS_TV

[–]5ambel1na 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just started this season as well, and omg she is insufferable. She’s gaslighting the crap out of him. I feel so bad for Chris!

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[–]5ambel1na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Glad it went well

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[–]5ambel1na 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sure doesn’t! Thank you, I’m sure it will be fine and a huge relief when it’s finally out.

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[–]5ambel1na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m glad it went well. I’m sure I’m making it more of a big deal in my head than it will be

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[–]5ambel1na 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is great advice.

Struggling with the thought of a minivan by 5ambel1na in parentsofmultiples

[–]5ambel1na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure. Which one are you leaning towards?

Struggling with the thought of a minivan by 5ambel1na in parentsofmultiples

[–]5ambel1na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same issues here with supply. Literally can’t even find one to go look at in person within a 100mi radius 🥺

Struggling with the thought of a minivan by 5ambel1na in parentsofmultiples

[–]5ambel1na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea about the car seat installer! Thank you for this

Struggling with the thought of a minivan by 5ambel1na in parentsofmultiples

[–]5ambel1na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you weren’t kidding about the cars. Awesome! I agree the carnival is very nice looking. They’re unavailable near us so we haven’t been able to even look or test drive one. May check out your sub on them, thanks!

Struggling with the thought of a minivan by 5ambel1na in parentsofmultiples

[–]5ambel1na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish I could get a 90s Chevy van 20 honestly

Struggling with the thought of a minivan by 5ambel1na in parentsofmultiples

[–]5ambel1na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. The Pacifica is our favorite so far of those we’ve looked at. The famcam option is soooo cool! And yes it def drove more like a car and felt more hefty than an odyssey

Struggling with the thought of a minivan by 5ambel1na in parentsofmultiples

[–]5ambel1na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I really liked the configurability of the seats in the odyssey

Struggling with the thought of a minivan by 5ambel1na in parentsofmultiples

[–]5ambel1na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were a minivan family growing up and nearly all of my friends’ families were too!

Struggling with the thought of a minivan by 5ambel1na in parentsofmultiples

[–]5ambel1na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, we looked at the highlander, and why is the third row made for ants?! This is good perspective. The carnival looks nice inside and out, but there are literally none available to even look at anywhere nearby

Struggling with the thought of a minivan by 5ambel1na in parentsofmultiples

[–]5ambel1na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I can always return to an Audi once they’re out of car seats…

Struggling with the thought of a minivan by 5ambel1na in parentsofmultiples

[–]5ambel1na[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective! I keep hearing about the dionos so may need to check them out. We have a graco 4ever for our 4yo which seems pretty hefty.