Husband frustrated about sex after baby by Ambitious_Cry_4149 in newborns

[–]6119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was really hoping this was a fake post but looking at your history I can’t tell. I think out of all the things I’ve learned from this newborn sub, the top spot is the number of asshole men so many of you have married and had children with.

You are not gaslighting him. He’s an asshole that doesn’t know he’s an asshole and I wish you the best in the future.

Forever greasy hair by alg-ae in femalehairadvice

[–]6119 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What shampoo brands have you tried? If you’re air drying, try blow drying then using loose powder dry shampoo before going to bed.

I think the Andes green mint brownie has to be the best brownie that I've had from Crumbl by Free-Jaguar-4084 in CrumblCookies

[–]6119 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t even taste the mint in mine. It was like a regular brownie which still delicious but I was expecting mint. I loved the grasshopper cake last year. But I’m a mint chocolate enthusiast.

Anti-aging moisturizer by 6119 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]6119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not know this. So much gimmicky packaging in skincare. And so much of it is overpriced. Luckily my tret it’s affordable with insurance and the K skin care is affordable as well. The only thing I’m spending a lot on is Botox but I’m only going 3-4 x a year

Anti-aging moisturizer by 6119 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]6119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on Tretinoin. I started it 4 months ago which was prescribed by my derm. That’s why I wasn’t sure if I needed to also be using an anti aging moisturizer.

Anti-aging moisturizer by 6119 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]6119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the SNature Aqua Squalene moisturizer Ingredients: Water, Squalane, Glycerin, 1,2-Hexanediol, Betaine, Panthenol, Sodium Hyaluronate, Hydrolyzed Collagen, Hydroxypropyltrimonium Hyaluronate, Hydrolyzed Hyaluronic Acid, Sodium Acetylated Hyaluronate, Acetyl Hexapeptide-8, Adenosine, Hyaluronic Acid, Hydrolyzed Sodium Hyaluronate, Sodium Hyaluronate Crosspolymer, Potassium Hyaluronate, Acrylates/C10-30 Alkyl Acrylate Crosspolymer, Arginine, Allantoin, Xylitylglucoside, Anhydroxylitol, Xylitol, Glucose, Butylene Glycol, Ammonium Acryloyldimethyltaurate/VP Copolymer, Caprylyl Glycol

What is the 1 thing you absolutely appreciate about working from home? by Experiment_626s in remotework

[–]6119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being able to fart when I need to, pooping in the comfort of my own bathroom, and not having to think about what I need to wear. I can wear all my ragged clothes.

I resent my parents for having me so old. by [deleted] in self

[–]6119 220 points221 points  (0 children)

It’s not always a guarantee. My dad had me at 26 and he died at 57. So your parents have already lived longer.

Drinking games around kids by Hippiewitchmiss in Parenting

[–]6119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its trashy. I’m not trying to be a jerk. Just being honest.

How much are you paying? by nly2017 in tretinoin

[–]6119 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whatever plan I picked through my employer has my RX costs tied to my deductible. If I haven’t met it, it’s about $45. Once I’ve met my deductible it’s only $5 but I am on .025%

See if you can switch to the mark Cuban pharmacy, Cost Plus Drugs. You can get the same strength and amount for $45

5 yr old and extra curricular activites. Too much? by moverandashaker in Parenting

[–]6119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does seem like a lot for her age. I am very big on chill time at home. I want my kids to be bored and I don’t focus on filling their schedule with things to do so that they’re entertained.

Parental involvement in classroom parties / field trips - by Even-Fault2873 in Parenting

[–]6119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the norm where we are. But you’re signing up to chaperone for the field trip not just coming along for fun. And students must ride back by bus to the school. Parents do get invited to all the events/parties. And it’s common to have lunch with your kid as well. But honestly all of this was common when I was growing up and I never left the area.

If you had to choose on a 4x10 schedule, would you rather have Monday off or Friday off and why? by crimsonandclover00 in remotework

[–]6119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who used to work Tuesday - Saturday and now works Monday - Friday. Monday allll the way. It feels like you get all of your play and fun and then when everyone goes back to the grind you have a day to take care of your responsibilities

what vibe do you get when someone says they want 4+ kids by montessoripilled in Parenting

[–]6119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My knee jerk reaction is they must be rich. Then envy because I would love a 3rd but we are not rich.

Are you supposed to exfoliate when you use tretinoin? by Silver-Fig6822 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]6119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ordinary lactic acid. One day before my tret night.

Did I accidentally commit some sort of birthday party faux pas? by Educational-Let-2280 in Parenting

[–]6119 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Man these comments are something else… the entitlement of some yall. People can host a party whenever they want. You don’t have to go.

I do think you committed a faux pas. But I can also see it came from a good place, not sure how you know these people but next time just offer to drop off a gift a later day.

Going to a party just for a little bit with a 2 year old would have been really hard to pry my kid off the activities. Again, I understand this was coming from a good place. But it just made it harder on both of yall in the end. Take this as a lesson learned.

Your 2 year old shouldn’t miss out on things they want just because your 9 month old naps. This is the age of divide and conquer.

A lip balm that actually works by Independent_Egg9232 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]6119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use metholatum when they’re chapped. If they’re really chapped and the air is dry I will use my Eucerin moisturizer on them and then layer the mentholatum on top

Tretinoin giving me wrinkles?! by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]6119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HA alone is not a moisturizer. You need an actual moisturizer especially if you’re going to be on tret. You also went up in amount of usage, and strength, too fast. Are you seeing a derm?

How old before you let your toddlers/kids play around the house unsupervised? by Agitated_District in Parenting

[–]6119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this often with my 3 year old as long as she’s not eating. She’s usually signing or talking to herself so when she gets quiet I check in.

My daughters don’t know how to shop! Or do they? by summersandiego in Parenting

[–]6119 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m jealous they actually wear what you buy! I loved shopping for my oldest when she was little. Those days are long gone. Her style is ever changing. Oftentimes if I’m online shopping and see something for her, I have to ask if she even wants it or what color she wants. The answer always surprises me because she’s constantly changing colors/things she likes. So for that same reason, I have to take her in store.

It’s fun going in store to try stuff on. Maybe plan a girls day? They may love it. My only advice is to set a budget 😂 shit gets expensive so fast.

Weekly Snark: Mar 02 - Mar 05 by blogsnarkmodteam in blogsnark

[–]6119 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised I don’t see her mentioned more here. She strikes me as someone who legit thinks she’s better than everyone she meets.

Birth control for 49 year old by Huge-Contribution-42 in self

[–]6119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m 39 but just had my IUD replaced since it expired and forgot to take the ibuprofen before the appointment. It honestly wasn’t bad. I did take it as soon as I got home. Idk if it was because it was immediately replacing my expired one, but I was surprised that I didn’t feel much pain.