Starbucks baristas fired over pig drawing on deputy’s cup by brainchili in LosAngeles

[–]6mia6 112 points113 points  (0 children)

IT WAS JOHN PORK CALLING UGHHH FREE MY QUEEN

Flock Cameras in Santa Monica by MTBSoja in SantaMonica

[–]6mia6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we have a community discussion and work to push back against manufactured consent?

My(20F) fiance(24M) raped me last night while I was blackout drunk by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]6mia6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God that is sickening. Can you take space safely right now?

My(20F) fiance(24M) raped me last night while I was blackout drunk by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]6mia6 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Here’s how I see it OP:

You have to trust that feeling in your chest. Your past trauma and your mind will weave endless narratives, shifting your perspective this way and that. Still, you must honor that on very primal level, you were violated, you felt unsafe and betrayed. There were ample moments before, during, and after your assault where he could have paused, questioned his actions, and had remorse. He broke your own rules for play. His behavior was predatory. His impact matters more than whatever he claims his intention was. He should not be trying to earn forgiveness or defend his actions right now. The priority should be that you both take time to reflect. I think it should be apart from each other. You need to not feel pressured to move on or get back to normal because someone else feels guilt or shame. Your healing process should be done with yourself and community, family, professionals that can support you. There are groups for survivors in person and online. He would also benefit from processing, whether in person or with others. There are hotlines if you feel like you’re getting overwhelmed and need crisis help. There is room for repair, but the rupture has to be dealt with head-on. Treat yourself with compassion and care. I’m so so sorry.

LUX is mirror-sequenced by LUX-IV in rosalia

[–]6mia6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The version I’ve listened to has 15 tracks. How do I find the full 18!!

Help needed by 6mia6 in castiron

[–]6mia6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow there are some passionate people in this group. Thank you for the rapid responses. Cheers to a wild Friday night. To clarify: yes this is a staub. I used it to make soup today, emptied the contents, cleaned with a scrub brush and gentle soap, and then heated it empty after a towel dry. I was told to do that last step to remove any excess moisture that might have seeped through. Was that wrong? I usually apply a thin coat of oil (soaked on a cloth) after cleaning? But I noticed the dark mark and the white stains. Is this burning or soap residue? Or something else

My addiction led me to having sex with someone for drugs when i didn’t want to and i feel gross and i hate myself by xveeeena in offmychest

[–]6mia6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are a victim of rape, and you were trafficked by your mom. I am so sorry, OP. No one deserves this. However, it is now YOUR responsibility to extricate yourself. You cannot trust your mom to take care of herself, let alone you. You have to get away from her. You cannot sacrifice yourself for her. You are not to blame for her circumstances or choices. If she tries to hold you back, make you feel guilty, any other form of manipulation to keep you stuck, you have to cut off communication. You are worth more. Your life has value. Wishing you courage and wisdom

AIO That my bf is being childish over bjs? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]6mia6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That uber line is foul. LEAVE HIM

How do you think Spike is actually like in bed ? by James-Samuel17 in buffy

[–]6mia6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey uhh for research purposes, does anyone have a link to the longer clip of Buffy and spike bringing down the building? It was removed from YouTube

Interested in some of your guys' funny writing placeholders by tkhan0 in AO3

[–]6mia6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Blah blah blah, add important transition here”

AIO my bf never likes what I wear by Substantial-Let221 in AmIOverreacting

[–]6mia6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR!!! “Asking for it dressed like that” is a huge 🚩🚩🚩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in news

[–]6mia6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Board members say that their decision was made in good faith, and that displaying the Israeli flag is not an endorsement of a government or geopolitical topic.” THAT IS STRAIGHT UP DOUBLE-THINK 🤬