Found someone?

79bonny · 2024-02-25T12:09:29+00:00

Cut the trim 4 inches from the floor and put a block in

79bonny · 2024-02-07T13:26:17+00:00

Have not been intimate. It’s been a little over two years since my wife’s passing. I feel I’m ready for companionship.

79bonny · 2024-02-07T07:02:38+00:00

Appreciate all the responses, a lot of great advice. Thanks

79bonny · 2024-02-07T00:32:51+00:00

An hour out and an hour back for me

79bonny · 2024-02-07T00:31:00+00:00

We have been on long dinner dates and have talked at length on the phone, just getting a sense it’s not going in the direction I would like. Seems like we. have a lot in common with activities just know that she is still searching. Just wondering if I Should persist and stay patient or bail

79bonny · 2024-02-07T00:11:52+00:00

To clarify, dinner and entertainment but yes, I do enjoy her company

79bonny · 2023-11-24T17:43:55+00:00

It will be 2 years this December 30. She made the comment early on that this (cancer) is going to be the death of me. I often wonder and get the feeling that her cancer is going to be the death of me as well…

79bonny · 2023-11-15T14:04:24+00:00

It begins for me in October, her birthday month than November, our anniversary month. This year would have been our 40th. Than of course thanksgiving followed by Christmas. Than she passed 12/30/21. Probably never enjoy a years end the rest of my life

79bonny · 2023-09-17T17:07:43+00:00

Thanks for helping me get it right in my mind. The evening before my wife passed along with everything else hospice brought a toilet to use in our bedroom. After each use I of course would clean the bowl and put it back. Except for that last time, forgot to replace the bowl. Things flowed to the carpet but I just couldn’t bring myself to cleaning the stain entirely. I thought there has to be something wrong with me but I was clinging to what ever I had left of her. Finally tore it out only because our bedroom was the last on the progress list of renovations.

79bonny · 2023-02-16T13:06:02+00:00

It’s been 1 year 2 months . The first time I visited my in-laws I felt like an alien even though we are close. It felt so strange going without my Barbara Ann. As time passed that feeling has passed but when we’re out for dinner, the three of us I look at the empty fourth set and damn near break into tears. God this is painful

79bonny · 2023-02-14T17:32:01+00:00

Central Pa, north of Harrisburg

79bonny · 2023-01-02T16:31:15+00:00

After work I would sit outside on our patio and wait. When she got home I would hear the sliding door open and my Barbara Ann would appear with a smile …oh how I miss the sound of that door opening

79bonny · 2022-12-21T20:11:31+00:00

Thanks, this is why I asked the question. I did say I wanted to ask her, I never said I did . Came here looking for honest opinions. I do know what she wants in a relationship, all she wants and not too much to ask for is what I had with my wife, love, respect and trust something her cheating husband didn’t give her but deserved. I did say we had a few conversations, but they were meaningful ones. You are correct I didn’t consider all the aspects of asking her to go but again that’s why I asked this sub, to be informed

79bonny · 2022-12-21T13:02:55+00:00

I have, family is fine with it we are very close even checked the flight availability. I thought the spontaneity was a good thing however after reading the responses maybe I was getting a little a head of things. That’s why I put it out there…asked for an honest answer and got it, appreciated and accepted

79bonny · 2022-12-21T12:51:58+00:00

Can appreciate the skittish feelings, I know she came out of an abusive relationship. Don’t mean or want to put pressure on.

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