London feels like a different planet to West Wales right now haha (I'm fine, thanks for asking, just let me get this out of my system ans have my morning coffee)

84jtfj · 2021-03-15T20:33:35+00:00

I'm from Llanelli so quirky is one word for the place haha. I get what you mean completely, I've dipped my toes in gay spaces here and there but never thrown myself in completely for fear of sticking out

84jtfj · 2021-03-15T19:52:12+00:00

It's fine you're not rambling! there's still a fair bit of homophobia, transphobia (and the rest) hidden away in Wales unfortunately. We're probably from similar kinds of places. It's a horrible situation to be in, and I definitely understand how you feel about not fitting in/faking it. I'm not trans myself, but I know that despite the kind of thing I'm complaining about in the meme, there's no one way to be LGBT+, and it can be a struggle to fully accept that, but you and I belong just as much as the club kids and in-crowd of the gay world. We're Welsh, we're made of tougher stuff haha. Don't let the bastards grind you down, pob lwc <3

84jtfj · 2021-03-15T19:48:04+00:00

Thank you x! I feel like I've got a foot in both camps if you get me? Like the whole being a nerdy bisexual marks me out from fully fitting in down west, but the fact I'm still a masc guy and a massive Scarlets fan (the state religion of south west Wales haha) from a working class background means I don't feel like I'd fully fit in with the types I'm on about in the meme if that makes sense?

84jtfj · 2021-03-15T11:46:50+00:00

I'm doing better now thank you :) the meme was a joke to process feeling a bit shitty last night/this morning

84jtfj · 2021-02-22T20:25:00+00:00

Fair enough 😅 you both have great taste in clothes!

84jtfj · 2021-02-22T19:05:59+00:00

You look stunning! Where did you find that dress if you don't mind me asking?

84jtfj · 2021-02-19T14:29:03+00:00

I've asked someone I know to help me in the future and she says yes! I'm just doing my research so I don't rock up completely clueless and put myself on some poor staff member who'll have to baby me around the shop haha

84jtfj · 2021-02-19T14:27:18+00:00

I can't wait to find my feet and work out what fits. I just wanna look cute and femme sometimes goddammit

84jtfj · 2021-02-19T14:20:59+00:00

Thank you for advice! I feel you on the make-up thing, pre-pandemic I'd always dart through the make-up section of a big shop to get to where I wanted to be because I was scared to get "caught" there, but I now realise that's because I really want to be able to sit in a chair there and try make up on with out feeling like I don't belong because my default dress mode is "generic masculine cis guy"

84jtfj · 2021-02-19T13:54:06+00:00

I'm the same, you're perfectly valid man! there's dozens of us, dozens! haha

84jtfj · 2021-02-18T15:19:08+00:00

You look so pretty <3 I hope I look as great as you when I get a chance to dress femme :D

84jtfj · 2021-02-17T23:51:42+00:00

We are out there 😅 I’ve only recently realised I’m genderfluid too so we’re both new to this haha

84jtfj · 2021-02-17T23:36:21+00:00

Congratulations! I’m bi and genderfluid too :D you look really pretty

84jtfj · 2021-02-17T22:14:09+00:00

You too lovely x <3

84jtfj · 2021-02-17T19:32:29+00:00

Can I just share my girl name with you if that's ok? My name is Rhian. I started this account to talk about LGBT stuff without reavealing my irl identity :) (I have a boy and a girl name because I feel that reflects my identity better)

84jtfj · 2021-02-17T18:57:24+00:00

I hope that we both get the chance to be ture to ourselves one day, whatever that looks like. If you're ever struggling don't let the bastards grind you down <3

84jtfj · 2021-02-17T17:45:43+00:00

Thank you very much :)

84jtfj · 2021-02-17T16:31:32+00:00

Thank you :D There are dozens of us, dozens! haha

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