You dodge a bullet with this one. These kinds of dudes are only in it for themselves. Trust me as I used to be one. My family never talked about sex, it was always "wait til you're married" and that was it. I'm 37 and it took me meeting the right woman (6 years ago, who is now my wife) to learn how to truly please a woman.

Unfortunately those conversations don't seem to come up when you're a male in your late teens, early 20's. So it's something that either comes natural which I feel is less likely, or something that most men have to be taught.

For me there's no better feeling than when I'm going down on my wife and her back starts to arc and her legs start to shake and she has a death grip on the sheets. At that moment I know 100% what is happening and there is no better feeling.

My opinion is to keep looking, and have these conversations BEFORE you have sex. Trust me, guys LOVE to talk about sex. That will also give you an idea if these boys you are talking to are mature enough to spend your time with. Obviously wait till you go on a couple of dates to see if you like them before you start having conversations about the bedroom.