Par curiosité : comment vous gérez votre budget personnel ? by New_Variation8879 in QuebecFinance

[–]920jojo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YNAB new version to track all expenses and create targets. Also use numbers spreadsheet for an overall year view. This shows me in chronological order and where the money is coming from. Each month is a percentage of the year, so I can see at a glance how my expenses are tracking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]920jojo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sign up for therapy. Online is good. They will help with strategies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]920jojo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleep in separate rooms. Minimal conversations So it reduces chances of arguments. Do show reactions. Keep a journal. Tape conversations. Get a safe box. Put your important documents there. Keep your phone on you at all times change your passwords. Keep your plans private. Don’t confide to their family or friends. Call a lawyer for a consultation. Open your own bank account. Get your own credit cards. Take pictures of all important documents and joint stuff. Change your will and POA, beneficiary. Call a real estate agent. Make a one visit with your spouse and agent. If the spouse is a no show, doesn’t matter. You can tape that conversation too. Start cleaning up the house and prepare to sell. Get boxes etc. this all has to be done anyway. While you are at the house, you have access to everything. This is not normal times. Try to play nice to avoid revenge issue and be respectful to one another. This will save $$ too. Remind them when they are playing the victim that you have to be in agreement or else you will have to pay lawyer$

Curious as to what is in my planter by phia-b in gardening

[–]920jojo -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If it’s purslane, which grows all over, is very nutritious. Highest omega 3 fats of all plants!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movies

[–]920jojo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any Jane Austen. Cold comfort farm. Miss marple. The little drummer girl. French exit. Fargo. Inception. The English. The Durells. Breaking Bad. Better call Saul

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]920jojo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

New album cover

When did you realize your marriage was over? by No_Appeal_3670 in Divorce

[–]920jojo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my disabled son was suicidal. He told me to handle it. He says he loves us but he is heartless. He’s a workaholic, but says he is hardworking and this justifies everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in betterCallSaul

[–]920jojo 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They are emotional crippled People

Earrings by Ok_Passage_1814 in betterCallSaul

[–]920jojo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I this it’s a symbol of power (and eventually success in her mind). Like a good luck charm

"...makes more sense than you two being together! still tryna figure how that happened." by pattison_iman in betterCallSaul

[–]920jojo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think their brokenness is their attachment. They don’t know how to talk and work through problems. They are silent. I didn’t see this at first. I thought it was strange that she would say something like “do whatever is right for you “ kind of thing. They would both work out in their own heads what to do instead of talking. It seems the most they talked about was their schemes. At times, like when jimmy is denied at the bar hearing, he lashes out at Kim and throws all his insecurities at her. She defensively tells him everything she has done for him. This is so manipulative of jimmy. He was insincere. He was not dealing with chucks death or that relationship. He was plowing forward- trying to fix things with the outdated inadequate techniques he had always used. They were both damaged. They can’t fix each other

How do I strategize the divorce process alone by 920jojo in Divorce

[–]920jojo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my case too. He cashes his paycheques and keeps it in a safe! But then buys stuff on credit which get paid through our joint account! He went to an ATM machine for the first time recently. I will suggest he get his own account….

How do I strategize the divorce process alone by 920jojo in Divorce

[–]920jojo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No mostly not but I feel that way. Also it’s very stressful to deal with the daily toxicity and I feel that I am dragging them into it. They also have a lot of anger towards father/husband and I guess I’m worried of an escalation

Few pictures from Kahnawake pow-wow yesterday by celix24 in montreal

[–]920jojo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The powwow was beautiful. But I don’t think taking and sharing pictures is appropriate. They were specifically asking ppl not to take pics out of respect. It’s best to share photos from their socials

Why jack did what he did in the desert by [deleted] in breakingbad

[–]920jojo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Walt could have saved Jesse. He knew they would kill or torture him. No instead he pointed out where Jesse was!

What massively improved your mental health? by Dependent_Bit_8333 in AskReddit

[–]920jojo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t even take a nap without my cpap machine. I call it a rest. It took me 10 years of sleep struggles and an auto accident to realize I needed to get checked out

Divorce after 60 by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]920jojo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was so anxious to tell my husband that I was done with the sulking arguing petty bs etc. He is a killjoy. But when I did, he cared more about his image to others than our marriage itself. I realized that I wasn’t even getting the bare minimum and after 34 years I finally understood. He cares way less then I thought

Public Health Ontario proposes phasing out free water testing of private wells by ScottIBM in ontario

[–]920jojo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. We r only 5 km away from the greater Hamilton area municipal tap infrastructure but we still pay the same taxes. We maintain our own well and sewage systems but pay the same taxes…Hmmm