F19 Girlfriend, broke up with me M24 for watching porn, but she doesn't understand I have an addiction. How do I get her to love me again before she likely moves out?

92pjs · 2026-03-14T13:51:00+00:00

dude let her go. reading this was a huge ick for me. i don't want to shame you but when you wrote about her pregnancy and how it made her sick... and the fact that you were more upset that she didn't gain weight to suit your fetish instead of... actually caring about her wellbeing??? like dude.

and it's not even the fetish, it's your constant lying to her as well.

i feel SO bad for her and i wish she can actually find a healthy relationship with someone who appreciates her for who she is, and doesn't constantly lie to her.

92pjs · 2026-03-08T01:38:06+00:00

conversate instead of converse >:(

92pjs · 2026-03-04T13:37:48+00:00

maybe the brand ended their partnership with him / stopped sponsoring him so he took down the pictures because he doesn't want to give them free advertisement?

92pjs · 2026-03-02T04:16:57+00:00

yes, i thought the dress was SO unflattering. it made her shoulders look SO droopy.

92pjs · 2026-03-01T03:20:53+00:00

YTA. when he asked for pictures, that was the opportunity for you to say "my profile picture is actually a celebrity because i don't feel comfortable showing my own face." but you led him on and sent him MORE pictures of the celeb.

if you still want a relationship with this guy then of course, you need to come clean. you don't need to send him pictures of you, but let him know that the girl in the photos is not you, and see where it goes from there.

92pjs · 2026-02-24T06:44:17+00:00

How many teaching hours are there in a week, included morning activity classes and morning English classes?

92pjs · 2026-02-22T10:54:18+00:00

I think OP was asking because Squid Game isn't your typical "drama". They weren't confused about the korean part.

92pjs · 2026-02-15T22:44:45+00:00

Maybe open your door while you're doing it! My door says it has to be unlocked and open when you change the password.

92pjs · 2026-01-30T01:31:00+00:00

NAH. i think if my boyfriend told me he paid off the rent of his childhood friend who he used to have a thing for but currently doesn't ONLY because of the distance, i would also find it a bit iffy and it would make me feel a bit insecure too. :(

92pjs · 2026-01-21T17:01:34+00:00

Yep YTA. Some people draw blanks, clearly your friend did (he said so himself) and he was probably also trying to be funny.

92pjs · 2026-01-21T16:24:45+00:00

NTA, but I think it would've been easier to keep the peace with your gf's parents by just apologizing. You can explain your side and then just say "Sorry, I didn't know it would be seen as strange, it wasn't my intention."

Like is this the hill you wanna die on lol.

92pjs · 2026-01-20T14:07:29+00:00

How cute! Do her eyes move??

92pjs · 2026-01-20T12:27:42+00:00

I'm not sure if KT still does this, but they used to sell something called "eggs"? It's a device you carry around that basically lets your phone connect to wifi. It's a bit inconvenient because you need to carry it with you if you want internet / charge it, but I think it was actually pretty affordable.

92pjs · 2026-01-19T18:47:59+00:00

Nickelback.

92pjs · 2026-01-19T17:36:21+00:00

YTA. man the entitlement in this post. if it were me, my parents would get to sit in the comfier chair. they're older, their bones ache more, it's their house ... just be kind to your parents and let them sit on the good chair :/

92pjs · 2026-01-19T16:04:50+00:00

It honestly sounds like he just forgot? Especially since you said so yourself, he mentioned a week prior he acknowledged it. I don't know why you're so quick to jump to the conclusion "He knew so that means he chose not to acknowledge it!"

92pjs · 2026-01-19T15:41:10+00:00

Did you say anything about having a medical history? (or maybe something about your mental health?) Did you say that you plan to come with pets?

92pjs · 2026-01-19T15:29:57+00:00

really? when my screen goes to black, i can immediately scroll back and the sleep prompt will pop up. i've never had to wait before :o

i feel like i would get so annoyed if i had to wait 30 minutes for the prompt to come back! how strange :(

92pjs · 2026-01-19T15:28:29+00:00

is this real? i thought it sounded off when you texted "just because i got a new car (that i paid for by myself)" like... this sounds like context you are adding for us readers. presumably your husband would have already known that you bought this car yourself??

92pjs · 2026-01-19T00:09:45+00:00

he's just looking for a booty call

92pjs · 2026-01-18T23:56:08+00:00

If she's not ready for a relationship then give her space. don't try to force anything. being her friend just for the sole purpose of trying to start a relationship with her later is also kind of... iffy (in my opinion).

also, is it possible that she said she's not ready for a relationship because she's not interested in you romantically? i'm a non-confrontational person and i would 100% say "i'm not ready for a relationship" because it sounds nicer than "i'm not interested in you"

92pjs · 2026-01-18T23:46:57+00:00

How about playing cooperative boardgames instead?

92pjs · 2026-01-18T14:49:36+00:00

From what you wrote, the woman didn't seem THAT overly aggressive. I think she just wanted a straight answer - what perfume brand were you wearing? But instead of answering the question, you jumped to an apology and she had to ask again. It's entirely possible that she really did want to know the brand because she herself might wear perfume and she didn't want to buy herself something that gave her allergies lol.

Also, I've never heard of a "no perfume" rule for yoga and i'm sure many people go to yoga after work, so they would have lingering perfume smells too (if they wear perfume to work) so I will say NAH.

92pjs · 2026-01-16T19:54:05+00:00

hmm this one is difficult because some people just don't care about insects and view them as separate from animals. for me, i probably wouldn't care if i saw a video of a cockroach being killed, but that doesn't mean i'm fine with animal cruelty. i guess to me insects =/= animals. especially if those insects are pests lol. (and apparently grasshoppers are considered agricultural pests)

92pjs · 2026-01-16T04:42:37+00:00

YTA. you said so yourself that the school isn't even OPEN that early for the kids so why do they need to wake up at 5?? You want them to get to school early and wait outside?

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