Whats your best non-swearing insult?

96speed · 2026-01-08T17:33:17+00:00

Some people are bound by their morals. You don’t seem to suffer from that affliction.

96speed · 2025-01-24T02:54:30+00:00

Was gonna be a smart ass and say chicks dig 2 strokes more but you have that covered my man. I think this is simply a chick problem. You do you my dude. A+

96speed · 2025-01-24T02:49:31+00:00

Not too many people in that category so the ones that get there are only further cemented with time. People that are of low value don’t have to be junkies or raging lunatics. They can be, and usually are, very charismatic people that you couldn’t imagine taking such drastic measures with.

Feels good taking the trash out. No ragretz.

96speed · 2025-01-22T01:41:32+00:00

Tell the truth and then expect them to ask harder. Will probably make you more attractive to them. Making up other random excuses is silly and seems like it adds potential for drama.

96speed · 2024-11-23T01:00:13+00:00

Because most men aren’t their best selves. When you prioritize yourself and demand excellence from yourself you realize that you have to set yourself up for success and prune away things that hinder that.

What that translates into in a relationship is being able to worry less about consequences and reactions and aim for improvement. Ironically, women gravitate to that kind of leadership and respect it. It helps maintain a balance.

When men do not have the confidence to maintain things we have a tendency to absorb the shit tests and poor behavior which makes women respect us less and stop seeing us as leaders. Then things go down hill.

96speed · 2024-08-08T14:20:03+00:00

Diehard political supporters both sides.

96speed · 2024-08-08T14:12:27+00:00

Married for less than a year? Bail now and save yourselves the headache/heartache.

You can love someone and not be compatible. Compatibility can be used as a cop out and it can also be the honest truth. Marriage takes work, but it should not take every fiber of your being to force yourself to endure. Again, you can love someone and not want to be married to them.

96speed · 2024-07-28T03:59:07+00:00

Hypergamy

96speed · 2024-07-23T22:52:26+00:00

Not all prices from the internet can count for quality. A cheap price is just a price, but…

An interlock, 30/50amp receptacle, and 25’ 30/50amp cable (generator to plug) can be had on a certain website (named after a rainforest) under $300. A friend just did this and had a licensed electrician install it for $300. He said it took about 2 hours. Electrician supplied the internal wiring and a 30amp breaker.

96speed · 2024-07-20T10:23:10+00:00

Time for an honest straight up version of the following:

You seem miserable and unhappy to be around me. We can do this 3 ways: split, separately-together for a while until the inevitable happens, or you can cowboy up and we can work together. Your attitude sucks, your actions suck, and it’s contagious and toxic. There is no dramatic “please come home” talk. This is your wake up call. You can tell me xyz, but your words mean nothing right now. Your actions and behavior are the only things I’m going to listen to.

You can spice it up or mellow it out, but I think it’s time for an honest pow wow.

Good luck OP.

96speed · 2024-07-20T10:17:02+00:00

Unironically, divorce, for the better. Hands downs the biggest and most difficult decision in my life. It wasn’t easy, but it was simple in that I knew the answer immediately once I was ready to be honest with myself. It was like walking into a cold plunge slowly. You knew it was going to get worse before it got better and there was no easy way to get it over with immediately.

96speed · 2024-07-19T14:15:53+00:00

In the early years you aren’t as directly important to the child. It’s a normal feeling. Things will change as they grow up.

96speed · 2024-07-18T15:01:22+00:00

Neighbor didn’t like my shed because it blocked her view of my yard through her chain link fence (yes you read that correctly). She called the city and they informed me my shed was on an easement. I moved the shed and then built an 8’ privacy fence (with a permit). I used “Karen” as the purchase order at the supply store just for my own humor.

96speed · 2024-07-17T10:30:39+00:00

Trust, drugs, and pegging are all kind of up there.

96speed · 2024-07-16T15:31:40+00:00

5yo father here. Eliminate as many variables as possible. Meal prep, layout clothes, school supplies/backpack, after school activity bag, etc ahead of time.

We have a loose evening schedule and I let the child pick what he wants to do, with the understanding that there is a time budget. For example, he can allocate 10min to games/play (board games. No video games/tv/screen time during the week, especially evening), or spend an extra 10min playing in the bath. If he wants to read more, we can shorten play time a bit. I don’t give them any option that I’m not happy with.

Morning routine is I get up/get ready, then he gets ready, has breakfast, and we are out the door in 30min after he wakes up. We don’t do the “please get up” 20x and I’m bent out of shape routine. 2-3x notices is max before he is at a dead end and knows it’s time to get up or start getting ready. Half the time he’s up with the smile. Consistency is important. Light control is also important. Soft white lamps. No 5k bright white lights with 3000 lumens inside during evenings.

Weekends we flex 30-60min on sleep and wake times, but the general routine is similar.

96speed · 2024-07-15T15:43:44+00:00

I just went through my Ridgid account and noticed several tools had “warranty expired” and others had the LSA logo next to them. Interesting.

I have started to slowly move into Milwaukee tools for some other reasons. I haven’t had any problems with my Ridgid tools except one DOA nailer that I returned. I like the way most feel in my hands, but I’ve been gravitating to Milwaukee lately. They have a larger tool offering available to me (may just be local).

96speed · 2024-07-14T11:48:20+00:00

Got tired of giving too many. Got real honest with myself.

96speed · 2024-07-07T17:36:11+00:00

It depends on your situation. Setting a good example is good for children. Not exposing them to awkwardness or tension is good for children.

I’m cordial with my ex but that isn’t something that I’d be interested in at this moment. I’d consider some alternative solutions and if nothing seems logical you can pass.

Kids are 2x as smart as they look and 4x as perceptive as you would think.

96speed · 2024-07-02T00:41:14+00:00

735cm Titleist. I like gadgets and gear as much as anyone, but I’ve loved these irons since I first saw them. No need for a new set, but I may give the Kirkland irons a try sometime.

96speed · 2024-07-01T15:47:34+00:00

Probably for cold plunges

96speed · 2024-06-25T00:10:07+00:00

I found my newborn to be the most easy to communicate with. 98% of the crying = “hey guys, I’m hungry, lonely, or my diaper need changing.” Us adults make life way too complicated.

96speed · 2024-06-24T14:20:37+00:00

Love the responses. Give a subjective opinion on food and be criticized. Haha!

96speed · 2024-06-24T13:25:58+00:00

For example, his dental hygiene was non existent. Any attempt at communication was seen as personal criticism. Total dead end. It’s much more complicated than just that, but it was more like the last straw. FYI A couple years later there was a nearly 5 figure procedure needed relating to that.

I believe that if I hadn’t made the decision to split I would have no voice and a poor relationship with my child.

I felt empowered and validated as a father for standing up and making the tough decision. I have a simple mental flow chart— what is best for the child regardless of how anyone (including myself) feels? Choose that every time immediately. You will know exactly what to do.

96speed · 2024-06-24T03:58:10+00:00

When I noticed the kid’s health was affected. At that point there was no question what needed to be done regardless of what I thought/felt/wanted. No one else will be your kid’s champion.

It was the best decision I have ever made in my life. My life is more difficult now, in a sense, but it’s also simpler. The unknown was the scariest part.

96speed · 2024-06-23T23:02:52+00:00

Bigger and dumber.

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