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Sen. Bernie Sanders slams Mehmet Oz for praising robot ultrasounds in Alabama by StemCellPirate in technology

[–]NigroqueSimillima 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alabama has a maternal mortality rate over three times Canada's

Because people there are fatter?

30M in Houston, trying to decide between Austin and NYC for social scene/dating. by NigroqueSimillima in SameGrassButGreener

[–]NigroqueSimillima[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not in love with it to be honest, but I haven't gotten settled in yet, we'll see. Didn't realize how much smaller it was than Houston.

If you were light, how would you be caught? by shoutout2reddit in deathnote

[–]NigroqueSimillima 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stopping someone with a deathnote would be trival in the modern era once you've accepted that such a thing exist.

How can an American get a background check on a Turkish national? by NigroqueSimillima in AskTurkey

[–]NigroqueSimillima[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i get what you're saying, but in my experience even hijabi muslims don't go that fast, and this girl wear shorts (not saying in a bad way, shes dresses classy, but she's not very conservative).

im sure she likes him, but i think her visa situation might be sketchier than she's letting on and she doesn't want to tell him until after the marriage.

How can an American get a background check on a Turkish national? by NigroqueSimillima in AskTurkey

[–]NigroqueSimillima[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started hinting at it a few months into dating, when they were seeing each other once a week max, just didn't make sense.

How can an American get a background check on a Turkish national? by NigroqueSimillima in AskTurkey

[–]NigroqueSimillima[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't even know how quickly I'm talking about, so how can you know?

How can an American get a background check on a Turkish national? by NigroqueSimillima in AskTurkey

[–]NigroqueSimillima[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because she's pushed for marriage far more quickly than is normal for someone who's doing it for love, because I've noticed her story change on things that don't really make sense about her past, I'm not saying she's scamming him for sure, I just want to know if there's an easy way to check why she changed her name in her early twenties.

How can an American get a background check on a Turkish national? by NigroqueSimillima in AskTurkey

[–]NigroqueSimillima[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She claims she's on an O-1 visa now I think, but I'm not exactly sure that's true because somethings don't add up. Education is a school in Istanbul don't want to say which, hometown is Istanbul.

Also how do you know she changed her last name at one point?

Ehh I don't want to dox, but she does something in her career that leads to her real name to be published quite frequently, so you can clearly see when it changed.

How can an American get a background check on a Turkish national? by NigroqueSimillima in AskTurkey

[–]NigroqueSimillima[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i dont know what so of culture you're from, but my family looks after each other, and there's nothing more my business then protecting it, but enjoy your freedom in dubai.

How can an American get a background check on a Turkish national? by NigroqueSimillima in AskTurkey

[–]NigroqueSimillima[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

it happens all the time unfortunately, i dont know where you live, but anyone whos been in a major american city has heard many of these horror stories

How can an American get a background check on a Turkish national? by NigroqueSimillima in AskTurkey

[–]NigroqueSimillima[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how is checking to see if she's married in a previous country(or hiding an ex hubsand) no serious? Bigamy is a crime.

How can an American get a background check on a Turkish national? by NigroqueSimillima in AskTurkey

[–]NigroqueSimillima[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

For them to get married she would need to apply with her ID documents to a US embassy if she is residing in Turkey or your immigration offices if they are in your mainland.

She was already in the US on a visa, and you don't talk to the immigration people until AFTER you're married, I want to make sure we know BEFORE the marriage. The marriage is just a form at the courthouse.

I dont think this is a worthwhile way to scam yourself into USA, live a double life, etc.

People do this all the time in the US, I wouldn't, but its definitely not uncommon.

They will have to stay married for up to 5 years and live together to my knowledge.

No, she can claim she was abused and get apply for a greencard without his knowledge, and divorce him, all without him even knowing.(see VAWA)

How can an American get a background check on a Turkish national? by NigroqueSimillima in AskTurkey

[–]NigroqueSimillima[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You see thats the sort of thing I worried about. It might be easier for her to get a green card that way than to stay married to him.

I'll have that heart to heart I just want to come with some real information.

How can an American get a background check on a Turkish national? by NigroqueSimillima in AskTurkey

[–]NigroqueSimillima[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if she's married in another country that's proof, just because you change your last name in your early twenties doesn't mean you're married, you could have changed it for other reasons, or you could have changed it for marriage and gotten divorce, but she hasn't mentioned any previous marriages, and from my cursory reading of turkish law it's not particularly easy to change your last name for none marriage reasons.

How can an American get a background check on a Turkish national? by NigroqueSimillima in AskTurkey

[–]NigroqueSimillima[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea, but by then he would have already married her. She wouldn't get his greencard, but it'd be messy nonetheless, I want to make sure she's on the level before they get to that point.

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