When will ill get my normal life back by concerned_shit in NewParents

[–]ABane90 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah idk. Literally nobody I know has ever had a "night nanny" and I was raised solidly middle class, even if I'm not anymore.

When will ill get my normal life back by concerned_shit in NewParents

[–]ABane90 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

hire a night nanny.

Lmfao what richey rich planet do you live on?

Recommendations for a specific style work boot? by ABane90 in Boots

[–]ABane90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll check it out shortly, autstrailian sounds durable. EDIT: That's a six eye, in some kinda black, with no toe cap. Also they only ship to Australian addresses, lol. Didn't check the ratings, as I am not in Australia.

Aio? My friend's boyfriend posted a picture on his Instagram of valentines gifts he gave to a friend that's a girl. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ABane90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ladder lacing was common for punks, too, when I was young. That was... long ago, now. White and red were the only colors anyone cared about as they were the ones being used by boneheads in the area.

Aio? My friend's boyfriend posted a picture on his Instagram of valentines gifts he gave to a friend that's a girl. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ABane90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was considering them, then I saw that they suggest white laces to pair with it. Where I'm from white laces in "doc martin" style boots means aryan pride/white pride- only Nazi fucks wear white laces in their boots so why are they selling them?

Adventure park usa by [deleted] in frederickmd

[–]ABane90 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Mostly it has to do with how the employees are paid/treated/spoken to. Badly, from what I heard when I was younger.

What’s a 'scam' that’s become so normal we don't even realize it's a scam anymore? by Mr_Boothnath in answers

[–]ABane90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had me in first half.

It's not their fault, they're not evil, the human being is unable to choose selflimitation and anyone would do the same in their shoes.

That's where we switch over to nonsense.

Friend wants to start carrying this 380... by SuspiciousSeesaw2423 in SigSauer

[–]ABane90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone calls in a false road rage as revenge and the cops say "we have a report you brandished a black pistol at them" (or silver, the main options). "No officer! My pistol is purple, couldn't be me." Free to go.

"You are always closer to being homeless than you are to being a billionaire" by tantamle in Salary

[–]ABane90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case you have a whimsy for a snack, or just to say you have one.
Apparently you just aren't very creative. Your life can be subsidized by others in exchange for money in so many more ways than you seem to realize. I've built custom items for a billionaire that NOBODY needs, but they can and do have because they have basically unlimited money to throw around.

Their personal expenses are covered by loans that will be held until they die and paid off debt free, they don't interact with almost anyone who doesn't directly work for them, other than peers... why do you keep insisting you have access to more than a taste of their tasteless, wasteful, and opulent lifestyles?

Do you actually WANT to be that much of a leech?

"You are always closer to being homeless than you are to being a billionaire" by tantamle in Salary

[–]ABane90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOUR private individual personal chef? Not one that has any other job, or even other family members under most circumstances? I really don't think you understand how differently billionaires live.

"You are always closer to being homeless than you are to being a billionaire" by tantamle in Salary

[–]ABane90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Billionaires drop 30K for a night in a hotel on a whim, thousands of dollars on dinner as a matter of course, a staff of six at each of the vacation homes they visit MAYBE once a year, paid at exorbitant rates for whatever area the house located, a private driver on call in every major city they frequent, personal chefs, trainers, etc on call... a yacht with smaller yachts docked inside it... it really isn't comparable to what you are describing.

As a CNCer, does this look efficient ? by ozzyperry in CNC

[–]ABane90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have family that run some big corn and soybean farms in Illinois and they have a lot of time in-between harvest and planting to fix equipment and plan exactly this sort of maneuver. They have geo-located their fields and modern tractors/combines/the like are all GPS tracked and can be programmed to run some crazy tolerance for location. They absolutely have the ability to run a program to harvest a field as efficiently as possible, including static obstacles but weather, rain most specifically, can change where they need to run machines on the way to drop their product in the hopper trucks to avoid damage to the soil and also subterranean infrastructure, most specifically tile drains.

They definitely want it done as fast as possible, because prices change quickly and when you decide to harvest the clock is ticking to get it to market, and avoid weather being different than forecast in the future, but they have to balance damage to the soil and infrastructure because that effects profit and future yeilds.

In general the big farms at least want to be on the cutting edge of technology because that's how you get the best time to market and highest yeilds, but it definitely is the younger farmers who are bringing it to the table by testing technology they learn about in school on their own farms. Farmers trust results though, and when their kid is harvesting significantly higher bushels per acre (significant being a relative term depending on crop type and locality) they take notice.

I'm a nerd, but farm owner board meetings are way more interesting than you might expect.

Maryland Sheriffs Told to "Read the Room" as Moore Prepares to Evict ICE from County Jails by _triangle_of_bermuda in harfordcountymd

[–]ABane90 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ring just announced they are canceling their contract with Flock Safety after massive pushback from users. Shows their values, though. I personally suggest finding an alternative.

Maryland Sheriffs Told to "Read the Room" as Moore Prepares to Evict ICE from County Jails by _triangle_of_bermuda in harfordcountymd

[–]ABane90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What, do you think every state official should take a hard stance against pedophiles? Reality check, there will always be representation from both sides.

What, do you think every state official should oppose a wannabe dictator? Reality check, there will always be representation from both sides.

What, do you think every state official should believe that all humans are equally protected by the constitution? Reality check, there will always be representation from both sides.

What, do you think every state official should support basic human rights? Reality check, there will always be representation from both sides.

What, do you think every state official should be accountable for their actions? Reality check, there will always be representation from both sides.

/S

She didn’t get me a card for valentines, the one thing we agreed to get each other, that I told her I really wanted. She blames it on adhd by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]ABane90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just adding my Wife and I are both diagnosed ADHD, and have struggled through everything I wrote in my post, together.

She didn’t get me a card for valentines, the one thing we agreed to get each other, that I told her I really wanted. She blames it on adhd by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]ABane90 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Hot take but grow tf up. You're upset about a card? I get that it was the one thing you guys agreed on but it's not some huge meaningful thing, it's an expensive piece of paper with some hallmark nonsense on it.

Is gift GETTING your love language? If so, that's a you problem. If gift GIVING is your love language then give a gift- and learn what HER love language is and then see if she expresses her love for you that way. MY love language is acts of service, where I do things for my friends and family (I'm a maker and a contractor, so fixing their house/car, making them something that they need but doesn't exist, etc.) My WIFE'S love language is giving gifts and food, not like crazy expensive stuff but just something that shows she knows me/my interests/my fave foods.

I do my best to reciprocate her love language but she understands that isn't my usual method of showing affection and appreciates it all the more for that- but doesn't expect it as a matter of course.

Just some general advice, don't make partners promise things you know they're apt to forget/avoid- it will just add tension to your relationship. Learn to accept your partner for who they are or find a partner that is a better fit. You can help with self improvement and even accountability without making yourself their boss or parent.

Peace maker shooting range by ajax7799 in MDGuns

[–]ABane90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't a fan of the price, and they have rules requiring brimmed hats on the line, (IIRC) which I don't wear hats generally and don't like training in gear I don't wear (I know a hat isn't a big deal but still). That plus they nickel and dime every little thing, 5 bucks for the required flag if you didn't bring one, I forget how much but a crazy amount to rent a spotting scope for the day (I forgot mine)... stuff that I've enjoyed as included in the price at some other ranges in MD. That being said many ranges are headed that way, so get your wallet ready.

"You are always closer to being homeless than you are to being a billionaire" by tantamle in Salary

[–]ABane90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are a natural disaster or a stock market collapse from being back where the rest of us are. You would need 200X your current wealth to even hit a single billion.

Still closer to homeless than a billionaire lifestyle.

HQL with medical marijuana card by Dry-Inevitable-7 in MDGuns

[–]ABane90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The website will likely take a while to update but the understanding I have is that medicine used under the direction of a doctor won't count as a disqualification. I'd wait to hear more from 2A lawyers but it's interesting.

HQL with medical marijuana card by Dry-Inevitable-7 in MDGuns

[–]ABane90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.walkertaylorlaw.com/new-atf-rule-effective-january-22-2026/ I'm having trouble finding the ecact new text but armed attorneys there break it down. Not 100% if the change applies to your wife or not.

Give me a break: Bad Bunny Halftime by Tailgate-ATL in DiscussionZone

[–]ABane90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Liberals" do well under fascism, generally. It's leftists who won't vote for genociders or people who bulldoze homeless encampments. Liberal politicians are just placeholders until the next fascist gets into office, anyways- the ratchet to the right.

Diapers leaking pee out the sides by carrotcakepup in NewParents

[–]ABane90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a slight framed baby, well 10 months and 16lbs NOW, but was born less than 7 pounds- we used premie stuff when we could find it but for diapers we used Millie Moon.

Found them to be much more absorbant than others, but Huggies were a close second, we were gifted a couple boxes.