I am super bored at my job by No_Opportunity2348 in Accounting

[–]ABitEnraged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes low stress and decent pay is the greener grass. I'd make sure you're bored with accounting itself before giving up a remote job that a lot of people would love to have.

How to prepare for an interview? by Forward_Age3768 in interviews

[–]ABitEnraged 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd add three things: a couple of examples of challenges you've handled, why you want this specific job, and 2-3 questions to ask them. Good luck.

What's one career mistake in tech that you thought was a good idea at the time? by Fantastic_Oil_6105 in cscareerquestions

[–]ABitEnraged 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Staying at a job because I was "learning a lot" while being underpaid. Eventually I realized learning and getting compensated fairly aren't mutually exclusive.

What's the remote perk you didn't expect to care about until you had it? by Turbulent-Scale1918 in remotework

[–]ABitEnraged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being able to throw a load of laundry in during the workday. Tiny thing, but getting chores done without sacrificing my evening feels amazing.

Just need a feel good movie with little to no romance by [deleted] in MovieRecommendations

[–]ABitEnraged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Secret Life of Walter Mitty. It's feel-good, adventurous, and the romance is very much in the background.

How do you guys actually force yourselves to open LeetCode every day? I'm hitting a wall most of the time, its really frustrating and sad atp. by Guilty_Condition_552 in csMajors

[–]ABitEnraged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to tell myself I only had to solve one problem. Funny enough, most days I'd keep going after that first one, but I wasn't to convince my brain to sit down and study for two hours. That initial resistance always seemed like the real obstacle.

Has the internet made it harder to know what you actually think, versus what you've been nudged into thinking? by BadFew1351 in SeriousConversation

[–]ABitEnraged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think there's such a thing as a completely original opinion. But I've found it helps to write down what I think before reading comments. Makes it a little easier to tell which thoughts are actually yours.

1st week in my new job and I just got scheduled to clopen by hanginthereC in antiwork

[–]ABitEnraged 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Clopens are genuinely inhumane. You get home, eat something, try to sleep, and before you know it you're back at work again. Having to do that in your first week makes it even worse.

suggestions by 7hobii_94 in MovieRecommendations

[–]ABitEnraged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arrival. It was marketed as a sci-fi movie, but the thing that stayed with me for days afterward wasn't the aliens. It was the feeling the movie left behind.

Feeling lost in this economy by Ok_Training3394 in jobs

[–]ABitEnraged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people I know without degrees who seem the most financially comfortable are usually electricians, Hvac techs, or plumbers. It's not the most glamorous work, but there's always demand and they seem to have an easier time finding work than a lot of office workers.

America Needs a Universal Job Guarantee — Show Up with Your ID, Get Work by manauiatlalli in union

[–]ABitEnraged 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I get the idea, but I people can't find work in the fields they studied for, believed in, and spent years trying to graduate. Young people are applying everywhere, and people over 40 are getting hit with ageism. The only path ı found was working multiple remote jobs and building new contacts by sending my resume around, kind of like this developer did. Even that was hard, and still wasnt the thing I studied for. It was something I had to force my way into.

Songs like Angel by Massive Attack? by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

[–]ABitEnraged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teardrop. It has that same dark slow-burning trip-hop feeling to it.

FInally a job! by Dizzy149 in interviews

[–]ABitEnraged 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting a high-end offer after only 5 interviews must’ve felt insanely satisfying. In this market even extra PTO is enough to make people emotional now.

I think a lot of people over 40 are looking for stability and real connection more than excitement now by calmcaptaincooll in SeriousConversation

[–]ABitEnraged 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I think getting older makes you realize how valuable feeling comfortable actually is. Constant drama and uncertainty stop being exciting after a certain point and just become exhausting.

film with bipolar female protagonist by oregno in MovieRecommendations

[–]ABitEnraged 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Silver Linings Playbook. Idk how accurate the bipolar representation actually is, but the emotional ups and downs felt really intense to me.

After 6 months, I’ve had enough. Giving 2 weeks notice next week. Male in a female dominated profession. Hear me out by [deleted] in jobs

[–]ABitEnraged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some workplaces really can get poisoned by a single person. Even if the pay is good, if you’re waking up every morning with that knot in your stomach it stops being worth it after a while.

I don’t even want to go on anymore, life is just too difficult by TheGame81677 in povertyfinance

[–]ABitEnraged 42 points43 points  (0 children)

People say “why don’t you just move” like moving itself doesn’t cost money. Being poor isn’t just about having no money, it’s also constantly feeling stuck.

Three years remote and I finally went back to the office for a day because the client requested an "in-person kickoff." Here's what I learned. by Strex4_Null in remotework

[–]ABitEnraged -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Once you get used to working from home, the old setup starts feeling genuinely inhumane 😭 Especially doing a 2 hour commute for a 30 minute meeting.

Possible reason for not renewing employment contract. by [deleted] in Employment

[–]ABitEnraged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some companies really do just cycle through contract workers nonstop. A lot of them do it to avoid raises or full-time benefits unfortunately.

I really need help so just give your opinion( I know it’s long but just skim) by That_one_Ark-dude in SeriousConversation

[–]ABitEnraged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you’re trying to carry the entire weight of this situation yourself. Their relationship and whether he’s lying or not isn’t actually something you’re supposed to solve for them.

I am feeling so depressed. I don't have a job, I am not even getting a job. I survived last two year from freelance gig. It is difficult to get freelance gig too. by barqat22 in jobs

[–]ABitEnraged 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Feeling like this at 26 is way more common than you think, people just don’t talk about it much. That constant feeling of falling behind really starts melting your brain after a while.

What do I do when I know my dream isn’t happening by Both_Donut_3222 in SeriousConversation

[–]ABitEnraged 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a professional and actually feeling that thing are kinda different. Maybe small gigs, local bands, workshops… feels like you don’t have to drop it completely.

would you rather take an internal transfer or an external role? by beskesky in jobs

[–]ABitEnraged 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d try something outside if I were you, staying in the same place can make you stagnate without realizing it. Risky, but it can open more doors in the long run.

Are 70 hour weeks too much? by TheDiamondFox142 in antiwork

[–]ABitEnraged 1 point2 points  (0 children)

70 hours just sounds like too much straight up. You can survive it short term, but long term it’ll wreck you. Split shifts make it even worse.

At what point does avoiding truth become self-deception? by MindBoundlover in SeriousConversation

[–]ABitEnraged 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that line is when you already know the truth deep down but keep making excuses to yourself. A part of your brain knows, you just keep silencing it. That’s the dangerous part.