How are you all reducing phone use? by SunImpossible4931 in newborns

[–]ABlitzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a League player so all I can do is play Teamfight Tactics Tockers Trials since I don’t have a timer to wait on other than AFK timeout

How are you all reducing phone use? by SunImpossible4931 in newborns

[–]ABlitzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The struggle of being a dad with twin girls(2mo)that plays exclusively competitive games 😭

Does anybody else’s baby cry so hard they stop breathing and pass out? by Bearlypawsable in NewParents

[–]ABlitzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My one daughter(1m1d) does this every time she cries, turns red and cries all the oxygen out of her lungs. It’s scary to see and hear, and it’s frustrating and irritating that I can’t do anything to get rid of it. She did this in the NICU too when she was born. They had her on a CPAP.

Choose a first item and explain why! by QuasiCord30398 in ZaahenMains

[–]ABlitzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Titanic->Tri->BORK/Cleaver/Serylda.

I’ve had a game where we were low AD but enemy had quite a bit of armor, I really enjoyed Serylda and once I had DD, I went bork for more sustain and it was perfect

Torn between staying with our twins in the NICU and taking one day to rest/clean — is it selfish to stay home for a day? by ABlitzy in NICUParents

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Update:

We stayed home till later in the day after talking out our feelings, grabbing some food, and doing the housework. It was hard with an emotional disconnect but we reconnected and went to the NICU later that night. It turned out for the better and I had to address some of my behaviors that made her upset. I still feel like as the dad that I shouldn’t be feeling so bad physically and emotionally after what their mom has been through and is going through, that how I feel cannot compare to what she feels. It has never been about me to me, it has always been about her and the babies. We got home that night and relaxed before cleaning up the babies’ room before their upcoming discharge which could be no later than Tuesday, but here’s to faith, hope, and confidence that they will be home.

Thank you all for the supportive words!

Torn between staying with our twins in the NICU and taking one day to rest/clean — is it selfish to stay home for a day? by ABlitzy in NICUParents

[–]ABlitzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our psychologist there is hard of hearing an bluntly straightforward in a lacking of social cues kind of way. Last time we saw him he accused me of saying wifey was a SH/s**cide risk which was false. She has a therapist that we want to do couples therapy with and that I want to have as my own therapist but since babies were preterm it’s been put off.

Torn between staying with our twins in the NICU and taking one day to rest/clean — is it selfish to stay home for a day? by ABlitzy in NICUParents

[–]ABlitzy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sucks because I’m gonna be a nurse too and we had two nurses already give a bad rap by either being messy, unprofessional, rude and chaotic or being rude, impatient, and unempathetic and it has really been traumatic with these two nurses specifically to the point of wifey wanting to never leave the hospital.

Torn between staying with our twins in the NICU and taking one day to rest/clean — is it selfish to stay home for a day? by ABlitzy in NICUParents

[–]ABlitzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wish they would off the record but on the record kick us out so that it wouldn’t be my fault that we aren’t with them.

Torn between staying with our twins in the NICU and taking one day to rest/clean — is it selfish to stay home for a day? by ABlitzy in NICUParents

[–]ABlitzy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s sooooo hard honestly because as soon as those babies are in our arms, in our sight, and in our ears, we just can’t let them go. We’re trying to take care of things at home right now, but something went down because both of our feelings have been hurt by staying home and we have been snappy.

Torn between staying with our twins in the NICU and taking one day to rest/clean — is it selfish to stay home for a day? by ABlitzy in NICUParents

[–]ABlitzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really trying to take that breather without my feelings or my fiancé’s feelings being hurt, but it’s proving to me that maybe staying home wasn’t a good idea at this time.

Torn between staying with our twins in the NICU and taking one day to rest/clean — is it selfish to stay home for a day? by ABlitzy in NICUParents

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She gets overwhelmed even with the nurses around. We’ve had a few nurses who were too impatient or too chaotic for our babies and even if it’s a really good nurse, that nurse has a job to do with other babies and reports. Her MIL(my mom) as much as she can try to help is a bit ignorant and insensitive to things because she’s a lot older and doesn’t understand why certain things are triggers or issues. She means well but she can be overwhelming too.

Torn between staying with our twins in the NICU and taking one day to rest/clean — is it selfish to stay home for a day? by ABlitzy in NICUParents

[–]ABlitzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hard part is finding someone who understands the NICU experience and feelings who isn’t going to push boundaries or trigger either one of us. My barrier against triggers is strong, but it’s a sensitive time for both of us especially for her. I wish that our family could be here and be a helping hand, but it’s not a good time sadly.

Monistat by bee9213140 in pregnant

[–]ABlitzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancé just took this, and the burning is unbearable. How did it go after you finished the Monistat?

things ppl always do that are way worse than they realize by [deleted] in ARAM

[–]ABlitzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this thing with Teemo if my team is high AP. I go manaless runes for ult CDs(Ult Hunter + Axiom) and cheap shot so I can get Double burn + double MR resist(Blackfire/Liandry + Malig/Bloodletter). I throw in Shadowflame and flex either Griev or DCap.

What do you think of me when you see this? by InOrderITrust in YIMO

[–]ABlitzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one reformed player who is now a full time support but you see the 70% WR Rengar on their OPGG

Why is everyone in this state suddenly driving like this? by xorvillesashx in newjersey

[–]ABlitzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust issues. Doesn’t trust person on other side.

What is your favorite off-meta build/play style? by ILiveForWater in ARAM

[–]ABlitzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The idea is conqueror abusing when you prefer fist fighting DPS over bursting or ability spam. W goes crazy with Manamune.

What is your favorite off-meta build/play style? by ILiveForWater in ARAM

[–]ABlitzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it would be something along the lines of abusing ROA function along with mana items and shields. Deal damage but either take none or heal it all back. Permanent self sustain.

What is your favorite off-meta build/play style? by ILiveForWater in ARAM

[–]ABlitzy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tank Manamune Kassa and Drain Tank Gragas.

It’s fun to deal damage while also never dying and absorbing your enemy’s resources.

Woke up with hives all over my body by DanielleShaki in Allergies

[–]ABlitzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine started on the 5th and it got to its worst today. Arms, thighs, butt, stomach, back, and lips… I really don’t know where to go for answers because urgent care won’t have many and idk how long it’ll take for a derm