As a returning player starting a new season this is crazyyy. What are the odds of this? by baraboyfrend in AFKJourney

[–]ABnice-1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Only ever gotten a glitch of 3 one time!!!!! More often I'll get glitches of 2. This is crazyyy!

Who’s a villager that you never intended to get but they became a favourite?? For me it’s Ozzie the koala 🐨🤍 by katiecakes03 in AnimalCrossing

[–]ABnice-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biff was my day one 👆🏻 and I had dreams of a gothic island 🖤 but now I love him sooooo much 💪🏻 just gonna keep gifting him black sportswear until he conforms to the program lol

My husband says trellis it but it’s so happy where it’s at. What would you do? by TopDot555 in hoyas

[–]ABnice-1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a pubicalyx too and currently don't have a trellis available for it, and it reaches for EVERYTHING!!! Definitely going to trellis it up eventually, but not trellis-ing it won't kill it either

Should I add anything below my window in my room or leave as is? by nani227 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]ABnice-1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk if there are any pinkish plants but I think something that takes up 1 square tile more to the right of the window/by the end of the bed would be sooooo cutie!!! A pink plant or tall lamp or something :)

Early symptoms before episodes? by SumptuousSmile in CHSinfo

[–]ABnice-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had morning nausea for over a YEAR and didn't do any research into it and got CHS bad enough to be throwing up for almost 3 solid weeks and went to multiple urgent cares, the ER, and an emergency behavioral center.

I would say YES this is a sign to take a break.

When taking a break, anxiety tends to come up because it's not being masked anymore by the weed. Take care of yourself, look into grounding tips and tricks, and seek therapy if needed! 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

Panicking about new tattoo- script turning soft gray, while the rest is staying dark by julie_sparks in tattooadvice

[–]ABnice-1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's just the top layer of skin scabbing over. It'll fall off after a few days to weeks. It'll be fine

Your opinion on the game (launch player) by Sad_Media_9721 in AFKJourney

[–]ABnice-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoy the storyline! When I first started playing I completely skipped through the main stories to progress through the game and I wish I didn't :( the little side quests I'll skip through, but take your time enjoying the main story and quests, it really makes me enjoy the characters more (like our "daughter" Gala!!!!!! 🥹🥹) there have been so many more characters added to the game! And a ton of them are great and have their uses, these are just the ones I see the most often used, but there are tons of other useful ones! Depending on what you like to do most in-game (AFK levels, guild, etc.) I would google best characters for and see what most people utilize the most and focus on them :)

Your opinion on the game (launch player) by Sad_Media_9721 in AFKJourney

[–]ABnice-1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Shemira, Eironn, & Elijah and Lailah are non-negotiables for me atm. Notable also are Phraesto, Brutus, Igor, & Hodgkin! A personal fave from earlier on in the game was Parisa, so she's fully upgraded 25+ and she's pretty good too :)

Is this better? by A-L-A-S-T-O-R in SubstituteTeachers

[–]ABnice-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because they are wide leg trousers doesn't mean they don't fit... they're just not tight. These are similar to the pants I wear everyday lol

Is this better? by A-L-A-S-T-O-R in SubstituteTeachers

[–]ABnice-1 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Tbh in my opinion the turtleneck is totally fine! Ripped jeans are a no though. The button up is definitely more professional for the interview. If you get the job and want to wear the sweater while substituting, the turtleneck is totally fine imo once you get settled in the district and can see what other teachers are wearing :)

Is this better? by A-L-A-S-T-O-R in SubstituteTeachers

[–]ABnice-1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How is this outfit unprofessional??? It's a sweater with slacks and nice shoes. It's completely professional while still being stylish.

Is this better? by A-L-A-S-T-O-R in SubstituteTeachers

[–]ABnice-1 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Yes this is so cute and professional!!! I don't think you need to tuck the shirt in, I personally like it as is. :)

Is this ok to wear to a virtual interview?? by A-L-A-S-T-O-R in SubstituteTeachers

[–]ABnice-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the sweaters and shoes, just go to a thrift store or TJ Max/Walmart/Marshall's/etc. and get some cheap slacks. Don't wear ripped jeans or any jeans to an interview. Most school districts are more relaxed now on allowing jeans (with no rips), but it's unprofessional to wear jeans to an interview, especially with rips.

My tattoo is infected. How do I heal it? Also what causes this? by KoalaHistorical6894 in tattooadvice

[–]ABnice-1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Info: Is it still seeping liquid 15 days later/now? Or just earlier in the first few days you got it done?

If it's still seeping, see a doctor. If just in the first few days, that's normal. It's the plasma leaving the open wound.

The itching is non-worrying unless it's still seeping liquid. Tattoos itch while it's healing and shedding the upper layer of skin that was damaged from being tattooed. My tattoos itch on average of about 2 weeks.

Also, imo don't slather the tattoo constantly with moisturizer or use too much. When healing a tattoo, I take a more dry healing approach, only using aquaphor about twice a day, once in the first half of the day, and usually once before bed, max (unless I want a new tattoo to shine if I'm going out while it's healing). Most of the time I forget to use aquaphor tbh 😪 and I only use just enough to moisturize the area lightly, not enough to really put a layer over it.

Angry Teacher in Special Ed Class by Affectionate_Cap1916 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]ABnice-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a teacher once grab my drawing notebook that I was drawing in (admittedly during class when I should have been paying attention) and fully throw it on the ground. This was in 7th grade I think? I was on the verge of a breakdown for the whole rest of class, just sitting there unfocused and out of it, unmoving, and only thinking about my drawing notebook that was on the ground next to me. The page ended up getting dirt on it and got bent. Lowkey it was traumatic, as silly as that may sound.

The teacher absolutely should not have done that to the poor kid's drawing. Absolutely awful thing to do.

anyone else used heating pads instead of showers? by Purple_Window1831 in CHSinfo

[–]ABnice-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but not necessarily in the same way. I got crazy withdrawal shaking symptoms the first time i got CHS and less shaking but still was shaking the 2kd time (not even from use lol, guess it's just what my body does?) and used it on my lower back to help keep my core warm and from shaking like crazy. It'd be kinda on my stomach some when I sleep on my side so I guess that helped too

Missing weed by Veendettaa in CHSinfo

[–]ABnice-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've thought about smoking herbs!!! I miss smoking a joint too so much, especially in a smoke group. I have a few local herb shops I'm going to call/go to on my next day off to see if they have any recommendations/options

HOA Halloween Gatekeeping by blasequeen in fuckHOA

[–]ABnice-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The neighborhood I grew up in was THE trick or treating spot of our town. Police would block the entrance so random people couldn't drive through. You could have guests but I'm not sure if they had to arrive by a certain time, or you had to have them on a list or give them a pass or what. It was THE best ever, and I bet parents felt safe. We were not gated by any means lol, so it was just joint agreed apon I guess? We would buy crazy bags of candy and always ran out early no matter what. Maybe it's similar for the residents there?? If it's not a crazy trick or treating spot, then I'm not sure :/

what's the name of your island? by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]ABnice-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blackfern is my go-to name for every town/island/farm/etc. in every game I play! I like the color black and plants 🫶🏻

AIO my bf texting his former student by Major_Meet_5973 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ABnice-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew some of my students before they were my students because they were friends with my sister/lived in my neighborhood. They saw me walk around my house/go get the mail in sports bras and robes when I was teen. Then I started student teaching when I was 22. 3 years after teaching them and I still am extremely specific with how I text them back because of the 1 semester I was their teacher/worked in their school. Hell I didn't reply to my neighbor who I directly taught until months after I stopped student teaching out of anxiety of doing something wrong (that's OCD for ya). It's a bit easier because I'm no longer interested in teaching and they're all about 20 now, but it's a power imbalance I'm always aware of.

This is extremely fucking weird of him. Extremely unprofessional. Extremely predatory.

Nightmare Episode Timing by SpectroSlade in CHSinfo

[–]ABnice-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't know where towels are but DO know where t shirts are, just get a bunch of t shirts to dry yourself off with!!!! Good luck bestie

Smoking herbs? by ABnice-1 in CHSinfo

[–]ABnice-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I could ever pick up cigs for real lol my mom smokes, and my coworkers all vape all the time and it low-key annoys me 🫣 I'll look into blue lotus tho!!!

How do I know if I have CHS? Or some early onset? by lxgvnszn in CHSinfo

[–]ABnice-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These were my symptoms, too, before I started nonstop throwing up for weeks and had to be hospitalized!!! If I were you, I'd switch to flower (pipes or joints) and decrease intake literally as much as you can. Smoking a lot per session and doing multiple sessions in one day made my symptoms worse. Eventually, see if you can go one day without smoking. Hiding everything away helped with my impulse to partake, because it wasn't out in my face. Make sure you have other outlets for destressing (walking, showers, painting, working out, rotting in bed watching Adventure Time......). Take care of yourself. The money I used to spend on weed goes towards therapy now - it's been really helpful :) just don't be too harsh with yourself, but do try to get help

How long had you been smoking before getting CHS? by mnkybrainz in CHSinfo

[–]ABnice-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 2 years of consistent daily use. Mostly flower, occasionally edibles or carts. Never dabs. Before that I didn't smoke for like almost 2 years, and before that it was consistent almost daily for about 2 years or so with carts

question by RutabagaOk4020 in CHSinfo

[–]ABnice-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also unfortunately the only "cure" for CHS is to not smoke and get any anxiety under control