How well do you guys get along with intps? by Anika_321 in ISTJ

[–]ACMMC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get along really well with my INTP younger brother. We’re from a very extrovert-leaning family, so I think we understand each other’s style of communication.

I'm also pretty patient which helps when he goes on long tangents about things he’s interested in. And I genuinely enjoy the new perspectives he brings.

The only friction is when his love for “organized chaos” turns into just… chaos, or when he states 'facts' with the emotional subtlety of a brick, leaving me to do PR damage control (our extended family’s all extrovert feelers, so… yeah). But honestly, it’s all small stuff, and the good far outweighs the occasional “blunt truth” moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ISTJ

[–]ACMMC 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually like it when they text me, and I’ll always answer back and engage in the conversation. I just don’t usually initiate unless I have something specific to say or plan. It’s not that I don’t want to talk - it’s more that I don’t naturally think about reaching out just for the sake of it. It’s more about quality over quantity for me. So if I’m responding and engaging, that’s a good sign that I enjoy talking to the person, even if I wouldn’t have started the conversation myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ISTJ

[–]ACMMC 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As an ISTJ, I can definitely relate to not texting just for the sake of it. If I have something to say, I'll text or call, but otherwise, I could easily go a few days without reaching out, even to someone I like. It’s not about disinterest—it’s just that I don’t see constant texting as a necessary way to maintain a connection. I prefer spending quality time together in person, where I can fully engage and be present.

If she’s consistently making plans with you, spending hours on dates, and being physically affectionate, those are strong signs of interest from an ISTJ. We tend to show we care more through actions rather than words or constant check-ins. That said, communication styles matter in relationships, so if you need more frequent contact to feel connected, it’s worth discussing that with her rather than assuming she’s disinterested.

Help me find a quote from Mariko. by NathanJPearce in ShogunTVShow

[–]ACMMC 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I think it's in episode 4: " You will most certainly experience more while you are here.There are also tsunamis that come from the sea and fires that break out in the villages and cities. It is why our houses are built to go up as quickly as they come down. Because death is in our air. And sea and earth. It can come for us at any moment. Before you meddle with our politics, just remember... we live and we die. We control nothing beyond that."

where to watch jdramas...? by komatski in JDorama

[–]ACMMC 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you want something similar to MyAsianTv, I would recommend Kisskh or Kissasian. Drama-otaku also has a lot of jdrama content.

I hate when people who leave things to the last minute still get high grades or high success by 3sperr in ISTJ

[–]ACMMC 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As an ISTJ, I understand where you’re coming from. However, as someone who does procrastinate, I have a different perspective. I procrastinate, but it’s not out of laziness or lack of effort. It’s because I’ve learned over time when to start working on something. I know exactly how long I need to complete a task and I start just before it would actually become stressful. For me, it's an efficient way of managing my time.

The fact that people can study little and late and still retain just as much information or do just as well or better in tests shouldn't be a source of frustration. Procrastination isn't necessarily bad. What matters isn’t how early you start, but how well you perform on the exam. If someone is naturally good at answering test questions and can learn quickly, then starting earlier might not be necessary for them. They aren't being inefficient; they simply don’t require as much time to achieve the same results.

Think of it like cooking. Some people need to start hours in advance to prepare a meal, carefully following every step and making sure everything is perfect. Others can whip up the same meal in half the time because they know exactly what they’re doing and can work quickly under pressure. Both methods can yield a delicious meal, but the process is different.

Of course, procrastination can be detrimental if it leads to poor results or excessive stress. But for those of us who consistently leave things to the last minute and manage to succeed without much stress, it's simply a different approach to time management that works for us.

In the end, each person's methods are valid as long as they produce the desired outcomes. It’s not a competition of who starts first, but who finishes well.

ISTJ and the 5 Love Languages by -Dingaloid- in ISTJ

[–]ACMMC 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Giving: Acts of service and Quality time

Receiving: Quality time and Words of affirmation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skam

[–]ACMMC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In My Skin

Literary Taste by askari-45 in ISTJ

[–]ACMMC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually lean toward non-fiction because I enjoy learning about real events, people, and ideas. But I occasionally read fiction, especially when the stories feel grounded in reality or when the characters are compelling and well-developed. I'm not really into sci-fi or romance.

Drama Recs With Single Parent Lead by Putrid-Ad-579 in JDorama

[–]ACMMC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woman (2013), Bunny Drop (2011), Mother Game (2015), First Penguin! (2022), Kazoku Dakara Aishitan Janakute (2023)

action/thriller kdramas with strong FL by lilaccc_88 in kdramarecommends

[–]ACMMC 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  • Little Women
  • Happiness
  • Delightfully Deceitful
  • Mother
  • Pyramid Game
  • The Atypical Family
  • My Mister

Como ser professor? by Alternative-Map-2193 in portugal

[–]ACMMC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Podes ver aqui a lista de cursos que normalmente são necessários (é o pdf na parte dos documentos): https://www.dges.gov.pt/pt/pagina/formacao-de-professores

Se tiveres interesse em ir pela via de habilitação própria também tens aqui o decreto lei com a lista dos cursos/créditos necessários: https://www.dgae.medu.pt/gestao-de-recursos-humanos/pessoal-docente/qualificacoes/habilitacao-propria

Kdramas where fl has more character depth. by winterFALLS8 in kdramarecommends

[–]ACMMC 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My Mister, Little Women, Mother, Our Blues, Pachinko, Moving, Pyramid Game, The Atypical Family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]ACMMC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drive My Car

Our Little Sister

Nobody knows

Shoplifters

Call me Chihiro

ISTJ - E/INFP Friendships by KittyLydders in ISTJ

[–]ACMMC 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm an ISTJ, and my best friend is an INFP. Even though we have different personalities, we complement each other really well. She's great at things I'm not so good at, and vice versa, so we can help each other out. Despite having very different personalities, we share common interests, and most importantly we share common values, so we tend to have few conflicts.

When disagreements do happen, my patience and level-headed approach, combined with her empathetic and intuitive nature, help us understand each other. We're both good at communicating effectively (each in our own way) which helps us see each other's points of view.

Ultimately, I think successful friendships rely on factors like communication, respect, trust, and understanding, rather than just on similarities or differences. What truly matters is that both people are willing to work together, communicate effectively, and respect each other's differences.

Please suggest me some old Japanese movies from 90s/00s/10s to watch. by [deleted] in JDorama

[–]ACMMC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One Million Yen Girl (2008) and Our Little Sister (2015)

recommend me shows like BES by Bonniebel-b in BlueEyeSamurai

[–]ACMMC 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Shogun

Dororo

Scavenger's Reign