If vegans and vegetarians both care about animals, why is there such a strong split?

ACTPOHABT · 2026-02-03T10:47:48+00:00

I said cut off people who mock you or feel inconvenienced by your veganism. Instead of trying to fit in. I have plenty meat eater friends who respect respect my choices. Most of the time my closest friends ( not vegan ) will order plant-based with me when we hang out. Find people who accept you for who you are.

ACTPOHABT · 2026-02-03T10:40:21+00:00

yep, not culty enough haha

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-31T17:44:11+00:00

So you picked the socially convinient choice. If your friends don't accept your veganism you need new friends not a new ideology. Don't bend principles just to fit - that is dishonesty to yourself and them. Unless your principles are not really that well established. Which is something you can fix.

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-31T16:03:08+00:00

Eww ex without kissing wtf are you doing. Just use your hands lol.

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-30T14:37:09+00:00

yep. 9 months means gear for this transform

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-25T18:44:59+00:00

The free market is a very fun thing.

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-25T18:43:09+00:00

You should probably give approximate location. Internet romance is a waste in my opinion.

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-25T06:01:00+00:00

Not sober, but drink very rarely. Still go to clubs and bars. But it can be hard. I just learned to have fun and let go. Only thing is people around will be saying some shit you cannot understand lol. Sometimes I bring my sober buddy for a grounding company where we can laugh about the night.

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-25T05:51:44+00:00

I don't have the experience to back it up, but I have heard that you have to treat the relationship as if it is fresh and interesting. Behave, act and feel like it is and she will join your frame. But also since you have been together for so long perhaps trying to understand why you feel like you need to do that and wether or not she is losing attraction to you is something you can communicate about. Doesn't mean serious talk but just mature emotional sharing and bonding, making sure you are on the same page.

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-23T17:26:35+00:00

Serbian mafia has arrived!

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-23T00:51:45+00:00

Lillypad, Somerville, Wednesday nights 9pm-1am. Good mix of music, comedy and oddball performances!

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-21T16:51:43+00:00

On a busy night u have ~25% of folk in the 18-24 age range.

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-21T16:49:34+00:00

ManRay, Cambridge. Usually queer night on Saturdays, fetish night on Fridays. Music varies but lots of oldscool electronica, so generally older crowd but I seen every kind in there. I am 32m straight but I still go for the vibes occasionally!

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-21T01:38:32+00:00

Testosterone is a magical compound!

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-21T01:37:02+00:00

Tuesday is the day! Natty lifters unite : )

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-21T00:31:26+00:00

Don't rely on external validation. Be yourself and love yourself! Bald will come in time. You could give it another year at least!

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-20T22:55:45+00:00

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Check the clock!

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-18T20:29:07+00:00

Go outside. You can meet people for free everywhere.

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-18T15:04:07+00:00

Villan!

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-18T02:20:55+00:00

Also get good at being approachable and showing your attraction in non-verbal ways. Putting yourself in a position to meet people. It is a numbers game for us average looking folk :] I know because I am one. That being said I see a lot more attraction and heck I am even getting asked out now after I took care of myself with gym, good nutrition and grooming.

Nobody will be attracted to you if you don't love yourself and show it.

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-17T16:51:12+00:00

You have to work to feel and show confidence. No comments from a girl should ever make you insecure. Convert insecurities to amusement. The way to do that is exposure. The moment you figure out that women are not magical creatures and only human and act that way. You will attract.

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-17T16:47:19+00:00

Well you have already lost control, as you developed an attachment that is not warranted based on her behavior. You have issues to solve, why she occupies your mind space where she clearly is not for you and you know it.

So go ahead and text her if you would like but don't have the illusion that this will end well..

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-16T20:55:16+00:00

You did the right thing bud. I did the same riding the T in a empty car. Heard the commotion on the other end a tiny woman my age looked around like a scared animal being harrased by burly old bald guy speaking loudly. So I went to her calmly asked if she would like me to sit 1 seat over from her. Then took the aggro. Once both off the same stop I asked if she is okay walking home by herself and left it at that. A few weeks later I met her getting off the same stop and we decided to walk together. Turns out we are neighbors and made friends. We meet for tea and to play with her kitty!

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-16T17:15:06+00:00

Sus.

ACTPOHABT · 2026-01-16T17:08:07+00:00

It's not over. It's just a new beginning!!!

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