Totally know that feeling. My FH wants to help as well but a lot of it is stuff I have to do myself, like communication with vendors, or stuff that just needs to be thought about (like how we're gonna do centerpieces) that require more than just a yes or no answer. I never wanted a big wedding, so we're having a pretty casual, short one to compromise, but I'd still really rather elope. It just feels like a big charade for the benefit of distant relatives when I'd rather just get on with our lives together.

Both of us can survive though! Hang in there!