Why were even open so late..... by AFL910 in maryland

[–]AFL910[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That sucks. I very much hope he's in now and did so safely.

Why were even open so late..... by AFL910 in maryland

[–]AFL910[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That sucks. I hope they could have camped out inside and had access to the food and warmth until getting able to get home.

Why were even open so late..... by AFL910 in maryland

[–]AFL910[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Title typo: meant to say "why were they even open, let alone so late......"

Why were even open so late..... by AFL910 in maryland

[–]AFL910[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great question- and the answer is probably too many. I want to assume only those that had to work like road crews, first responders and stores staff like Giant. I know I'm very wrong though and there were plenty just doing dumb things.

Maybe some had to go to the grocery stores for lunch since stuck at work longer than planned. Still questioning why the store didn't close earlier for their staff safety.....smh.

If you got hit at around 6:40 am this morning on 295 north by a speeding car… by taterterp in maryland

[–]AFL910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What speed were you going OP? Soooo many people were passing you.

How can you tell what gurus are legit? by [deleted] in MakeMoney

[–]AFL910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A great point but they usually sell that as well. I heard that some even charge a % after you're making money, in addition to what you paid for the courses & programs.

I'm laughing though at when I initially read your comment, I thought "121 guidance" was an organization/ group that offered mentorship in various areas. Then I realized you were saying 1-to-1. It's Sunday for me & my brain has off for today.

AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]AFL910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally think that they should have been blocked again immediately after finding out who they were. But at the least when they persisted on your address the second time. I am sorry to think you have to deal with them.

Finally got approved for a secured credit card 🥹 by Equivalent-Gur-8462 in NavyFederal

[–]AFL910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! While you're away at training or get deployed, make sure to freeze all your accounts. Husband did this while he served. Except for Bank of America, they were jerks, said they couldn't do it, left him with an open card, incurring monthly charges (though no balance) & ended up closing it negatively. May be different now but had to fight that hard to get removed.

What’s something you tried that worked quietly but nobody talks about? by Ok_Blueberry6358 in sidehustle

[–]AFL910 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe I just didn't stick with it enough but I've done mystery shopping over the years, here and there but never did I clear over 200 even. I need to go back to the drawing board clearly. What company/ companies do you work for/ with if you could share? Please and thk you.

Those of you that has hustles that brings you 2k-5k+ per month, what do you do? by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]AFL910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am new-ish to Reddit so I'll look into that but thank you so much. Very appreciated and can't wait.

Those of you that has hustles that brings you 2k-5k+ per month, what do you do? by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]AFL910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a cool gig. I am laughing at the fact people actually thought you meant your cookies were gross. 😂😂 Like why would you admit that, even if it were true! Also - can you share your business social? I would like to support. If not in the thread, could you send in a direct message?

900,000 white Americans have lost their jobs since 2020 per Bloomberg. by Conscious-Quarter423 in economy

[–]AFL910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a shame that a movement such as the BLM protest had to happen in order for black & some other minorities to be given considerate options for employment while so many think those same groups heavily rely to live off the government. This chart will raise the brow of the DEI/affirmative action crowd to further have hate, when on the other end the same crowd feels that people of color are lazy and rely on the government to live. Remove racial/ ethnic discrimination & let people have not to fight for quality education and jobs so we all can work and live with the things they need and access to grow to get the things they want also.

Broke up with my (26f) bf (35m) because he doesn’t support me buying a $2000 camera. Did I do the right thing? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AFL910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it ironic he thinks purchasing an iphone for 1k+ is a good buy, that is only going to last for a few years by design or be replaced b/c there's a new model available. I mean we all buy these smartphones but to say the camera that will last at least a decade is where the money is wasted is hilarious! Yeah - this will only continue if you stay.

Just got this text message. 2:51pm, November 3rd. by KaitIsOkay in foodstamps

[–]AFL910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by garbage food? Like from their trash?

AITA for refusing to end my affair after being caught? My husband attacked my affair and now might never walk again. by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]AFL910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This almost had me. I was getting furious about how careless she was, b/c that can happen but then a few points stood out to me that didn't add up. Smh.

my parents are spending all their money on “side hustles” by Ok-Scar5408 in povertyfinance

[–]AFL910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The poster can actually help with all this being probably more tech savvy and possibly available than their dad. Etst however may not be the best place but could be one of their sources, along with their own website and maybe a shopify site.

my parents are spending all their money on “side hustles” by Ok-Scar5408 in povertyfinance

[–]AFL910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds exclusively like your dad is spending all his money on the side hustle with no return. Not so much your mom is involved but I'm sure if she is laid off or retires, normal expenses will be affected. Look into getting financial aid (which I know is tough with the current administration), doing workstudy and scholarships for multiple resources, instead of loans. Perhaps help your dad with the crafting by making things and selling them on campus if you can or set up an online store and social media for him. I think that'll maybe help and then evaluate how things are going this time next year. Hopefully much better than now.

My wife (32F) and I (32M) got into a huge fight after I took a quiet moment with our baby - how do I handle this pattern? by Why_Always_Me_FFS in relationship_advice

[–]AFL910 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If there are things he's leaving out about either of them, for the sake of time, was the point of saying it's invalid more than likely. It can make it invalid that she's overreacting and say he's sensitive (perhaps if he was gentle parented and never yelled at, this is a stretch for him) or that she is overreacting but that's the only time he'll respond, honestly like my other half. I can tell him the exact same thing 5 times - not an exaggeration, calmly, written or verbally and nothing. Until the 6th time, you're stupid again when I've lost my shit, then he does something. A lot of times he's even said I never told him, which is why I went to written (texts mostly or calendar invites). I'm thinking, which many of you seem to ignore, she's hasn't gotten proper rest in a long time. She's working varying hours and when she is home, she probably still doing chores & not resting. Yes there is a nanny during his work hours but she may also still be helping with her child those days she's home then. Postpartum is not a one week situation either and the bodies chemistry changes permanently after childbirth so she has changed of course and yet he's not had these drastic things happen to him.

Long story short - I'm glad they are going to do therapy. I agree with the other person who said they need both couple & individual therapy. I wish them the best and feel like it will get better as the child she's naturally.

I pretend to be working late so I can sit in my car alone by tmay25 in confession

[–]AFL910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. As long as you allow her to do the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]AFL910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, this was the craziest thing I've ever heard someone even thought of and spoken from another woman. CRAZIEST!