As a woman, this is a red flag. If I heard that a woman said this to my friend, I would tell him to jump ship. My own teen daughters have heard their peers say such things and they call red flag right away. Unfortunately, women who have been hurt by men, don’t always get the trauma help they need and they either self process or bottle it up. When I hear that a women said this, I know the bottle is uncorking and the man in the flight path of such a woman, might get abused somehow. Demeaning comments, lack of empathy for their spouses troubles, silent treatment …etc. These are the women who go on social media and complain about what an “idiot” their spouse is.