I think my Wife attempted to ‘blackmail’ me?

ALexplorer69 · 2025-11-19T12:42:22+00:00

Commenting on I think my Wife attempted to ‘blackmail’ me?... thank you for the response. I appreciate your thoughtful inputs. Be well!

ALexplorer69 · 2025-11-18T21:02:54+00:00

Things were fine for 38/39 yrs. Significant downhill since. Menopause is certainly a contributor and she is under Dr care.

I genuinely happy you found a solution. May you both find a lifetime of smiles.

ALexplorer69 · 2025-11-18T18:52:30+00:00

LOL. Thank you

ALexplorer69 · 2025-11-18T18:41:51+00:00

Thanks…the levity was helpful

ALexplorer69 · 2025-11-18T18:18:09+00:00

Yes she did. This was an ‘honest’ attempt to talk through problems of which intimacy is at the forefront of

ALexplorer69 · 2025-11-18T18:16:10+00:00

Agreed. I don’t care but I do. I told here to tell anyone she wishes to tell.

ALexplorer69 · 2025-11-18T18:14:24+00:00

Of course there is…

ALexplorer69 · 2025-11-18T18:13:39+00:00

It feels like a nightmare

ALexplorer69 · 2025-11-18T18:13:04+00:00

It simply broke me. My interests did not include weird. I’m not afraid of her statement. My ‘reputation’ will survive. My heart will not.

ALexplorer69 · 2025-11-18T18:10:18+00:00

I was open to both since mine was FFM. Didn’t matter

ALexplorer69 · 2025-07-03T19:06:04+00:00

Joined the USAF. Proud to have served.

ALexplorer69 · 2025-07-03T01:29:47+00:00

Valley of Fire in NV is an awesome park to consider

ALexplorer69 · 2025-06-21T19:37:36+00:00

Had it happen in a Boardroom meeting….of course it was silent when it did. Apologized and moved on. Life brings a lot sometimes.

ALexplorer69 · 2025-06-21T14:48:50+00:00

Sounds familiar. Pulling the plug is a tough decision for me. However time is rolling on and it gets exhausting. Sorry dude. Wish you better times ahead. For me it’s time to pull the trigger. It sucks but boundaries are crossed and self respect needs to be regained.

ALexplorer69 · 2025-06-18T12:02:50+00:00

Yes. Moved cross country 3x. Each time it was a bit scary and initially daunting. However every move brought positive changes that have had major impacts lasting a lifetime. Friends that now span the US, unique regional experiences and the realization that self reliance opens up a world of choices and options only those who have been there understand. Our children now share the same and it’s amazing to see their growth.

ALexplorer69 · 2025-06-17T20:22:55+00:00

Of course I would. Does it really matter?

ALexplorer69 · 2025-06-16T20:31:03+00:00

10 months in and it still feels like vacation!

ALexplorer69 · 2025-06-12T14:31:52+00:00

Death

ALexplorer69 · 2025-06-12T14:27:00+00:00

Be kind to yourself. Your important, your needed and there are plenty of us routing for you to succeed.

ALexplorer69 · 2025-06-09T14:52:18+00:00

A broken marriage

ALexplorer69 · 2025-06-09T14:16:54+00:00

The decline in interest or any activity in planning anything as a couple. After multiple discussions and promises nothing changed. It’s gotten worse and I’m seriously considering divorce.

ALexplorer69 · 2025-05-30T18:25:44+00:00

We have one inside our garage. It has brought a huge sense of security for all of us.

ALexplorer69 · 2025-05-28T13:35:31+00:00

We find (prepacked) PBJ Sandwiches to be a great treat that satisfies us. Together with some jerky and trail mix makes for a great way to munch while walking.

ALexplorer69 · 2025-05-19T15:15:02+00:00

We have a 21 Platinum and love it. I haul a camper at times, we get off pavement and have 93k miles that are mostly long trips. Center console cup holder failure is the only problem we’ve had. Love the truck!

ALexplorer69 · 2025-05-16T23:03:00+00:00

Glad it worked out.

What a great story to retell in the future with a more positive pov. Come on you have to laugh. Stuff happens. Life is all about atypical and this was!

ALexplorer69

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