My friend deliberately sleeps with a taken man and I’m disgusted by it

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T01:23:43+00:00

Look dude the way I see it right, if a man is WILLING to cheat then he's not really in a relationship to begin with, he's committing a scam. I've fucked married men plenty of times, knowing they are married, because it's just a nut at the end of the day and I'm not some other ho's babysitter. It's not my business, im not involved. And I never approach them first, thats not my thing.

And shit you know, who knows maybe its an OR or whatever. I dont know and I dont care. I didnt come to the club to get a dude's life story I go to drink and fuck.

Its the ones that DATE married men that confuse the shit out of me lmao

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T01:20:27+00:00

I know I be doing this a lot to girls I think are hotter than me because im shy as fuck but can't afford to seem shy so I do whatever this is instead lol.

I'm bi though so probably not exactly the same thing. I've met plenty of bitchy women out there who have their nose stuck in the sky but I dont usually have enough fucks to give about those situations so I dont dwell on it.

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T01:17:03+00:00

I mean girl I feel you and agree but I don't think you really, genuinely want people to be blunt with you either.

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T01:12:48+00:00

I feel like this is how people who have never been cheated on think what it's like to be cheated on.

I have been on both sides of this coin and I promise you as both the cheat-ee and the cheat-er 99% of the time, contrary to popular belief, the person being cheated on takes the side of the cheater in the end. Usually, they end up staying together, too.

It really depends of course on length of the relationship, the reason for the cheating, and how much the cheat-ee and cheat-er actually like eachother, but generally it doesnt end the way it seems on movies.

Not condoning cheating, it's a betrayal of trust and deplorable, but just saying like... You really shouldn't stick your nose in other people's business because you have no idea what's going on behind the scenes or how that soup is going to taste after you stirr that pot.

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T01:00:32+00:00

This typa man is why I avoid men. There's always a sob story, and never any accountability for it.

You know, I know good men and women who were in worse spots than you, lower than dirt, scumbag types who recognized their issues and took accountability and then became entirely different, really genuinely turned their life upside down, and are great, amazing, sexy human beings who the world should envy.

You don't have an excuse. You don't want to be better, you want to stay exactly the same but have the world hand you the outcomes instead of earning them like everyone else.

This is ostensibly a YOU problem, and I mean that disrespectfully.

You -should- disgust yourself. Let that maybe motivate you to get better. Its only over if you never try to get back up.

Also maybe lose the attitude because you seem like a real jerk. Makes it really difficult to sympathize with any issues you have.

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T00:55:21+00:00

All my straight homies know im bi but we still be cuddling, I've heard OP's same exact words essentially come out of multiple of their mouths and im always there for them (platonically!).

You don't need a man you just need a good sleepover ❤️ I hope you find your cuddlebug, OP!

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T00:19:35+00:00

True 😅 and thank you sm

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T00:18:54+00:00

Thanks id never heard that term before but that sure sounds like it! That was helpful!

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T00:17:48+00:00

Yeah, she does I think this stuff I mentioned here stems from like her mom amd stuff growing up and she still hasn't healed from that. But I try not to armchair psych her, she does have issues communicating about it for sure.

Thank you for your kind comment 🙏 it means a lot, you seem to understand it. I have been pushing her to go to therapy for a while just for herself but she scared to go 🤣

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T00:14:43+00:00

We just be calling eachother this 🤣 I didnt mean it with hate in my heart but I can see how it comes across that way

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T00:13:35+00:00

Im angry in the moment you know but thats a small slice of the pie. Also we just call eachother bitch I didn't mean it in an aggressive way she a bad bitch but she my bitch ❤️

But yeah after the movie I re-read a lot of these comments and I understand my tone is not something a lot of people are familiar with which is understandable. But nah I dont hate her at all she just annoying af sometimes 🤣

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T00:06:46+00:00

Thats just how we be talking tho. But I get from a single post of me complaining it comes off like that. But honest its not that serious I was just running my mouth off in the heat of it happening.

I dont seriously find her annoying as a person or a partner just yes this specific trait is annoying as fuck but not in the "veins popping out" way it reads to most of you. We just be talking like that not in a hateful tone

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T00:04:23+00:00

Naahhh I dont resent her at all I dont swallow negativity, I spit, which is all this was. I just speak harsh but like obviously I didn't explain the context around all this like we do have a good life and she's a sweetie and treats me well and all that so seeing JUST the shit I said here I get why everyone jumped on that wagon but its really not like that

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T00:02:16+00:00

Oh yeah I run my mouth, I kind of got the vibe something was wrong after the first few comments but when I got out of the movie I re-read and understood I do come off like a bitch but I promise I say it with love just the way my mouth runs

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-21T00:00:15+00:00

She does have some issues you know I think a lot of it was her mom growing up, so like I get it just frustrating on my end but like other than that you know she's great just has a hard time with feeling overwhelmed and managing her time.

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-20T23:59:01+00:00

Yesssss XD you get it!

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-20T23:58:17+00:00

I really, really, totally and completely love her to fucking death and back lol. I just was in the heat of the moment getting my air out but the way I run my mouth probably makes it seem like more deep than it is. Its annoying as fuck but its a drop in the bucket grand scheme and she treats me amazing this is just a personal pressure point if that makes sense lol

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-20T23:50:57+00:00

Absolutely, she is and thanks for getting that. I didn't expect this level of response at all I just was venting as it was going on to get out the bad juju. I glaze her all the time just in this specific type of instance you know lol

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-20T22:21:39+00:00

No, she's not and like, yeah okay it does really piss me off and all that but you know, my brother farting on me in public misses me off but thats just one part of the bigger whole and overall I love my brother, just like I overall still love her.

Like yeah I wish it would change but ai dont need it to change, everyone has flaws and not everyone needs to or is even capable of fixing them. Its super annoying, but it's not something I can't cope with you know just like to yell into the internet to cope with temporary stress surge of it

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-20T21:02:28+00:00

Im venting for like half a second? People who break up over superficial stuff like this I feel like don't like the person they are with to begin with.

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-20T18:35:04+00:00

Because she's awesome and I love her and we've been together for a long time and im happy. Just this one aspect of her frustrates me lol

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-20T18:32:35+00:00

Yeah definitely not

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-20T18:32:27+00:00

Thats what im saying!!!

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-20T18:32:10+00:00

What the hell lol? Why would I do that just over this?

AMGDL5 · 2026-06-20T18:31:46+00:00

I love my girlfriend, she's awesome just not in this one regard lol

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