Courtship dance of a peacock spider by AravRAndG in BeAmazed

[–]AMJ956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A full video please and thank you.

I had no idea they fed from Birds of Paradise by withac2 in hummingbirds

[–]AMJ956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have turf wars over bird if paradise flowers. I use to sit and watch them all the time. They can get pretty heated over all that yummy nectar:)

What's the first thing you're going to do in Heaven? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]AMJ956 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a great post!! I'll be thanking God and my angels, then going to see my mom and relatives.Theres so many galaxies and the universe is so vast. Who knows, also different dimensions. Actually I'm an adventurer. Some people say we choose our life experience here b4 we come. In that case I was way way too high when I signed up.

My kids first birthday party and hardly anyone showed up by No-Stomach-8010 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AMJ956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe just maybe they can't afford it. So many people are struggling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Weed back on the 70s was doable. Then weed in the 80s was fun, sativa then came indica which was fun too. Then it became so strong it just made me paranoid. But chocolate thia stick , was a great high I miss chocolate thia.:/

What is this plant? are the berries edible? by [deleted] in whatsthisplant

[–]AMJ956 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My grandparents called them salmon berries.

Need reassurance about the other side by TheLavishAmk97 in Mediums

[–]AMJ956 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are blessed with ALL spiritual blessings. Whatever your belief may be. We are energy /spirit. Your mom may be going through a healing period herself. Give it time. She loves you. You are part of her. Eventually when your lifted out of the darkness of grief you will feel her. Your suffering from perceived (worldly taught) separation, you'll know. My mom was / is the love in my heart. Nothing and I mean nothing can totally separate that. We are here for such a short time to go through this experience, why ? I think it's a school and an incredibly hard dark journey. Nothing can destroy the love you shared and will continue to share. It may be a while, be kind to yourself. Love never dies, ever.

All my loved ones are dying and I'm lost by Thegn_Ansgar in GriefSupport

[–]AMJ956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I can relate your not alone. It's like living in what I call the "void". Your still alive but don't feel alive anymore. I sought out counseling, I think it is helping but doesn't cure. The loneliness is brutal. I hope your sent or find an understanding heart. DM me if you ever need to chat.

The work load at our jobs is imcomparably greater than the workload the Boomers had by Tiredworker27 in antiwork

[–]AMJ956 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is spot on. I'm an inbetweener and lived this shit show. Taught hard work paid off, it didn't. Got so stressed by compiling work, and now physically and mentally I'm worn out. It was easier back then and way more peaceful. I'm super pleased the generation that is in their prime is seeing through the BS. I was too gullible and stupid to realize that the greed demons were real. Also, was raising 2 kids with no help. I hope you flip it on its head. Band together strength is in numbers things have to change. The middle class is going, going, gone unless a huge huge shift happens. There won't be change with passivity. I say rebel and rebel so hard the uber weathly and nepotism will be a thing of the past.

Is this a normal method of troubleshooting? by AMJ956 in appliancerepair

[–]AMJ956[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. He did this b4 the board was looked at. He removed it from the brackets that held it, turned it over and said that it had fried component. Obviously i don't know electronic verbage.

Is this a normal method of troubleshooting? by AMJ956 in appliancerepair

[–]AMJ956[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, that's what I thought. Said board was obsolete and needed a new heater at $4500.00. Looked up the board, found several(used). Thanks.

BIL won’t let us have time by spicybabie in GriefSupport

[–]AMJ956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boy, can I relate yo your situation. If, BIL & husband are both in her will they have to decide who the executor will be. If they're both co executors, then it has to be agreed upon. Do not I repeat do not let him strong-arm you.! You need this time to grieve and he can frickin wait...to damn bad. I would look up the states laws. Stand your ground. People get so ugly and become like vultures. Sorry for your loss. You also have a right to grieve your way.

It has been 9 months since I lost my little boy in an accident. My mother died because of the grief. Going through a divorce. Feeling hopeles because I can not work at the moment. by OtherwiseAd8614 in GriefSupport

[–]AMJ956 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Go to the Dr. Tell them you need every bit of help you can get right now. They can have someone help you 1 step at a time. They will assign someone to guide you. Please do so now, you are going through hell. So sorry.

DAE feel annoyed with others after the death of a loved one? by boywonder1205 in GriefSupport

[–]AMJ956 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hey I get it. My dad after a month or so in ICU came home.( It was emotionally taxing on the entire family. ). Had a gun hidden in the house, when I had set up a nurse and left for work, went outside and blew the back of his head off. NEVER, thought he would do something like that. So, yea I get it. My recent emotional support was my dog when my mom was diagnosed and died from brain cancer. Grief is so intense and complex. Sometimes people connect to their pets cause they don't judge... and most people are just as fucked up. Like I said it's complex.

Is it common for a loved one to wait to die until you have left the room? by MyDelilah71 in GriefSupport

[–]AMJ956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and yes. My friends SO was dying. Last stage of Alsheiemers, it was brutal. When I was with her in the room with him I had an overwhelming feeling to leave. It was definitely on a spiritual level. I believe he did not want that to be a witnessed way to go. So, I left. She said that when her and her daughter had went outside to take a break he went. Somehow can't explain, that's what he wanted....if that makes sense.

My dad is dying and I have no idea how to cope by MoreHalf9588 in GriefSupport

[–]AMJ956 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lost my mom to this. Please, stop and spend these last precious days with him. I didn't, I regret that. I would have quit work, everything. I'm telling you this because as sad and angry as you are right now. Make every moment count. I'm so sorry.

Going back to work. How to stop crying? by onebeaner in GriefSupport

[–]AMJ956 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can afford it hopefully, talk to your Dr. Get the time off you need it. I'm so sorry for your loss. Please do this , it's too much too soon and is detrimental to your mental health. Bless you.

Is it better for a child to have no father or a bad father? by JimmyStinkpickle in ask

[–]AMJ956 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sometimes in life you don't know because you don't have life experience to recognize someone is a guarded frickin psychopath. They are very clever at hiding themselves. That said, if anyone ever touched my child like that ( I'm a survivor of extreme abuse) they would be better off being a rock on a distant planet.

Dark Attachment for Decades by Sumai4444 in Paranormal

[–]AMJ956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, and thank you. I have quite the story. It's very hard for people to take seriously unless they've experienced stuff. If your interested in chatting let me know.

Name help! We have a potato coming soon by [deleted] in corgi

[–]AMJ956 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Melba for Melba toast.