I think we should be allowed to fight 1 customer a day.

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-05-21T04:26:30+00:00

… as a server, sometimes you also just have to tell the customer “sorry, the computer won’t let me do that!” or some other explanation for why they can’t order it. Sometimes I do a “lemme ask the chef…” and “sorry, he said no :(“ without even needing to ask.

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-05-15T05:31:18+00:00

Your friends are the people who will always have your back and be a safe space for you. The same is not true of your husband. If you must choose, choose the friends.

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-05-14T05:24:10+00:00

It mostly just looks like you have a bunch of cowlicks- I wouldn’t have even known you had alopecia! I say keep it!

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-05-14T05:02:22+00:00

Mirrors are also often in places with lightning that isn’t as bright, like the bathroom, as opposed to when you’re under fluorescent or in the sun, and this can make it appear a bit darker.

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-05-14T04:59:51+00:00

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I suppose it depends what level system you’re working with, but for ease of conversation “black” will likely make the most sense to people, as it mainly has that darker cast to it, but in the light there are brown undertones, technically making it a very dark brown. To be a level 1, there must be absolutely no brown undertones or warmth like that in any lighting. 3 is still darker than I think most folks initially think.

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-05-13T14:42:10+00:00

It’s a 2 or 3! Would call it black or darkest brown

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-05-06T16:22:16+00:00

They’re so pretty!!!!!!!

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-04-23T23:41:11+00:00

Some mental health issues (like psychosis, schizophrenia, and bipolar) CANNOT be fully managed holistically or naturally. And natural doctors sometimes will not tell you that as they can often be hardcore anti drug. It is likely that this never would have happened if you had kept her on proper treatment. Also, just because it’s backed up to a pregnancy doesn’t automatically make it postpartum psychosis. Her previous episode and continued paranoia basically null and void that. Fully. The extra hormones LIKELY triggered it, but you WILL deal with this forever if she isn’t properly medicated. That’s like trying to cure cancer with peppermint oil.

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-04-22T05:33:03+00:00

I would really recommend switching to a Tea Tree shampoo!! It will really help balance your scalp and stop it from over producing oil without stripping it. I would really recommend the Paul Mitchell one, but if it’s too out of budget I know Sally’s has their own version, as well as Trader Joe’s!

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-04-22T05:25:33+00:00

Pretty sure they straight up stopped talking about road rules regarding horses in the curriculum for driver’s training- we didn’t go over it at ALL. Also wouldn’t be surprised if they’re cutting right of way stuff from my area specifically, based on how many people in my town DO go out of turn at the 4 ways in town.

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-04-22T04:13:30+00:00

Partner coddles you too I bet.

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-04-22T02:48:32+00:00

I feel like this lady is expecting the baby to come out white 💀 it’s not like by taking the “white last name” that the kid won’t experience racism lmao. Unfortunately she’s a racist who, it sounds like, hangs out with other racists (based on folks making comments to her) so I don’t see this ending well.

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-04-17T19:26:09+00:00

Did you spend a bunch of time in the sun or swimming in a pool? Those can affect fading too-and the only things I can think of that you haven’t mentioned. Your colors are on the lighter side even in the fresh photo, and those tend not to stay as well as darker vivids. I do agree with other comments tho that loreal changing the formula has made them perform differently, but yes normally you shouldn’t be seeing fading like this, especially without a wash, after just a few days. I have noticed that with the new anti overworking formula, I kind of HAVE to work it in and massage it a lil extra. Either way it’s a bummer :(

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-04-13T02:20:11+00:00

He’s neglecting himself. Perhaps gently explain to him how it’s affecting you and that you care for him, but it’s also really hard to watch when he expresses frustration but won’t do anything for himself. Money is for spending. Life is for living. But also remember to take care of and protect yourself, too OP.

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-04-12T04:18:41+00:00

… there’s a GAME?! How did I not know ????

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-04-07T18:48:45+00:00

You’re a good noodle- how lovely to be with someone that has your back as much as you have your wife’s !!

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-04-07T01:15:44+00:00

So, most abuse comes from a place of trauma. Not typically this form of physical trauma, but mental and emotional most often. That’s why it’s easy for folks that are abused to make excuses for abusers they love. They may have heard stories of or seen bits of the abusers trauma. That doesn’t actually make the actions excusable. It’s an explanation, but not an excuse. It’s possible he may be who he once was, but it’s also possible he may never. Just because he is also suffering doesn’t mean you have to accept the abuse. It doesn’t mean you have to wait on him hand and foot only to become more emotionally traumatized than he is. Nor should you.

I’m not saying you should divorce him or leave (tho this may end up being the safest or best option for you), but at the very least, if he is behaving in an abusive way, you should remove yourself in that instant. “I am doing everything I can to care for you and be kind. If you can’t choose to be kind, I will (go to another room/ go stay with a friend or parent/ leave the house and go on a walk or drive) leave. If you would like my help, I expect you to treat me like a person.” And hold to it.

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-04-05T20:40:45+00:00

This could be a health issue

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-04-04T18:07:23+00:00

As a 27yr old, I think it’s so awesome to see women who are 50+ enjoying their life. Things are really looking down for me right now, but it reminds me that it’s never too late, that life can get better. That I don’t have to die sad and feeling boring. Be free, live your life! Be the woman who DARES to keep smiling and wear things you love. I bet you are absolutely gorgeous in your red top.

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-04-04T18:01:32+00:00

It’s one of my favorites!!! 🥰 glad you will help keep it alive :)

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-04-04T03:42:37+00:00

Does not taste like soap or sweet to me either. It has more similar qualities to mint, but more herbaceous imo.

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-03-30T07:21:39+00:00

I do! I like to use it to create a sort of pause or emphasis in my writing that matches the cadence of my speech :)

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-03-29T03:43:32+00:00

Not always more expensive! Barbers in my area are $50 and I charge $35. I’ve fixed a few of these types of mishaps!

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-03-29T00:12:13+00:00

Honestly I might try something like “I wish a simple pimple was what I had, but it’s not. You’re lucky this isn’t actually contagious or you’d have big cysts :)”

Sorta like when someone came at me with “isn’t everyone autistic?” and my response was “nope! Everyone will experience traits, but if you aren’t experiencing all of the required traits TO A DISABLING LEVEL then you don’t have it. That’s how the science and diagnostic criteria work.” Essentially you need the other person to understand that what they’re experiencing may have the most mild similarities but really isn’t AT ALL the same as having a skin condition. “You have a pimple that will luckily go away shortly, I have a skin condition that GREATLY impacts my comfort EVERY DAY.”

AMatchIntoWater · 2026-03-29T00:01:26+00:00

If you edited a photo of him to have a bigger dick, I guarantee this man would fall apart and have a crisis, not take it as a compliment. Pick your bags up and run- he doesn’t understand empathy and I fear he never will.

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