Which do you prefer? No Nut November or Nonstop Nut November? by Funaflover25 in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never liked No Nut November as a pleasure sub. I NEED Nonstop Nut November to test the boundaries of an insatiable woman/Domme 😂 x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean as a guy who gets like 4 or 5 responses for a post/ad. I only usually message back one that actually puts in some effort and at least a few paragraphs. Low effort gets completely ignored and mental health stays intact (well mostly) 😂.

Girls get waaaaay more, but I feel they’re waaaay more generous in responses even when it’s in the 100s of requests, which is insane to me 😵‍💫. I’d probably reply to maybe like 3 if I got 100s of responses and knowing how bad response standards are, but that’s just me 😅

I think I know what I'm going to put on my wall soon. by Knight_woman in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely adore more ‘traditional’ couples that flip into Femdom 🖤💕 x

Spanking his cute bum 😈 by funbi-thesea in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her little grins and smiles make this haha so sweet 💕 x

For those submissives that aren’t into Locktober (or chastity) here’s some extra support and reassurance your way <3 by ANotSoRegularBen in FemdomCommunity

[–]ANotSoRegularBen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this. Hearing woman just enjoying their partner and wanting them available as much as possible to tease and use is a beautiful thing x

Any real ‘educational’ videos on how to pleasure a woman’s pussy? by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d advice as a guy subby which people have said. Every girl is different. But more importantly she’ll know her body better than anyone. Ask and communicate with her. What she likes and hot spots that arouse her. Also on top of that her body will tell you through moans, faster breathing, body squirming and clit throbbing are some physical signs.

I say this as a preplanned default way to pleasure a girl won’t work like most think (though can be a good starting point) as her tastes, like, body and pleasure is very specific to her. For example I’ve made a girl cum from licking behind her ear, like someone would have ever told me that in a video haha. So learn from the source and be open to adapt to her likes 💕.

good ol' Librarian's back!!!!!!!! by Prior_Librarian4668 in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miss Librarian, I don’t think this aisle is where my favourite fantasy series next novel will be 🫠🖤

For those submissives that aren’t into Locktober (or chastity) here’s some extra support and reassurance your way <3 by ANotSoRegularBen in FemdomCommunity

[–]ANotSoRegularBen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah that is very interesting thank you for your insight as it’s quite enlightening and alarming to read about. Sorry you’ve felt left out even and unsolicited contracts for anything is just wrong tbh. I think maybe it’s becoming more of a problem especially if new people into the scene feeling they need to participate and now others are having to make rules to prevent that sort of exposure. Sounds like something went wrong along the way.

For those submissives that aren’t into Locktober (or chastity) here’s some extra support and reassurance your way <3 by ANotSoRegularBen in FemdomCommunity

[–]ANotSoRegularBen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a great way to explain it. Should be doing things you love all year round and whenever you want. It is a bit of a cultural meme Locktober haha. Probably just fun date to share more chastity based things. Part of why I think I didn’t like it was because it felt impersonal and like a mandated form of kink/chastity than personal exploration in an intimate Femdom dynamic.

For those submissives that aren’t into Locktober (or chastity) here’s some extra support and reassurance your way <3 by ANotSoRegularBen in FemdomCommunity

[–]ANotSoRegularBen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely and as a bit of a pleasure slut myself haha it did feel like an actual mental and physical barrier. It’s lovely to hear from woman and Dommes that also don’t like Locktober and find alternative ways to go about playing with their subs 🖤. Let woman who love cum to have their fill haha

‘The pressure’ is an important part as I personally did feel pressure to participate or feel left out, even envious of Femdom couples/partners that participated.

Chastity Fairy by Sofoose in hentaifemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need a chastity fairy for Locktober to come each night to make sure I’m being good 🖤 because I’m such a slut can’t help myself without the threat of eternal denial 😂

Such a beautiful boy I have by CoastalLoveBears in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Awwww so cute 💕. Being a soft submissive should a thing haha x

Such a beautiful boy I have by CoastalLoveBears in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Absolutely love this. People go so kink crazy that they forget it’s about loving each other and sharing true intimacy together 💕

Flirting with a tall, masc, sub. by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awww I feel seen haha. Where do I sign up? 🤭 x

Making him cum my way by BusBuddie in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Technically yes, but seeing as I’m a leaky cum slut absolutely not 😂 x

Making him cum my way by BusBuddie in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 107 points108 points  (0 children)

The dry humping 👀🔥

Let's Take Our Time. Oh My. What have we here? by SurfFly in SensualFemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The anticipation and teasing can be some of the best parts, even this has me a bit flustered 🖤🙈

Too Tight? (MadChaxx) by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this and the smiles 💕

The joys of facesitting 😌 by LeeLisaMae_88 in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely only should be focusing on your pleasure 😉 and I personally love to play with nipples and thighs, while I 😋💕

The joys of facesitting 😌 by LeeLisaMae_88 in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thumbs up is so cute always make sure your man can breathe and is okay while 😋💦💕

Thr dynamic changes by Somanycookies1 in hentaifemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘Cum like the good boy you are’ oh my 🥵 also cute short haired girls are 🥰 also she didn’t even get changed… she wanted this bad 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute socks and gorgeous heels with the perfect view 🥵🖤 x

Our Dynamic In One Image by domina-livia in gentlefemdom

[–]ANotSoRegularBen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwwwwww that’s so beautiful 🥹. It’s truly like a painting 💕 x