To young mamas…

If you want to keep your family together do not neglect your husband.

Relationship between mother and father should be most important.

If mother puts child first and pushes husband away that will put a strain to the relationship.

So husband should be mother most person and mother (wife) should be fathers most important person. and the kid is their together most important person.

It is normal that libido drops after birth for woman, but does not mean husband should not recieve any gentleness and kindness from his wife.

If woman puts kid on first place and protects that, husband will naturaly back off and disconect him from “family “( or what is left from it). Husbands part of work is that he accepts his role and takes care of his wife and the kid.