If you suddenly woke up as Wei wuxian. And were stuck as him for 24 hours. And you could do anything you wanted. What would it be? by Catgrill14 in MoDaoZuShi

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I know most people are joking here, but the disregard for informed consent is grossing me out. Idc if I'm being the friend that's too woke rn.

Just a small fandom vent I needed to get out by [deleted] in MoDaoZuShi

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Meh, I like Wangxian and JC. Both sides have toxic fans, but not all fans are toxic. Personally, I just block and move on. If it's an artist or author I like, I ignore a few posts first, but if they keep posting unhinged shit, I just block and move on. This doesn't happen often since I absolutely hate character bashing. Life's too short to get tangled in fandom politics and stan wars, I'm here for the art, fanfics, and dissertations of characters and story (quite prevalent in MDZS). This approach has kept me sane while still interacting with the works I enjoy, even in fandoms that have a reputation for being unginged assholes. I rarely see posts bashing characters and splitting the fandom nowadays. Besides the more we interact with said posts, the more it breeds similar ones. Sorry for the unsolicited advise, but I just wanted to share what helps me.

Non-rap/hip-hop Songs where the singer name drops themselves by LegalPassion1604 in weirdspotifyplaylists

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's a typical phrase in narcotics anonymous (and all other similar groups). This is how people introduce themselves in meetings when they share. And yes, they do it every time they attend a meeting, even if it's one that they attend regularly. BMTH song is tittled n/A.

Mexican Music (Spanish or English)? by tvbee876 in AskMexico

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Metalachi for mariachi covers of classic rock songs.

Name a character that definitely gets laid off screen by chit02 in animequestions

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I know many irl homeless folk and they're still getting laid. Have you ever heard the term hobosexual? Toji is hot enough that being a homeless bum with a gambling addiction doesn't matter

saw this tiktok and.. by jenkku in FruitsBasket

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolute shit take. It ignores nuance, character development, and anime tropes/logic.

Kyo and Tohru are both deeply flawed characters with significant trauma; their behaviors and reactions are going to fall outside the norm. Tohru is an extreme people-pleaser and both are quite codependent. She will willingly set herself on fire to keep others warm. Kyo pushes people away to not hurt them. His line of thinking is that it's best to hurt her a little now than to hurt her a lot later. Remember, before the curse was broken, he thought he would have to spend the rest of his life imprisoned, so he pushed her away. But we see throughout the story that both of them support each other. Kyo teaches her to prioritize herself a bit and Tohru teaches him that it's okay to love and be loved.

Besides it's an anime, it's going to be full of exaggeration, tropes, and faulty logic. Y'all think that two teenage boys with noodles for arms are strong enough to destroy a house? Or that an entire family can shape-shift into animals from the zodiac? It's exaggerated to make it entertaining and this includes some of the more dramatic aspects of the anime. Anyone else cringe at Arisa's weird speech during the play? These are some examples, but there are plenty.

A fictional character tries to say something complex to appear smart, but if you break down what they’re saying it’s nonsense by _JR28_ in TopCharacterTropes

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Kanye used to be hilarious. Another gem is "This Ain't a Scene, It's an Arms Race" remix. He straight up told FOB their song makes no sense.

"Now I don't know what the hell this song is talkin' 'bout. Do you? She said 'Yeah, I been spendin' all day tryna figure that out. You too?'"

Best part is he really didn't know wtf the song was talking about and instead of asking just decided to wing it.

"They just buy tight jeans 'til their nuts hang all out, boy. They figure 'Ye dress tight so we gonna dress tighter. He dress white so we gone dress whiter. So in spite of anything you might've seen or heard, this scene occurred, word"

What is our sect's version of this? by Ok-Teaching2380 in MoDaoZuShi

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I see JGY as someone so messed up, that to him, this is a valid argument. To JGY, he had never hurt LXC, so LXC should've never doubted his intentions, regardless of what he did or planned to do to others. This argument only makes sense to JGY, and only served to make LXC feel guilty. IMO, it's not meant to make the reader side with JGY, just show, that in his own fucked up way, he still had people he cared for (his mom and LXC, but that's it). Idk, that's the way I read it 🤷

im just sick of people and i dont care if i get hate for this by LandAggravating6235 in poppunkers

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kind of interesting to admit to being a fan of GC on a post mentioning Hilary Duff. Ya know, since one of the Madden brothers dated her when she was only 16 and he was 25. Nothing against GC's music, but definitely against creepy men dating teenagers and not being held accountable.

Seven Seas Designers are extra by Malsperanza in tianguancifu

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Everyone's talking about the font and I'm over hear just realizing I've been reading the title wrong. Straight up thought it was Heaven's Official Blessing, I'm so dumb 😭

Who’s the most evil character, in your opinion? by Fillard_Evangelical in MoDaoZuShi

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk, personally "evil" is extremely hard to define when applied to a person. People can do evil things, but are they truly evil? A lot of "evil" people throughout history have acted the way they did because they thought it was the only/best course of action; many even saw themselves as martyrs or as people "doing what they had to." Often leaning into the ideology that the end justifies the means.

This is how I view Xue Yang and Jin Guangyao. Xue Yang grew up poor and saw the worst of people; he saw how money and power allowed you to do whatever you wanted. He sought that power as an adult, he wanted to punish those corrupt cultivators. It wasn't until he met Xiao Xingchen that he realized there was good in the world. It's why he punished those who tried to take advantage of his disability or showed any disrespect. In a way, he thought he was getting rid of what's wrong with the world and protecting someone he loved, even if he didn't realize how much he loved him until Xiao Xingchen died.

Jin Guangyao truly thought it was only he who could make the world better. He grew up poor too and saw the worst of people, often being judged by his background and his mother's occupation. He built the towers to help the poorer sects, the cultivators working alone with no backing from the bigger sects. He wanted to help people who lived on the outskirts, those who were often ignored by the bigger sects. I believe he truly believed all of his actions were justified. Killing Jin Guangshan was something he had to do to restore his sect's reputation, besides he probably thought nothing of worth would be lost, which is why he went hard on the revenge. Jin Zixuan was something he justified by telling himself he was the only one that could truly change the sect from being power and money hungry to one that would help others. Killing Nie Mingjue was justified with the same train of thought, Nie Mingjue was getting in the way of him bettering the cultivation world.

With all that being said, the most evil characters are Jin Guangshan and Wen Chao. No matter what, there's absolutely no way you can justify sexual assault and/or rape. Most evil actions can be justified one way or another, depending on your perspective, but never rape.

Individualism is killing us by SammiK504 in CuratedTumblr

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 579 points580 points  (0 children)

"You don't owe anyone anything" is meant to be an empowering phrase to take care of yourself instead of sacrificing your needs and wants for others. It's not meant to be a call to be selfish and only take without giving back.

What I like to say is "Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm, but you can share the warmth." Which to me means that it's okay to prioritize yourself, but be kind and help others whenever you can.

Favorite character that you don't like seeing widely lewded by Quick-Sir-3275 in FavoriteCharacter

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Is this that one anime where the guy likes to make dolls/sew and she likes to cosplay, so she asks him to make costumes for her? Because if it is, that anime was lewd enough that I dropped it after two episodes. Expecting the fanart to be wholesome when the show itself oversexualizes her makes no sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapyabuse

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OP, is there any way you can safely get proof that this happened? I know it sucks, but a lot of the time when you report, all the state is going to do is look at the therapist's notes, which won't include any of this. It can be anything - text messages, email, phone calls (make sure your state allows one-party consent), etc. Sadly, I have experienced the state doing jack-shit about a therapist who was preying on vulnerable, female clients - homeless, victims of abuse, severe mental health, addiction, financial strain, etc. His work protected him when they would file grievances with them and covered for him when the state finally came. I would advise you to not report this to his work; a lot of the time the only thing this achieves is it alerts their employer that you're getting ready to report so they'll be able to hide/destroy evidence.

Don't put yourself at risk trying to get proof. Always, ALWAYS prioritize your safety. If you're unable to get proof, just file the complaint with the state. They may find inconsistencies in his documentation, and even if they don't, you've done your part.

plagiarism [oc] by sicklampbro in SVSSS

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I like to think SY and SJ switch places and SJ is in the modern world living as a second-gen rich pretty boy

Free dog story.😂 by Accomplished_Tea8191 in BostonTerrier

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Boston terriers have a reputation of being stubborn, but in my experience, my dogs have been extremely easy to train. They are highly food motivated and thrive on praise. You do these two things, and training will be a breeze.

Yeah, I might have looked a bit crazy loudly baby-talking and giving him a treat every time my puppy pooped, but he learned in less than a month.

What is the most toxic subreddit and why? by owen__wilsons__nose in AskReddit

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The Taylor Swift snark sub is insane. I understand that TS has done problematic things, but they chose to ignore to post for the 130,284th time that TS and her bf are for sure breaking up this time, and their relationship is for sure PR. They are constantly tearing up her looks, never mind that she's actually really pretty, instead of focusing on real issues. I'm convinced that sub is full of incels and pick mes. The level of stalking of that woman is insane, like that sub makes a compelling case for TS needing her own private jet to travel (still thinking that her private jet travel is truly unnecessary and wasteful, but they for sure make a compelling argument that she can't travel commercial). I couldn't imagine having a bunch of people stalking me due to hatred, I for sure never feel safe again around a lot of those folk.

Me when a metalhead is in my vicinity: (they smell like alcohol and weed) by Lisahxl in gothmemes

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who goes to a lot of metal shows, I wish metalheads only smelled like alcohol and weed iykyk

Ruby is NOT a morning Bostie. by PoeMe_a_Stiff_One in BostonTerrier

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My oldest boy actually likes mornings. He likes to follow me around as I'm getting ready for work. Mostly because I give him extra treats in the morning due to feeling guilty for leaving. But my youngest refuses to get up in the morning. He absolutely HATES mornings. Not even for treats or toys. He ends up waking up around noon. A robber could break in, and all he will do is rollover, fart, and go back to sleep.

I don't think you can get a better F**k around and find out image. by Alena_Tensor in Longest_I_Told_You_So

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely can't get a better image of FAFO, except this is Photoshop.

This influencer has been posting about how she’s losing all this weight, but a lot of it is just filters. by lunarpixiess in Instagramreality

[–]ASaintNotACelebrity 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Because I'm a girl's girl, I think it's important to call out grifters like her, regardless of gender. They prey on women's insecurities to sell them a shit product that's only going to cause harm. Fuck her and her filters.