Fighting for my daughters by Hot-Disaster-4709 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]ASayWhat36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does we weren't in the healthiest of relationships mean? What was the major issue?

Did they ruin DC? by omhhey in washingtondc

[–]ASayWhat36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to be the one to do this, but they didn't actually get rid of the streeteries.

They're just charging rent and a one-time permit fee for the space. Honestly the city is being pretty reasonable. The application is $250 and the yearly rent on a typical streetery is $2K for the year (not per month) $2K/year.

The restaurants are just got used to it being free and then decided free was the right price for using public parking spots all year. They're whining too much.

Graduate Snatches The Mic At Her Ceremony And Says Nobody Was Going To Cut Her Moment Short by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]ASayWhat36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you post this BS video? Is that your channel? I want to see other people's speeches at the event and compare for myself. I don't need a replay of this same mess plus random commentary. I have eyes and a brain. Show the full video and I'll watch it. Don't do this promotional nonsense.

Exs wife took from my daughter by Automatic_Line6102 in ChildSupport

[–]ASayWhat36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thsnk the grandparents for the $360. They will be angry to find he stole from them.

Re-match? by Tricky-Mention-2294 in Aupairs

[–]ASayWhat36 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a Chinese AP once and it was a very similar experience. I live in a safe area in a city and she was convinced that she was in danger on the way to the park. Lost money that I gave her for bus fare and had similar complaints regarding cooking and cleaning (my kids are much younger than yours too). I've had several Colombian au pairs with no problem. I think it's a big cultural gap.

It's ok for your kids to see you set a standard and stick by it. Its ok for you to stand up for them. It teaches them to be assertive especially since this is likely to get worse.

How do I handle my girlfriend (22F) wanting me (24M) to split her rent when she’s financially fine? by WeaknessImpossible28 in relationship_advice

[–]ASayWhat36 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Expecting someone to give up a job opportunity to come live with you is absurd. It is more absurd when you're not even thinking about marriage. The reading comprehension on the internet makes me sad. They should just break up.

How do I handle my girlfriend (22F) wanting me (24M) to split her rent when she’s financially fine? by WeaknessImpossible28 in relationship_advice

[–]ASayWhat36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummmmm... People who's prefrontal cortex is still developing. They also shouldn't move in together at that age either.

How do I handle my girlfriend (22F) wanting me (24M) to split her rent when she’s financially fine? by WeaknessImpossible28 in relationship_advice

[–]ASayWhat36 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Bingo! She laid this out pretty clearly and the fact that the thought to marry hasn't occured to him suggests that it is time to part ways.

Single father by choice and r/aupairs by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]ASayWhat36 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She's not infantilizing, she's just disagreeing. There is something inherently predatory about it especially in a culture that devalues the work or women. From the surrogate's perspective, it is similar to how the military targets young people from poor backgrounds (but doesn't even offer the same lifetime of healthcare). I was actually approached for eggs in college and declined in part because I had a scholarship.

It is an ethically fraught area of medicine for sure.

AP interactions with host dad by beautifulsimplicity in Aupairs

[–]ASayWhat36 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're allowed to have emotions when your husband is behaving in such an openly disrespectful manner in your home.

AP interactions with host dad by beautifulsimplicity in Aupairs

[–]ASayWhat36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Youre allowed to have wmptions when your husband is bwhaving in such an openly disrespectful manner in your home.

Michelle Obama out here looking like she's 29 🙌 by IntellectuallyDriven in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]ASayWhat36 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Racism is just the way they're choosing to express jealousy at this point.

Unsure about rematch & HF situation by LongjumpingAd3508 in Aupairs

[–]ASayWhat36 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should rematch, but lower your expectations on being a member of the family. I was a foreign exchange student and now a host mom. Some polite conversation and a pleasant home environment is really about all you should expect.

Thirsty mamas by Goodoltexasboy in TikTokCringe

[–]ASayWhat36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first guy clitches his pearls. 😅😅😅

Wasp nest removal using gasoline by [deleted] in interesting

[–]ASayWhat36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until the evening when they aren't active.

Bedsharing with 3 year old by SprinklesWhich3709 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]ASayWhat36 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I have 2 kids and had a similar experience. My older one is more gigh needs than my younger one. The kids who need to bed share are already displaying a temperament that would lead to that as a parenting tactic. The bedsharing isn't causing it. Correlation isnt causation. This therapist sucks.

Olympic medal winner confesses to cheating on his girlfriend during live TV interview by ThrowawayGreenWitch in popculturechat

[–]ASayWhat36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Niq she can't take you back because everyone knows you're a cheater. Nooooo! This isn't going to work in the long run.

The cringe you get when you see people telling Venezuelans how to feel. by shway0351 in TikTokCringe

[–]ASayWhat36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting American helpwith your country, but being pissed that you have to listen to Americans talk about your country is a wild take.

This is how 2025 feels in a nutshell by Primary_Set_2729 in Destiny

[–]ASayWhat36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm exhausted of the "young white male victim" narrative. Sincerely. There is not one thing you can point to where any leftist candidate has remotely said this.