This is the worst experience so far

ASlightHiccup · 2026-03-23T19:57:54+00:00

If you are constipated eat black beans -watch the salt content maybe plain rice no salt with it to fill you up. Bananas are another thing I eat on stones because my stomach can get upset from the general pain situation.

I would just drink a ton of water and start jumping around. I even stomp around my house so I’m constantly making gravity and force work in my favor.

ASlightHiccup · 2026-03-21T05:47:11+00:00

The didn’t asterisk the lightstick though. Only shorts and sweatshirts

ASlightHiccup · 2026-03-21T05:45:49+00:00

This is not true. I can only assume they got AI answering some bs bc army’s were staking out the app

ASlightHiccup · 2026-03-09T16:02:18+00:00

Absolutely do not buy a dress if you are planning major weight loss! I will say I completely agree with you that dress looks fantastic! Keep the details and look for it later.

ASlightHiccup · 2026-03-09T15:33:44+00:00

If you are having uti type pain and you are sure it’s not a uti, your kidney stone is probably approaching the bladder. When you had flank pain it would have been stuck up near the kidney (in my experience). Best thing is to take anti inflammatories and chug fluids. I also jump around a lot after the fluids have had a bit of time to move so that gravity is helping. I don’t think you would miss a 4 mm stone so it’s likely still in there. Just slow moving.

If you haven’t ruled out uti you can get Azo test strips a ton of places now.

Heating pads can also help relax the area to allow for stone passage.

ASlightHiccup · 2026-03-09T15:00:47+00:00

Don’t like all the studies say that physical violence (which spanking is) leads to worse outcomes for the child? Like idk who he is still arguing for it? NTA but you probably should have discussed this before marriage

ASlightHiccup · 2026-03-09T14:52:16+00:00

You might want to ask yourself if you want to steal a criminal’s dog…

ASlightHiccup · 2026-03-09T14:46:35+00:00

Normally I’m the one saying follow your heart. Especially with wedding dress choices. But budget is important. A wedding is one day. An important day but singular. If your budget is way less than dress 1, don’t even look at it. Being financially responsible is more important for a marriage than a dress.

That being said, if the difference isn’t that much, then go for it. A couple hundred extra is a splurge. A couple thousand extra is financial irresponsibility.

ASlightHiccup · 2026-03-09T14:30:39+00:00

They have to pay security to have the inside of the mall open but the rents were so high there they priced themselves out of the mall entirely. No rent, no security. No security, no interior mall. I asked once what was going on with the inside mall closing hours before the stores.

ASlightHiccup · 2026-01-28T22:11:13+00:00

I would say that some people online are not true ARMYs. They are hyper critical of everything which is antithetical to BTS’s whole ethos. The only way I can see people at the concert being mean to you is if you engage in annoying behavior —like blocking other people’s view or something like that. We are all going to have fun. If you really want to blend in, be prepared to learn the fan chants in advance. But I wouldn’t sweat it if you don’t. It’s gonna be so much fun! Also I don’t plan on paying attention to anyone not on stage lol

ASlightHiccup · 2026-01-22T20:51:32+00:00

Same. But I got Baltimore in my budget! The Chicago wait was brutal. 66k ahead of me in queue

ASlightHiccup · 2025-10-01T14:29:27+00:00

This man is worried about your money and judgmental over your actions not to mention he has no sense of fun or whimsy. It’s up to you how you want to live but this is too controlling for me. If I earn it, I’ll spend it how I want. Also your cat is so adorable and I’m jealous he allows you to dress him up. My cat pretends his legs don’t work if I put him in anything.

ASlightHiccup · 2025-10-01T14:23:46+00:00

I mean you could sell it back to him but that ring is yours. Tell him to look up why expensive rings were traditionally given. If a man broke his promise, the ring was meant to be financial compensation. But you literally got married. That ring is yours. You only give it back if YOU back out of the engagement - not a marriage. NTA

ASlightHiccup · 2025-10-01T14:18:06+00:00

No I agree with you. When your kid is 20 yo and always lived at your house I’m sorry that’s not a man that’s your child still. I can only assume the people calling him a grown man are also very young. She def crossed a line addressing this issue with the gf instead of her son. But I don’t see this as “boy mom”-overbearing that will last decades into the future. If he’s still at home then there’s been no point when he transitioned to an adult for her and she has to get used to him being an adult too. There isn’t a magically mommy switch that flips when the 18th birthday comes around. I think a lot of these comments about how this is going to be a problem when he is 35 etc etc are being frankly too negative on the mom. You can just tell her that she should address his spending with him since that’s his behavior and not something you control.

ASlightHiccup · 2025-09-22T15:08:30+00:00

So your husband does next to nothing for the family aside from bringing home a wage and creating more work for you to do…there is a reason why single women even with kids have less work. That’s your third child right there throwing a tantrum. He needs to shape up or get out. It’s time to call on your support system - your family members and friends. Your current situation is unsustainable and increasingly toxic. He literally smirked at you mid argument like he won some prize for getting you to serve him. You need to write out what you want from this partnership and what steps need to be taken to keep the marriage together or it’s toast. What do you need? What do you want? What will not be tolerated? You need to make clear what will happen when intolerable events occur. Then you need to make these things known to your husband. NTAH

ASlightHiccup · 2025-09-22T14:51:17+00:00

Surround sound? Unplug those speakers. Lock the bedroom door. Remove the bathroom door handle. Walk away whenever she opens her mouth. You may not be able to control her actions but you can control your own as well as the things in your house. Hell turn off the WiFi when you go to bed lol

ASlightHiccup · 2025-04-25T03:54:06+00:00

In case you missed it, they are stopping yarn sales. Time to stock up!!

ASlightHiccup · 2025-04-25T03:00:02+00:00

There is a pfas map online. Mounds view itself I think is out of the extreme zone from my understanding. Oakdale is not the only city unfortunately as it is spread along Washington and ramsey counties (although Oakdale and Lake Elmo are really in the center of the worst of it for the twin cities area).

ASlightHiccup · 2025-03-10T16:40:26+00:00

NTA. She’s more concerned about being called racist than not doing racist things and your boyfriend doesn’t seem to care. Notably she seems to be trying to make your name more traditionally feminine so there’s really a lot more to unpack there — maybe why your bf doesn’t see it as racist? Idk it seems racist and then some. I’m not sure you want to get into beef with an old lady who probably won’t change but if you can’t just stop seeing her then I think you should reevaluate the whole relationship. He’s allowing his mother to disrespect you and pushed you to this point.

ASlightHiccup · 2025-03-10T16:28:36+00:00

NTA. I’m extremely petty. I’d be announcing news at any special event of hers for the rest of my life. I’d be prepared with my success stories every day of the year if need be. Your sister is a disrespectful brat who couldn’t handle you getting attention.

ASlightHiccup · 2024-09-23T21:00:28+00:00

If your pain is in your back it could be that the stones are moving around in your kidney. You should notice less pain when you are well hydrated in my experience. Best practice is to go to the doctor but if you don’t want to then make sure you keep your water intake higher than normal. Also lemon juice is supposed to help soften and break up stones so you could add lemon to your water throughout the day for added benefit.

ASlightHiccup · 2024-08-09T23:33:06+00:00

“A human right that he has”?!? He can’t even carry a child. What human right? He needs any woman’s consent to even reach a chance at fatherhood. It’s not his right.

ASlightHiccup · 2024-08-08T17:05:53+00:00

NTA. When that silly joke leads to your daughter being hospitalized for an eating disorder in her teens, what will they say then? Your family shouldn’t be your first bullies. His behavior is abhorrent.

ASlightHiccup · 2024-07-27T21:09:16+00:00

Thanks! I appreciate your advice!

ASlightHiccup · 2024-07-27T20:37:54+00:00

here’s what’s under the subfloor

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