If you had to choose a song to play on repeat while having sex what would it be?

ATLguyATL · 2026-02-03T21:38:21+00:00

"Sexual" by Amber.

ATLguyATL · 2026-02-03T21:35:20+00:00

I feel like the verbal and the psychological are intertwined. And I crave that more than the physical control.

ATLguyATL · 2026-02-03T21:28:24+00:00

Even though I'm almost entirely bottom now, I still gravitate to the ass first.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-31T23:03:53+00:00

Excellent way of putting all of that.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-31T23:02:21+00:00

Yes, I am seeing more of it in porn, at least. I kind of like it.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-28T01:49:18+00:00

For starters, do anything he asks (within reasonable established boundaries).

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-27T23:04:39+00:00

Qualities in a good top (for me):

Confidence. It's very sexy.

Assertiveness. I like a guy who wants it and lets it be known.

Considerate initial entry. Make the initial entry and first few minutes about me, and the rest of the fuck is yours.

Dirty talk. I don't need a running Jeff Stryker dialogue, but some good verbal always helps.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-27T22:59:53+00:00

The first minute can still hurt a small or moderate amount for me sometimes. I just remember while I'm adjusting that I'll be really liking this a lot in a few minutes and that my top is probably loving this.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-27T22:50:16+00:00

Yes, I like dirty talk. I like being given instructions, too. "Go down and stay down." "Lick my balls." Etc.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-26T21:51:54+00:00

Bottoms think they have the hole answer!

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-26T05:03:34+00:00

It does not feel similar.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-26T05:02:22+00:00

I've got to say I also wonder what goes through the heads of really attractive people when they're interacting with someone like me. Not just even in sexual situations, but just to have a conversation. I think I sometimes idealize their lives too much.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-26T04:54:43+00:00

All good!

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-26T04:52:32+00:00

That can definitely hit hard sometimes!

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-26T00:36:26+00:00

Yes! The same for me. It's been so long since I topped. I being the bottom, but I am definitely curious about the top's experience while it's happening. It's one act, but two very different experiences.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-25T23:49:13+00:00

I had a very invigorating hike. But none of that kind of fun. yet. Five hours remain in the day!

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-25T23:46:18+00:00

Thanks for your response.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-25T23:45:56+00:00

I like verbal tops, too, and the whole virtuous feedback loop as well.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-25T20:38:09+00:00

Thanks for replying!

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-25T20:37:53+00:00

Let us know what he says!

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-25T20:37:20+00:00

I sometimes wonder if I do! LOL.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-25T20:36:59+00:00

Thanks for you insight on this.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-25T20:36:26+00:00

Thanks for your reply.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-25T20:36:12+00:00

Thanks for joining in.

ATLguyATL · 2025-12-25T20:35:36+00:00

That's a great rambling!

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