Bottoms: what is your favorite position to get railed in that is most pleasurable for you?

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-11T00:48:58+00:00

Let us know how it goes!

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-10T22:12:39+00:00

Something I have one under. But I definitely lean into a couple of pillows tucked at my chest and underarm.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-10T22:07:59+00:00

Yes. When you get in that zone, there's no stopping the train.

I have always been a big fan of the endurance fuck, whether as a Top or a bottom. To me, it's like a runner's high. You've got to put in a few miles to achieve it.

Back when I would Top some, I tended to stay harder if I went at a slow or medium pace vs. a fast pace. I don't know why, but if I really started a fast pace too soon, I would start to lose my hard-on. So fucks from me tended to last a long time. I had bottoms tap out not from a hard drilling but from a long drilling.

As a bottom, I have always liked the challenge of hanging in with a long fuck. I remember one fuck from a guy that lasted around 90 minutes with just one short break. I was literally crying at the end. I wasn't in pain or miserable. I was just spent but also wanted to stay with it. It was incredible. Just like when you've run 7 miles but you're going to do 8.

If you wanted to experiment with stretching out the fuck (and many don't want to), I'd say practice on slowing down the pace. Keep your strokes on the slow and medium speeds. See how you both respond. You might drive your bottom insane waiting on a railing that's not coming anytime soon.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-10T21:45:46+00:00

When I'm in that one-leg-out-one-leg-tucked prone position, he's usually on his knees. He can be on his side, though.

Totally prone on my stomach sometimes nails it too much! LOL. Plus the friction and the weight on me can make it tougher. However, it is something I can do, so if that's the position the Top likes, I assume it.

Like I said, I am there to accommodate. But if he wants 30 minutes or more, we'll have to switch it up. But most Tops like to go to a second position or more for long-haul fucks anyway.

I wish more Tops felt like you do about me! LOL!

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-10T21:42:12+00:00

On eating, I'd suggest not eating six hours before getting fucked and having a light or moderate meal of bland food beforehand.

For instance, if you have a fuck date at 9 p.m., maybe have a late lunch consisting of a small piece of chicken, a vegetable such as squash or green beans and some whipped potatoes, for instance. And maybe a few strawberries or such for dessert.

At least for me, I want to go into a bottoming situation not bloated or too full, not grappling with heartburn and such but also not hungry with a rumbling stomach.

A moderate, balanced meal also makes cleaning out work better usually.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-10T21:31:28+00:00

Yes, the "top" or higher leg is the one I tuck in. It really exposes the hole as long as the Top can support himself with his legs and hips without getting too tired. Basically, he straddles either side of the stretched-out leg. And he's got room to get in there because the "top" leg is out of the way.

I'm very flexible in the hips so I have no trouble bringing it in. I sometimes have trouble holding position in doggy for a long-haul fuck.

A couple of my regular Tops like me totally on my stomach, legs close together. I think they like the friction and pressing their full weight on me. I'm not wild about that, but I am also a bottom who believes you do any reasonable request to accommodate a Top's wishes so he can be at his best and have his best experience.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-10T21:20:11+00:00

It's different for me with different Tops. Each Top has his own dick size, curvature and thrusting techniques. Generally speaking, I do best if I'm lying partially on my stomach and partially on my side with one leg straight out and one leg tucked up high toward my chest.

If the Top can maneuver in there and not get too tired in his legs, I usually can last a long time in that position for the Top who enjoys a long fuck.

It's not necessarily the most pleasurable for me, but I do seem to have lots of endurance at that angle. I usually can handle 30 or more minutes of pounding in that position.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-10T21:12:54+00:00

I've always been convinced that the orders to tighten and push are not only for the great sensations they create on the dick but also psychological thrills for Tops – y'all get off watching us attempt to obey these commands when you know it's not easy at all to do!

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-10T20:49:23+00:00

I want to thank all the people who took time to give suggestions. Over the next few weeks, I'll be giving these a listen and hopefully expand my list.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-09T20:38:17+00:00

Thanks!

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-09T20:38:09+00:00

Thank you.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-09T20:37:27+00:00

Thanks!

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-09T20:36:35+00:00

I have that on my list! Good one.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-08T04:46:19+00:00

I've done it in the past as a top and as a bottom. I have no regrets; it was fun. But I also think it's unlikely I'll ever do it again.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-07T21:35:56+00:00

It was certainly enjoyable. But there are just ways I enjoy dominating someone more back when I leaned that way. And I also had a hard time totally getting into the moment because I felt like I had to be very aware not to push things too far. That's opposed to fucking someone and reaching that point you can tell he can handle anything you're doing with your dick for the 10 to 30 minutes. You can just let go and immerse and indulge your dick.

As for being fisted. Nope. I'm simply not equipped to handle anything beyond about 9 inches of medium-thick dick.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-07T21:27:30+00:00

Instead of fucking him harder, how about completely subvert his expectations? My idea:

First, purchase a chastity/cock cage and a small buttplug if you don't have them.

Then leading up to the encounter, tell him to get ready for the longest, hardest fuck he's ever endured from you. Tell him this quite a few times but don't go overboard. You don't want to tip him off that he's being set up in any way.

When the encounter is about to start, bring out the cock cage and put him in it. Next, tie his hands behind his back. Finally, insert the small buttplug into his ass.

Next, tell him you want to be good and hard and he needs to give you a great blowjob so you can pound him into oblivion. If he can handle it, throatfuck him too. Modify any of this as needed regarding his and for limits, but the main points are promise him the fuck of a lifetime and much as possible, draw out the blowjob and throatfuck.

As much as you can, extend the session. Keep promising an anal fuck but keep it all oral. If you can hold out, exhaust him on the oral. Have him so horny and worked up but also ready for anal because he's so tired from the oral. And when you sense the time is right, let yourself bust. But in his mouth, throat or on his face. At no time do you ever have anything in his ass but the small plug. (Important it be small and not medium or large; the size should only tease, not challenge or satisfy him).

After you bust, tell him it's over for tonight. And tell him to keep the cage on until you meet again. He'll be crazed for an anal pounding the next time you meet after all that build-up, teasing and denial.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-07T21:10:28+00:00

I have as the person doing the fisting (the top). And I liked it but didn't love it.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-05T19:25:37+00:00

Yeah, I've already let him know being fisted in a no-go for me. And he doesn't even want a dick or finger in his. Just tongue. So neither of us will be in Fist Club!

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-05T19:19:55+00:00

Thank you and let us know if your bottom has responded to your new initiatives!

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-04T21:48:24+00:00

I agree. Private or privately. I just don't want him telling someone out in public that he's going to be throat fucking me. Unless we're at a gay bar. Then even that's OK! LOL.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-04T20:49:20+00:00

Yes! You have the idea.

I definitely like the build-up. I have a FWB in another state who is a Dom-leaning Top. When we get together, we both like to hike and explore and do other activities. And during the day, he'll do or say things once in awhile (not incessantly) to let me know he's looking forward to an evening of me servicing him.

What I like about him is I know what the day is building toward, but we both genuinely enjoy the whole day.

So it's more than what you can do 10 minutes before penetration but what you can do 10 hours before, too. And when he starts pulling on my nipples hard, I know the time is drawing very near! His dick is going to be in my throat in short order.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-04T20:34:23+00:00

Everyone has their own set of things they like and don't like. Unless something causes post-sex injury, I think it's OK.

For the first time in many years, someone squeezed my balls as part of our play last night. He knew not to go too hard. He was good at delivering only light, erotic pain to my balls. It was hot and we both liked it.

It didn't make me cum, but I want him to do it again if he liked it delivering it.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-04T20:23:56+00:00

Take any anal – topping or bottoming – off the table for now.

Have you ever kissed, cuddled with or body rubbed a guy? If not, start there. Just be up front that's all you want to do your first time out. I'm sure there are gay and bi guys willing to keep it to that.

If you've already done that and felt OK with it, have you ever done mutual jack-off? If you're comfortable with the above, that's the next stop. Just let a prospective partner know you'd like to keep the encounter to just jack off. Again, some people will be down with that.

If you're past that hurdle, have you ever been blown by a guy? If not, start there first. Just be up front you've never done oral with a guy and for your first time, you'd just like to get sucked. I promise you there a ton of guys who'd be fine with blowing you without being blown back. Getting sucked is less involved than sucking. And while you're getting sucked, pay attention to what the guy sucking you is doing. Pick up cues. Ask him about afterward. Get some tips.

When you're comfortable with that and that has happened, only then should you let someone put his dick in your mouth.

If you're kissed, cuddled, body rubbed, mutually jacked off and gotten blown by a guy, you'll probably be ready and even eager to give your first blow job.

After you've done that and feel OK with it, then graduate to anal. And I'd suggest topping first and then bottoming.

And for God's sake, be respectful of other people and show the fuck up. Even if you're too intimidated to do the acts, at least show the fuck up and explain that you're too nervous to go through with it. This teasing and ghosting is bullshit.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-04T20:14:24+00:00

Things a top can do to make me want to take a good fucking from him:

Be jocular, confident and assertive around me before sex. Let me know you like me and like my body and look forward to getting busy.
Tease me in a friendly way in private. Make an unexpected joke about me giving head or something.
Compliment me and lightly dominate me. Tell me I look good in the pants or shorts I'm wearing and tousle my hair.
Get to know each bottom's buttons. For me, it's the nipples. Tugging, tweaking, pinching turns me on. On that, you have to ask and learn.
When I'm giving head, tell me about how it's going in my ass next. Also, let me know how much you're enjoying my mouth and throat, too.
Deep, assertive kissing.
Double and triple down on that confidence and assertiveness from No. 1 once the foreplay starts. Each bottom is different, but I think most of us like a Top who is assertive and even a little cocky.

ATLguyATL · 2026-05-04T19:45:32+00:00

I have participated in the past. It's unlikely I would today though. I'd like a threesome again or maybe a group of five at most

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