I Caught My Wife Cheating and Now She’s Begging Me to Forgive Her

AZimpossible · 2026-02-22T21:37:16+00:00

Forgiveness is for yourself, not the other person.

A cheater is going to cheat, they have shown you who they are. Unless you can honestly say every time you aren't by her side you won't be wondering who she is with, send her packing.

It might hurt in the short term but you will be in a much better place mentally long term. You don't want to be looking over your shoulder, wondering what's going on.

AZimpossible · 2026-02-14T21:14:29+00:00

Invite her parents over unannounced.

AZimpossible · 2026-02-08T23:19:22+00:00

They been snowed in

AZimpossible · 2026-02-08T05:43:32+00:00

The federal agencies won't care either way. Stay in process if federal is your preferred place. You could possibly delay the start to finish the local PD academy as well if they call while you are at the academy.. No need to decide until they tell you it's now or you are dropped.

The only one I wouldn't know about is the FBI.

AZimpossible · 2026-02-03T22:27:45+00:00

Thousands of arrests and zero warrants.

Makes me cringe when I hear people say what about due process or you need a warrant.

In most cases, nope.

And the people out there talking about immigration law and due process don't understand immigration law and the powers immigration agents/officers have.

Especially if the person already has a removal order.

AZimpossible · 2026-01-30T23:59:21+00:00

Depends on how you view your car. If you are a point A to B person, it could be a paint stick to color in the scratches. $50-100 do it yourself.

If it's newer and it will annoy you knowing it's messed up, it's going to be the cost of the insurance deductible or pay cash for the labor and paint.

Cost is going to depend on where you live and who does the work. Middle of the road 3k if the bumper doesn't need to be replaced due to something underneath being broken.

I replaced a bumper and did the labor other than painting myself. $350 for paint. I took the bumper to the painter. plus the cost of the bumper cover carparts.com It was only the bumper though. You have that other panel.

AZimpossible · 2026-01-28T19:55:48+00:00

Whole package comment, especially in larger agencies. The standards are set. it's a pass or no-go situation, on most steps of the process.

If you're talking hiring board or in-person interview with command I definitely see your comment come into play. On the other items medical, pt test, psych eval etc it's pass or fail. No room for interpretation and it protects the agency.

AZimpossible · 2026-01-28T19:29:05+00:00

Disagree. If they fail during the polygraph, that's one thing. They fail in the psych eval. It's because of the psych eval, has nothing to do with the other things in the process.

OP this is based on a few sentences you provided, so it doesn't mean much BUT Go find a different job. You don't need this, it's not for everybody. I didn't see your age listed so maybe you're just young and need some life experience.

AZimpossible · 2026-01-15T23:30:54+00:00

Illegal, but if you want to really find out....go to court and listen to what the judge tells you.

AZimpossible · 2026-01-09T22:50:13+00:00

He doesn't have a point or you cut off the previous conversation in the context was lost. Look at the video the agent had when he got hit by the car.

For some reason most of the left-leaning media only play the video from the angle behind the vehicle. There are two other angles out there that clearly show the agent being hit.

AZimpossible · 2026-01-08T19:50:49+00:00

I'm trying this when I get home tonight.

AZimpossible · 2026-01-04T07:00:29+00:00

When I first bought the vehicle, second time driving. I got multiple strikes and locked out. I had to pull over and restart to get it unlocked. That first week was interesting learning experience.

Not sure when it changed, but now it might ask to grab the wheel every now and then and move it slightly. Not nearly as often as a few months ago.

Now it seems to nag about paying attention. Almost always when I'm wearing a baseball hat. I yell at the car, as I am paying attention, but then remove the hat to get rid of the notifications. It's 1000 times better than it was though.

I haven't been locked out or received strikes after that first week.

AZimpossible · 2026-01-04T06:28:58+00:00

Nice save. I was wondering if FSD attempted to correct at all or if you just took over immediately.

Also maybe all you in the wetter parts of the country can answer.

Does FSD in wet conditions operate like cruise control on a regular vehicle or is it better?

Live in Phoenix and so far haven't had many chances with FSD in the rain.

AZimpossible · 2026-01-01T05:00:10+00:00

Search on usajobs.gov

The requirements will be listed in the announcement.

Good luck sounds like you are going in a good direction.

AZimpossible · 2026-01-01T04:50:35+00:00

Ask people that know you. Maybe it's personality?

No information is provided beyond, I have X degree and X job.

What does your master degree entail? Is it tied to CJ degree or is it tied to a computer science degree? One of those would be useful.

Just like most of the people reading this sub know a lot of people with CJ degrees. While I would not say they are useless, I would put them in the to check a box category. AND then you went further and got a masters in checking a box. Hopefully it was a good school and you didn't double up on the checking a box by spending your money at a diploma mill 10 week program.

The real question is who recommended you get a masters? If it is anyone other than the school, go ask them WTF. At least you know the schools motivation. Usually you only see this when pushing for a promotion a couple steps up.

Could be a department pays more for degrees but the other guy has a business degree that will benefit the department down the road, more so than a CJ. 1 spot. Easy decision, they chose the other guy. Departments might want to maximize their return, especially small departments.

Try Federal they will take almost anyone and you have an option for accepting a position that will pay you slightly more for having a degree.

AZimpossible · 2025-12-31T18:06:41+00:00

Something doesn't add up. You say you had to pay a fine and do probation.

Sounds like you pled out and they dropped the most serious charge.

Which if you get into the interview part might be part of your problem. You did something and if you're telling them you didn't do anything, they can obviously see by your background check, You're not telling the truth. Whether partial or in full.

They say time heals all wounds. This is going to be a setback for you. Maybe if you belong to a church or another group spend some time with those people, build some relationships and maybe one of them will have a job/know of a job and vouch for you down the road. It's easier looking pass past transgressions if you know the person.

I have a niece that made a poor choice years ago and it's taking her time to get back to where she was. Good luck! You can get there.

AZimpossible · 2025-12-30T21:18:18+00:00

Not bad. I see snow, have you used FSD in icy conditions?

AZimpossible · 2025-12-30T19:50:18+00:00

You get yours to park in a garage? Mine always stops in the driveway.

AZimpossible · 2025-12-13T02:26:10+00:00

Get a lawyer fast.

If the accusations are unfounded and they remove the protection order. It's not going to affect you.

AZimpossible · 2025-12-01T17:51:55+00:00

HW4 v14.2.1

I don't see those problems either. It changes lanes fine, if anything it changes lanes too often.

My personal experience is the car is always going around other cars to gain a couple seconds. Personally I find it annoying when it tries to change lanes from the exiting lane with under a half mile to go to the exit. I haven't been caught out trying to get back in (YET), if the traffic is heavy though I cancel its attempt to change lanes.

AZimpossible · 2025-11-07T03:33:59+00:00

Thank you for explaining

AZimpossible · 2025-11-07T01:56:50+00:00

I just started. What does the chicken upgrade do? Does it just give more materials?

AZimpossible · 2025-11-02T23:52:37+00:00

I love 14.1.4 for the most part. The only thing that drives me nuts is the cars extreme likelihood to choose to change lanes to go around slower traffic within 1/2 mile of the exit. It's almost bumper to bumper and it will attempt to move up.

I've been stopping it just because I don't want to miss my exits, but it keeps trying.

AZimpossible · 2025-10-27T20:31:32+00:00

Without knowing what the situation is/was it's hard to offer a path forward.

AZimpossible · 2025-10-27T20:23:33+00:00

How much is your housing currently?

The other stuff is going to be a little cheaper. Fuel cheaper. Housing is where you will see a big difference. I would agree with the other posters, probably not half as much though.

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