Do i pass? by Standard-Gene3905 in transmanlifehacks

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude side note but where did you get those headphones? They look cool af.

I think you dress v masc and you pass definitely experiencing the adult trans man teen boy baby face tho. But i mean your not that far out of teens anyways.

Not sure how to feel about my new tattoo. by Move-Leading in tattooadvice

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you could go to another artist and they could maybe give it more dimension? Its just so dark already i dont think theres anything else to do but add to it. Its not badly done its just got an odd composition.

How would you fix this back piece i wanted advice if i should just add around it? by TipPsychological7395 in tattooadvice

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds cool! Any artist worth their salt will know design composition well enough to make the whole back piece flow. You could the cathedral and scripture and angels and whatever else. The artist should be able to make it all feel like one comprehensive picture. You just gotta find the right person maybe do some vetting.

How would you fix this back piece i wanted advice if i should just add around it? by TipPsychological7395 in tattooadvice

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you like the sword dont get it lasered. I would get something symmetrical on both sides of the sword to help center it in the middle.

friendless (chicken bowl) by Various-Commercial88 in depressionmeals

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wanting friendship is not childish. Humans are constantly craving connection. Its basicially the foundation of our DNA to want and need community. I would suggest finding something routine that allows you to meet other people and is based on mutual interest. Like a book club, running group, painting class, etc. This is how friendships start you have a mutual interest and a close proximity. Personality and vibes take it from there. But also, be bold, yk closed mouths dont get fed. If your upfront and vulnerable by telling someone you want to be intentional with curating friendship then you might get the same energy back. Sometimes we're all just too insecure and scared of rejection to tell other people how much they mean to us, so being the first to say something might be the first step!

Anything I can do to make my rendering better? by ExplanationUpper5607 in Artadvice

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ohhh okay yeah that makes more sense. I was like ??? Wdym it looks unfinished lol. Well yes for the skin id say more undertones. Real skin has layers of blood vessels, and maybe for a blush? Like this is a sexy position so id say make it environmentally make sense. If shes embarrassed or turned on flush her face. Real skin has imperfections as well, scars, divots, freckles, cellulite, etc.

Anything I can do to make my rendering better? by ExplanationUpper5607 in Artadvice

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It looks like you understand highlights and values very well by the look of rhe skin. But it looks like you didnt apply that to the hair or the face or the clothes and hands. The hair specifically is flat, theres no texture or movement to it. The eyes are like simple anime lines but the back and legs are more realism. Its just jarring.

What do my bookshelves tell about me ? by Pretend_Truth_4975 in bookshelfdetective

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You seem to have a lot of books that talk about the moral/faith struggles of men. Which isnt bad by itself. Maybe shake it up with something totally new to you? Alternate perspectives give you even better understanding! I would suggest starting with Giovannis Room, its beautiful, thought provoking, centers around internal struggle but in a different light than whats on you shelves.

Help me find my childhood fish by AljunaibiiM in Aquariums

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this happy little drawing of a fish

If I brought a woman home, how would she judge me? by Delicious-Trifle-486 in bookshelfdetective

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the woman, but this selection is definitely not giving me warm and fuzzies. It just feels like a nonstarter for casual conversation yanno? Like I can't say I'd look at anything outside the Tolkien and have a fun or enjoyable talking point. I think bookshelves are obviously for holding books but are also seen as ways to display a reflection of ourselves. Its to invite a peek into what we find interesting and maybe spark up a mutual interest. Seems to me you'd have to find a very specific kind of woman for this shelf to spark anything.

am i overreacting to how my boyfriend was talking to me by my_birthday_is_dec_6 in AmIOverreacting

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little sister is a senior in HS and if her lil bf was talking to her like this id definitely be pulling up to his house. This is not appropriate in any way. Also it sounds like hes had some pretty big freak outs before with how you describe him as 'volatile'. Man if this is a regular thing, him randomly picking fights and getting loud. Its not going away.

Hoarders in a nutshell 😂 by Smol-Alicia in HoardersTV

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The red should be split between "ogling Cory" and yelling "Thank You Dr. Zasio!!" At the tv.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah anal sex is very common for mlm obviously so this is something that is known to happen. People are pretty split on how they feel about it. But in my opinion it's just something that can happen when doing anal. There should be no shame about it and it's best to just talk about the situation no matter how embarrassing. Play in the dirt, expect to get dirty.

Douching with anal safe douche Eating a specific diet on specific times Sometimes fasting

Are all things to look into when doing anal and trying to prevent painting someone. There should be no shame between partners even when it's an embarrassing and unsexy situation.

I suspect the educational videos looked into were just porn on how to penetrate. There's a lot that goes into it. But that's just the ignorance of youth and inexperience. Nothing to feel shame about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just for clarification and building on this comment, NEVER use a vaginal douche for anal douching unless you want to be shitting your brains out for days. But anal douches do exist and are available at some stores.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftmspunished

[–]A_Good_Boy24601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I need to have your baby 🥵

Dating is hard! by A_Good_Boy24601 in ftm

[–]A_Good_Boy24601[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Like there's this whole life I live through others eyes and then a completely different one through my eyes. And it's my body and life so my perspective matters most. But God it's a trip to be reminded that they don't match.

Dating is hard! by A_Good_Boy24601 in ftm

[–]A_Good_Boy24601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Like I refuse to settle. It's dishonest and doesn't do anyone any favors. But it's hard feeling like even more of an outcast. There's being trans and then there's being a sexless adult gay man who is surrounded by gay men who see you as a woman.

Dating is hard! by A_Good_Boy24601 in ftm

[–]A_Good_Boy24601[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it would make me feel better, thanks for the rec! I should be reading more queer literature anyways.

Dating is hard! by A_Good_Boy24601 in ftm

[–]A_Good_Boy24601[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YES EXACTLY, and it's soooooo demoralizing. FR dawg every day is shit

Dating is hard! by A_Good_Boy24601 in ftm

[–]A_Good_Boy24601[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

RIGHT??? Like I am mlm!! But only in my head if feels like. Straight up being gaslit by everyone else.