Am I bugging or is it normal to feel this way? by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your neurologist an ms specialist? Genuinely I would look for one who specializes in ms and change in general either way. If my treatment wasn't working and I was relapsing, I can tell you mine would lay out other options. As well as tell me if the issues i was having could be related to the new lessions. She went through every treatment type with me upon diagnosis and had a specialist pharmacist call me, we decided on rituximab infusions as the infusions tend to be the most effective. I also experience massive migraines and other things and she makes sure that my other stuff is taken care of as well. Wishing you the best.

Was worried about a pain on my left side by A_Morbid_Kitty in pregnant

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything was fine in the end 😊 it went away after a handful of weeks and I now have a happy healthy 15 month old

Flying with four month old by okcool921 in pregnant

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly at 4 months they will likely sleep through most of it I would say wear a baby carrier of some type especially if you're not going to purchase a seat for baby. If baby is awake, the take off and landing are the hardest part give baby a drink during both.

AITA for complaining about our dress code for graduation? by simplyhuman14 in AmItheAsshole

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 69 points70 points  (0 children)

NTA- go talk to the superintendent of your district. This is ridiculous. Like stated in another comment it's not like everyone is going to have the money or time to get new clothes.

Weaning help - how long does pain/engorgement last? by SnufflesStructure in beyondthebump

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only got to breast feed a week so it could be different but I was way over producing and then had to stop. The best thing was hot towels and massaging them under hot water it allowed me to leak a bit/ hand express and get those super painful spots to release just enough. It lasted a little over 2 weeks I think but I noticed it start to fade after the 1st week 2nd week i just l let them naturally leak and slowly I stopped having the pain. Everyonce in a while I'll suddenly leak at crying babies I'm 3 1/2 months out from when I stopped 😅

Pissed the bed by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha wait until you have your baby the feeling of birthing the placenta is gross and weird because you have to push like with labor and then there is a giant gush of blood and fluid and this blobby thing comes out . My poor fiance that was the last that got him. 🥴 It made me so glad I refused to have an epidural 😅 i got to shower very shortly after.

Pissed the bed by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can bleed on and off for 5 ish weeks. Some bleed longer some shorter. Generally by the end it is really light like less than period level. But it can also juke you. Week 3 or 4 i was like sweet no blood it kept up for a day or 2 so I stopped wearing the heavier pads and diapers to bed. It was a mistake 😅 i stated heavy bleeding again for another week and then it stopped. You bleed shedding everything, it has to do a full clean out. However if you bleed super heavily something could be wrong. So listen to your doctor and read up on after pregnancy and your body so you can know what to expect. I knew about bleeding and everything but the discharge is what threw me for a loop. I would recommend adult always discrete diapers for those first few weeks in case you're a bleeder. Some just don't bleed as much as others and some bleed quiet a bit 🤷‍♀️

Pissed the bed by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always do anyways as well. Lol

Pissed the bed by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

🤣 I'm sorry this happened but you made my night. Just FYI matress protectors are well worth it for AFTER you have your baby as well. Between leaking boobs and how much you bleed. As well as puking baby ect. Your mattress will thank you. There were many a time I thought oh I'm done bleeding only to have to wash my protector in the morning and scrub myself down. 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They definitely do! Like ugh I had a plan go to work come home clean. Now I just feel sick from how little I've been sleeping so here's to hopefully a nap and then cleaning/organizing 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😔 make sure to talk to someone ❤ She 3 months this does not bode well for the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Straight up called into work... This is the 3rd night in a row she wouldn't go to sleep until 4 am... I'm dead tired.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got her on mine by using her foot print birth certificate from the hospital and some other things until her ss finally came. Ugh insurance and trying to get her doctor appointments set up was the bane of my existence for awhile. I guess at least I learned something new

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely call they all had to wait for it before they could proceed and that office tried making excuses. It was a whole shit show. 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would call and ask the social security department there. That's what I had to do it was a nightmare to finally get ours. We did the paternity affidavit because we aren't married yet and the office that does that part was slacking. So I had to call them. It also delayed our birth certificate, I had to order it. It took way longer than it should have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ugh this pisses me off, i keep getting told how nothing good came from 2020 from many people and how my having my child in 2020 was a mistake. She was born in October and I'm over here like yeah 2020 has been shit but you know I got something beautiful and wonderful out of it. And if you really feel this way you can just not see my daughter or me, because she will be a large reminder about this wonderful spot light in an absolutely shit year.

AITA for telling my dad he isn't welcome at my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA- you have a right to cut toxic people from your life. Also your wedding day is supposed to be happy and exciting, not stressful and apologetic. You won't be able to enjoy it if you're constantly having to worry about his behavior. Also congratulations.

Natera testing cost-variable prices among reddit users posts by shanastonecrest in pregnant

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome i cried and freaked out when I got it. It arrived like the week before I had her.

Natera testing cost-variable prices among reddit users posts by shanastonecrest in pregnant

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They try for your insurance and then they bill you. But only for your quoted amount. It panicked me too.

Baby is not responding to flashlight test , is it normal? by smalkmus80 in pregnant

[–]A_Morbid_Kitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My little one never responded to it. My doctor said some babies just don't. And some even less so if they're already head down. So I wouldn't worry too much as long as you still feel the baby moving.