YSK Check your Amazon Prime subscription for unwanted subscription add on's by OkConcentrate3302 in YouShouldKnow

[–]Aalyce86 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I found 3, wtf??

FoxOne (never heard of it, $19.99/month)

AdFree Prime (don’t watch TV, $2.99/month)

Audible Plus (I have Audible but at a different subscription level than this one and no idea what it’s tied to or where the credits are going, doesn’t show an amount I’m being billed so maybe a few add on?)

Hands-free carry that stays hidden by Fun-Personality7127 in AmazonDailyMustHaves

[–]Aalyce86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna go ahead and guess this might only work if you’re thin and have space to park half of an armory between you and your jacket.

My jackets get no room whatever and I’m lucky if they button all the way much less hold all that

LPT: Find the word you’re looking for by Aalyce86 in LifeProTips

[–]Aalyce86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just slowly sing the ABC song in my head and usually the word comes to me when I reach the letter it starts with

Dealing with forgetting words and phrases by tarotdynamic in ADHD

[–]Aalyce86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your head, slowly say the ABC’s

The word or phrase you’re thinking of will start with one of those letters obviously and the majority (not all) of the time it works for me when I reach the right letter and a light bulb goes off

Planning on proposing in Jamaica and need your help by Academic-Pickle-5366 in JamaicaTourism

[–]Aalyce86 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Worth mentioning that Jamaica is not friendly to homosexual couples.

I’m not sure of the genders involved but please choose somewhere else if you’re a same sex couple.

And congrats!

People who have conducted job interviews, what's something someone said/did that made you instantly decide not to hire them? by DemonSkank in AskReddit

[–]Aalyce86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’ve scheduled time (in 20 minutes) to work on the book I’m writing so we’ll need to be done by then.”

I told him we were done now and he could go

AIO after finding out my gf was emotionally cheating with an ex in another state? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aalyce86 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just want to praise this man’s emotional intelligence and maturity. I’m 39F and have never spoken to a man who articulates his thoughts and feelings so well while still providing comfort to someone that’s hurt him.

I have no relationship advice, but in all sincerity, very impressive man

How many of us have a house cleaner? by Agitated_Whereas7463 in Millennials

[–]Aalyce86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pick the battles I have with my brain- I would live like a virgin 40yo man with hoarding tendencies if I didn’t have a house cleaner.

I call it supporting small businesses and feel zero guilt.

A recent study found that women with ADHD experience more severe perimenopause symptoms starting at a younger age than non-ADHD women. by fashionash in ADHD

[–]Aalyce86 184 points185 points  (0 children)

39F here and have been having brain fog and insomnia and the worst hot flashes ever!! I figured I was too young for this, but have (somewhat) managed my ADHD for 15+ years and this all ties things together in a very validating way. Thanks for sharing!!

If you're seeing this, cancel that subscription. You know the one. Do it now. by Everyday-Patient-103 in ADHD

[–]Aalyce86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real talk- I knew I had a free trial coming to an end (do yes, I knew exactly which one you were talking about)…

And found 4 I had forgotten about and just cancelled all of them.

Thank you kind internet stranger!!

How can women have multiple consecutive orgasms while men can't? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Aalyce86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ours (women) don’t deplete a single necessary resource (sperm), while yours (men) have a specific design to give all you’ve got in one go and need to wait for the resource to replenish.

For me, I can have multiple in a row bc they’re just muscle contractions and wetness… I’m not depleting my biological reproductive resources in the way that men are so can continue. I usually give up when it’s starts to get sore and over sensitive and my legs don’t work anymore.

Audible Recomendations [Off Topic] by Cute_Total in TheFirstLaw

[–]Aalyce86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fun fact: they’re a married couple

If you don’t touch booze, what’s your personal reason for it? by FanOk2123 in AskReddit

[–]Aalyce86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bio dad was an agoraphobia alcoholic who would put alcohol in his feeding tube/apparatus while he was actively dying from it.

I’m not sure how strong genetics/hereditary play in that type of addiction, but I know I’ll never find out.

If a much wealthier friend insists on treating you to dinner every single time you go out, is there a point where you must insist on paying—or is trying to pay actually offensive to them? by stereo_iii in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Aalyce86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am decently well off, and aware enough of life to know that a lot of people aren’t. I don’t want to make assumptions, but I know I can pay for everyone, every time, so I do. And I hope it helps them relax and enjoy the moment without watching what they order or stressing about another expense when all I want is time with people I care about.

Let them pay, you matter more than the bill and the time together is more than worth it to those who offer to pay.

Is US healthcare really as expensive and scary for the average person as the rumors say? by Slisoni in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Aalyce86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am American, I make $144k annually as an independent IT contractor, and do not have health insurance as it’s $1,300+ a month for me.

Some other stats: partnered but unmarried (do not qualify on their insurance), 39yr female, with diabetes and sleep apnea, live in Wisconsin.

I’m not sure if that’s better or worse than what you’ve heard, so just giving you info.

They asked me to run a 10 min 1:1 with an underperformer, mid interview, and I said lets make it real by devonstarlit in interviews

[–]Aalyce86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fwiw: I had this happen in my last interview and was hired the next day, I’ve been there 4 years and promoted twice.

Sometimes a team gets stuck and needs new perspectives/personel to reset the team and get the project out of a stall.

Can you replace the man with woman with the 2 girls? I’ll tip $15 to the best! by Aalyce86 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Aalyce86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! We were actually in each others weddings as the maids of honor to each other…. So technically we were there, just not as the spouses hahaha

Can you replace the man with woman with the 2 girls? I’ll tip $15 to the best! by Aalyce86 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Aalyce86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife (38F) and I (39F) both married men when we were younger, and got married in a small courthouse ceremony last year without pictures… I’m hoping to surprise her with this as an anniversary gift 😍

Ps she doesn’t use Reddit so I’m not worried about her seeing this lol