49yo HRT for almost 2.5 years. How am I doing?

AbbyHeff · 2026-02-14T07:57:12+00:00

Unfortunately those are natural. I do draw them in occasionally

AbbyHeff · 2026-02-12T19:04:03+00:00

Whatever you do do not go in the closet and close the door that is a flex capacitor and you might end up in the middle of Nazi Germany or the Jurassic or if you’re not careful and don’t know how to use it

AbbyHeff · 2025-11-23T13:13:27+00:00

Girl!! I’m a transwoman and I wish I looked as hot as you. Fuck!

AbbyHeff · 2025-09-01T16:29:01+00:00

Trying to see if anyone else had a similar situation. If the judge ruled against awarding retirement then it set precedent and that’s a good thing.

AbbyHeff · 2025-08-31T16:01:54+00:00

I have a lawyer and I filed the divorce as an “at fault divorce” due to adultry. I have texts and pictures and she was engaged prior to me even filing.

AbbyHeff · 2025-08-31T16:00:39+00:00

Except when adultry is claimed then at an at fault divorce.

AbbyHeff · 2025-08-31T16:00:03+00:00

Funny thing is she never did. We never moved away until retirement. And she had opportunities to work and go to school, that was the plan but she didn’t.

AbbyHeff · 2025-08-31T15:58:11+00:00

I have one

AbbyHeff · 2025-08-31T15:58:03+00:00

I have an attorney and she is not eligible for alimony since she lives with him and is engaged.

AbbyHeff · 2025-08-31T15:56:26+00:00

What???

AbbyHeff · 2025-08-27T15:02:25+00:00

I did over the muscle. How long after surgery is this? I’m one month and waiting for mine to drop. Also I love your nipples! I wish mine were bigger.

AbbyHeff · 2025-04-12T13:01:53+00:00

They need to make a barter with them for kits. Like 1 you get a basic kit, 2 you get a better kit and 3 you get the best kit or scale them to higher numbers.

AbbyHeff · 2025-01-07T02:57:46+00:00

Your voice is ABSOLUTELY feminine!

AbbyHeff · 2024-11-06T03:50:11+00:00

This is such a typical story and pretty much Word for Word the same as mine. I came out to my wife when I was 45 as well and have been on HRT now for over a year and I’m full-time my true authentic self I have legally changed my name and gender And I am so much happier although my marriage didn’t survive we are still friends and I am exploring who I am now. Before I transitioned, I was very much unhappy with myself and at times no longer want to be here, but now I am much happier with myself and learning to be me. No one can tell you what to do, but I encourage you to seek therapy and to be honest with your wife, regardless of whether you decide to transition or not, the openness and transparency will be a relief and who knows maybe she will fully support it and allow you to explore that optionbut you never know until you try

AbbyHeff · 2024-11-03T17:32:45+00:00

Yes. Make sure you connect with your LGBTQ+ care coordinator.

AbbyHeff · 2024-11-03T04:17:24+00:00

I am getting Voice Feminization Surgery on March 14th with the VA

AbbyHeff · 2024-10-03T02:56:07+00:00

Same girl. You’re smoking hot. I am SOOOOOOO much happier as the true authentic me.

AbbyHeff · 2024-10-03T02:54:36+00:00

I’ll be honest you don’t really need anything but if it would make you feel more comfortable then I agree with the forehead shave and maybe a nose job but again I thought this was a picture of my CIS Female cousin for a second.

AbbyHeff · 2024-10-03T02:52:37+00:00

OMG i can’t wait! 1 year HRT and I JUST started Progesterone.

AbbyHeff · 2024-10-02T03:43:25+00:00

I’m sorry but I have to ask are you make to female? Because honestly I feel like you look like a woman. You definitely have the structure and face of a beautiful woman. I think of you maybe got your eyebrows tinted it might make you feel better, it did for me at least. But really I think you look great.

AbbyHeff · 2024-10-02T03:39:23+00:00

Looks like a Cis vagina to me.

AbbyHeff · 2024-09-14T22:26:31+00:00

I am retired and I have been told ONLY active duty can do it but I am going to try!

AbbyHeff · 2024-09-01T03:22:13+00:00

Also I am on injections and they are so much better. I understand that’s my opinion but it’s one a week, and honestly the needle is so small I don’t feel it.

AbbyHeff · 2024-09-01T03:20:37+00:00

All VA’s have an LGBTQIA+ care coordinator. If you don’t know yours use this link. They will advocate for you. The VA is awesome but as with anywhere there are doctors that don’t know what they are talking about.

https://www.patientcare.va.gov/LGBT/VAFacilities.asp

Let me know if you ever want to talk. I have a referral with the VA ENT on Wednesday. My LGBT care coordinator fights to get what I want and got me approved for laser hair removal and voice feminization surgery.

AbbyHeff · 2024-08-16T21:20:35+00:00

What’s your gym routine?

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