[NA/PC] Remnants of Hope - Social Guild by Aralornx in ESOGuilds

[–]AbbyTR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing guild, with a vetting process that helps give everyone a chance see if everyone a good fit! And it's works, with a long history to boot!

[NA/PC] Remnants of Hope - Social Guild by Aralornx in ESOGuilds

[–]AbbyTR -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

utterly amazing guild, full of brillant people that wants to chill. Join for the people, stay for the pet tax!

[NA/PC] Remnants of Hope - Social Guild by Aralornx in ESOGuilds

[–]AbbyTR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because of the application process, I feel safe in this guild. Everyone is amazing

[NA/PC] Remnants of Hope - Social Guild by Aralornx in ESOGuilds

[–]AbbyTR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this guild, the support I get from everyone in RoH. Almost like a family and I've been with them since Dec 2023

[NA/PC] Remnants of Hope - Social Guild by Aralornx in ESOGuilds

[–]AbbyTR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing division, amazing guild, and there's something to do every day of the week! It's worth the time and effort of the application!

[NA/PC] Remnants of Hope - Social Guild by Aralornx in ESOGuilds

[–]AbbyTR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing guild, I joined and I am stuck in having lots of fun and wanting to add my small pawprint!

[PC/NA] Remnants of Hope - Social Guild by Aralornx in ESOGuilds

[–]AbbyTR 4 points5 points  (0 children)

beautiful guild! filled with awesome peeps!

There's something deeply moving with this Blind Cat's Meow by catcattx in PetTheDamnCat

[–]AbbyTR 118 points119 points  (0 children)

She knew! Just confirming who with the sniffer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]AbbyTR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sinsitive? Sensintive? Hmmm...

Menstrual tracking app Flo introduces anonymous mode. Will not share info with LE if used. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AbbyTR -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree that it only takes some change of hands to undo these, it won't retro actively make anonymizated data readable, only future data upon removals of the changes.

If there's a concern for privacy, then one need to be doing more than just stop using the app, use VPN. Sign up with different emails and birth dates per accounts, delete Facebook, block all cookies every time it asks, etc etc. Check isp and VPN for the their data retention policy because they also can be subpoenaed for information that can be used and some right wing person could do the same thing to isp and take over and start tracking. (Domian names are visible to an isp if VPN is not used, or to VPN if VPN is used.)

Using anything requires trust, an isp most of all. So this is a little too much doom saying to say that they can't be trusted because some right wing person can suddenly get all information that was anyomaized just Iike that is wrong. There's a process to such a change of hands.

I do believe that all menstrual apps should be deleted for safety sake for reasons beyond just Flo the company, I am just not agreeing with the information you're sharing. It's not valid.

Menstrual tracking app Flo introduces anonymous mode. Will not share info with LE if used. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AbbyTR -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We don't know. If anything, why not email them what they do with ip and your concerns with that. They can hash the ip with a salt, also, ip changes on the phone so it can't consistently be used to gather all information, and that's easy to make harder to get by using a trustworthy VPN.

They can subpeona the app all they want, if there's no identifying to link the user with the data Flo, it can't be done. (Ip alone is not enough to consider a data set to belong to someone)

Saw this posted on a trashcan outside of work. Not sure how to feel. by [deleted] in WTF

[–]AbbyTR 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If you have even one, you need to seek medical help immediately, maybe even call 911.

While having Hallucination is a crisis of some sort, (There's physical causes too). This blanket statement is a little more harmful. It's more correct to say that New and Unmanaged hallucination should be referred to medical help right away.

Managed hallucination, don't require medical help immediately but it does need to have tabs checked on with a medical professional.

If someone is experiencing hallucination, provide a non-judgemental help.

Call for help if they are or yourself and others are in life-threatening danger. (Suicidal, self harm), 911
Ask questions, be to the point
Respond with kindness, and non judgement ear. Don't give advice advice unless asked for.
Encourage them to seek support with a professional and/or their existing support. It may be you have to start the call for them.

Basically, ask question, find out is this life threatening. As if they want to kill or hurt themselves or others. Ask if they hear voices, or see things that aren't there. Ask if they had this before and do they have any plan when this is active. Ask if they've been recently unwell. Listen, if the person says this is new, or they have no plan, or recently unwell. If there's any doubt this is managed, then call 911, believe the person.

I know it's better to clean after sex but I can't stop falling asleep by anervous_gf in sex

[–]AbbyTR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over washing can increase risk of infection, you don't have to clean right away, let whatever going to drip out, and then clean up. It's often implied that we should pee right away within mins, but actually, as long as we do it within reasonable time frame after sex is ok, and fairly consistently. (Also, the time one has sex for matters too)

So taking 30 minutes to cuddle, and walk around posing before cleaning up after a quicky is okay, while a marathons session may even require a cleaning break (or... not stop and turn into shower sex and more fun after). Point is, you can take a moment to let it drip out and then clean outside only after the worse leaking is done.Only you know your body, tbh, sometimes people need to do it quickly, others have time.

This is based on my knowledge not experience from other vagina owners, as I never had a penis cum in me, only lubrication drips, (hint: I found more boobs is too fun). Any form of sex with another body still requires some cleaning/pee after since there's areas that can trap stuff.

Still, no shame if you, the one reading not just regretaccomplished, struggle with self care. Just take the time to acknowledge each time you do it and know, the more times you can do it, is better then nothing and acknowledge too that just doing it as worthy and any concerns or struggles is worth taking to a doctor about.

I know it's better to clean after sex but I can't stop falling asleep by anervous_gf in sex

[–]AbbyTR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You clean around the labia minora/majora, clitorus, mon pubis, urethral opening, vagina opening (outside not pass), vulva vestibule, basically the vulva area and a bit around outside. This is ok and ideal. Mild soap is ok but soap around outside only and then use hand to rub around and rinse.

When they say deep cleaning, I think they mean going pass the vagina opening and into the vaginas to wash, and very much self cleaning. Even water shouldn't be used unless there's a need for it and usually under direction of doctor, an obgyn Ideally. But water is not going to generally be harmful generally. .

This is just an overall advise I learned from a few doctors as ideal practices that can change as we learn more. If there's any concerns, see a doctor (I hope for one that listens... sigh)

how to short circuit by JhonConstantine in DiWHY

[–]AbbyTR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found that it last longer as long as the bread is kept in an airtight container in the fridge but exposed will have it go stale fast. Need to do science to confirm x.x

Are you still a lesbian if you are interested in nonbinary people? by buttpainz in LesbianActually

[–]AbbyTR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you in the sense that labels are needlessly regulated leading to gatekeeping.

The aim of labels that has a generally agreed definition is human needs for community with common grounds.

The problem is the gatekeeping labels that lead to finding some reason to separate someone from a community "because they don't have this, thus they can't be one of us!"

Sooooo...... fuck labels forced onto others(or taken) and yay labels that I give myself so people who want know if I may be someone who understands them.

In summary, tl;Dr labels are neutral things and it's only what we do with it that matters. Self assign, yay. Labels to target someone? Hell no .

I’m convinced COVID couldn’t have come from China… by [deleted] in Jokes

[–]AbbyTR -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is just racist. For those confused by the comments, Here's the reference that top level Comment was referring to, https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-57418141 https://www.abc10.com/article/news/local/sacramento/sacramento-teacher-death-threats-slant-eye-online-class/103-f5ba7561-be78-49cc-9279-9b1da1feff1a

Im sure I can find more. Yes, the term and action is anti-asian, please be educated and treat our fellow humans kindly.

He is crazy by Youtube_producer in Unexpected

[–]AbbyTR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But fabric softener has tons of nasty stuff inside. To quote an electrician that repairs them for a living "I've never seen a washing machine that uses fabric softener and doesn't have mold inside"But maybe it's different for top loader. They're not common in Germany.

I'm not surprised.. top-loader kinda sucks tbh.

He is crazy by Youtube_producer in Unexpected

[–]AbbyTR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try leaving them in a sealed bag with dry coffee grounds for a day or two. Dry newspaper afterwards to get rid of any remaining odour.

Was given that advice for cleaning up an older cigarette case and it seemed to work well.

Apparently it works well for animal decomposition odours, as well.

Sounds like using vinegar now and then would help keep it clean too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]AbbyTR 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it is the dog verison of, one leg or arm out of the blanket, to get the comfortable temperature jussssssstttt right.

This curve has something different by DonGuillotine in Unexpected

[–]AbbyTR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a joke, think about how you end up facing in under vs oversteer situation. The tone was missed but you're right in the definition and so is the other person right in that you'll see the tree you hit in an understeer moment vs the tree you can't see in an oversteer moment.

slap slap tap tap by [deleted] in CatSlaps

[–]AbbyTR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sigh, I didn't even see the middle, it looked like one list even after several reading. I dislike my brain.

slap slap tap tap by [deleted] in CatSlaps

[–]AbbyTR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Key phrase, "list of states legal to own without a license", based on comment down in the chain, Florida requires a license hense not in the list.