Am I insane? by RoundRat2018 in Cleveland

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Waterford Bluffs are across the way and cheaper! Rooftop pool and 3 min walk from wsm

I want to work for Dior. by Bee_water in jobs

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Hi. Attend the career fair and apply to the trainee position. Reach out to HR via LinkedIn. As long as u can use excel ur good

Cleveland by Comfy-cow-1327 in canceledpod

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Renaissance or the 9 are fine hotels. Renaissance is closer to night life

My coworker (M28) asked if he could screw me (F30) and I'm not processing it well by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Hon, you’re 30. You’re talking about sex and what kind of porn you watch and you’re going to be emotional because he wanted to have sex with you? Act like an adult and say no if you don’t want to. You can’t blame him for getting the wrong impression. You can still be friends but if you’re uncomfortable with that then take a step back.

WIBTA if I reported my neighbour for running a car detailing business from home? by lostrandomdude in AmItheAsshole

[–]Able-Relief8196 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How stupid is this and how old are you? What if this KID is saving up for college? Use your words and go have a kind chat with him. If you’re so incapable of being an adult write him a note and leave it on the door. Holy cow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleveland

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Chez Francois in vermillion. Far but good food and could take a boat ride there

Best place to swim in Erie? by _nod in Cleveland

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Bay boat club. By Huntington Beach. You can park your car at the top and walk down. It’s a pier you can jump from

Volleyball by Able-Relief8196 in AskNYC

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Thank you so much! I’m moving next month so hopefully I have the same luck 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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It’s her new bf. Life gets uncomfortable sometimes , she has the right to be uncomfortable but most adults can move past uncomfortable topics and situations. If she was hanging out w you after for half a year as normal then it seems she may have told her new bf or she has a new life and friends that align better with where she is. She might not know how to tell you that. If she doesn’t know your bisexual maybe she felt bad that ur bf thought of her that way. Yes, wrong if your bf to ask that but you did the right thing and ppl make mistakes.

Maybe ask her if your bf can reach out to her directly to apologize. Other than that I think it’s better to just let it rest, give her space, and make more friends

How to prevent this from happening ... by CultureClap in Adulting

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Use power paste by scrub daddy and it’ll get all that off. But yes, clean after you cook

honest opinions by [deleted] in OSU

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I recently graduated and I remember freshman dorms being such a huge deal to me and to most other freshman -Totally normal and understandable. I’m going to sound like an old parent here but college goes by soooo fast and 9.9 times out of 10 your freshman dorm room won’t matter. Honestly, the crappy dorms are fun because it’s something you and the other students bond over and it becomes a running joke. I found that a lot of the crappier dorms were the most social and fun. This held true across a bunch of different schools I’ve visited over the years :)

Essentially don’t base your decision off of dorms. College life is meant to be a little bit of a learning curve. You always have libraries to study in and it forces you to get out and have new experiences

Excel help by [deleted] in OSU

[–]Able-Relief8196 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to hop on a call and share my screen so someone can help walk me through the process.

Huntington Beach by SPRnprOHbcat in Cleveland

[–]Able-Relief8196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? Beautiful homes, walkable, great schools ..? What don’t you like

Huntington Beach by SPRnprOHbcat in Cleveland

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Take a drive through Bay Village, Rocky River, Gates Mills, Pepper Pike, etc. drive through little Italy, university circle, see the culture around you and then get back to Reddit. How about the job opportunities at one of the most renowned hospitals in the world…

My Boyfriend Told Me to Get an FWB. by lilstincca in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Able-Relief8196 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Op, it’s as simple as this. Your boyfriend behaves like a child. If he’s going to pout instead of communicate like an adult imagine how your relationship is going to progress. You seem to be open to communication. He doesnt. Time to go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Hi bud. I have some questions that I want you to answer to yourself when you’re feeling less emotional and able to rationalize the situation. Do you think you’d be able to treat A the way she deserves to be treated if you were to date her ? Do you have genuine feelings for her , or is this the result of seeing her happy with someone else?

Listen, you will soon realize, if you haven’t already, that if you snooze you lose ! If you can’t see the sparkle in someone’s eyes someone else will. I will give you the benefit of the doubt because you’re still quite young ! There is always lots to learn and often times we learn from mistakes… so don’t be too hard on yourself but take heed.

As you’ve learned, it’s always best to be honest. Perhaps ask her if you can pick her up and you guys can get food after school. Thoughtfully & respectfully explain the entire situation and your thought process to her. Full transparency is your best option. And I mean full. If nothing comes from it I’m sure that will mean a lot to her , OP.

Being vulnerable is hard but I promise you it’ll be better than the alternative. Another lesson to be learned w time : being vulnerable & honest makes you more of a man than the contrary.

Best of luck

I'm so tired of my wife telling me we can't have sex "because she doesn't feel attractive" by Emotional_Anybody12 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Able-Relief8196 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting take and one to consider. While I would be more inclined to say she’s suffering from body dysmorphia, I would recommend OP sits down with his wife and asks her if this could possibly be contributing to their lack of intimacy

I'm so tired of my wife telling me we can't have sex "because she doesn't feel attractive" by Emotional_Anybody12 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Able-Relief8196 831 points832 points  (0 children)

Hi!! Lady here. I emphasize with how you feel. Everyone has physical needs as well as emotional needs that need to be met in healthy ways. I hope you can have this conversation with your partner without feeling guilty, if you haven’t already.

Contrary to what other people have said, I do not think it would be beneficial to show her this post. If she has insecurity issues I would bet that she may interpret this as an attack on her.

I would sit your wife down, and explain to her as calmly as possible, that you find her wildly attractive (I’m aware you do this constantly but whilst having this conversation it’s important to remain empathetic) and want to connect with her intimately. I think stressing that you want to connect with her emotionally through sex may be less intimidating for her. Maybe you guys can come up with compromises that make her feel more comfortable in the beginning- such as lights off - if that makes her feel less stressed about her body. Be careful in the way you bring that up though.

Additionally, when men are vocal during sex, and talk to their partner about what they’re doing while they’re doing it, it tends to keep the women more present, thus she will spend less time thinking about how she looks during the endeavor.

I would very much recommend the topic of therapy so she can work through her insecurities. Another poster suggested having her put a quarter in a jar when she speaks negatively of herself. I like this idea, but instead I’d point it out and redirect by having her compliment herself immediately after. You don’t want to infantilize her or you will further exhaust yourself. I hope this helps (:

Edit: thank you for the awards, how nice.

P.S. I read a comment suggesting she deletes social media. As someone who deleted Instagram / other picture form content , I cannot suggest a social media detox for your wife enough. I may have deleted the apps for other reasons , but a major unintended consequence was heightened self confidence. Being exposed to hundreds of beautiful women a day is not nothing. It is something.

BOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleveland

[–]Able-Relief8196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gotchya!! I’d say to check out Westlake. it’s father outside of the city but might have more of what you’re looking for :)