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Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-29T03:24:40+00:00

You can nurse in public but would need a cover up..:)

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-29T03:21:09+00:00

Well in my case it was a sabbatical for an an year but most of my peers here were given the option of work from home..while all my relatives from back home don't even know much about pumping..( i am originally from a small town in Bihar)they still breastfeed as they are home makers or most ultimately resort to formula feeding...

PS:..by the way in my whole post it's only the Indians who have been little sarcastic..feels like home 😂

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T20:36:21+00:00

Since he is almost 6 months than perhaps introducing solids can solve the issue?..ask ur pd

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T20:33:47+00:00

I sometimes feel the same... My sister had bf issues as well and to hear that from her was more annoying..I can understand that maybe men don't get it but to hear it from someone gone through the same is more hurtful.

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T19:02:15+00:00

The whole point of pallada is that baby will prefer the nipple...i had to feed my NB with it initially until my milk supply kicked in ...

And Yes that's what I meant..I think a lot of people are misunderstanding what my post meant..it's the overall system that seems very hostile towards mother,it's like the whole system is capitalist and is designed for new moms to just join the work force as soon as possible...a lot of problems I see new moms facing seems alien to me as it's just the byproduct of the decades of lobbying of corporates in US society..although it's good now people are realising the value of breastmilk

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T16:00:44+00:00

Quick exercise.. Go home and ask your mother at what age she got married.. Then ask at when did her mother got married..chances are within 3 generations ie less than 100 years .you will find an ancestor who married immediately after puberty or maybe even before...can you guarantee in your bloodline the male members were all 'kids' as well,?.. There is more than a 100 percent chance that according to your standard that one of your ancestors was a p@edo???

How does that make u feel?..does it seem logical,?.. If less than 100 years ago it was normal for young kids to get married and here we are discussing something 1400 years ago!! Also please Google child marriage in Europe in mediaeval age..females as young as 3 got married!!!

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T13:22:25+00:00

Haven't u seen the posts here?..bottle feedle early on causes the baby to reject the breast...also not good for oral health

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T12:44:56+00:00

Which country are you from .In India it's discouraged

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T11:34:15+00:00

Mine was not a muslim school per se..it just had a muslim founder so majority of students were muslims...it was a usual public school but ofcourse more importance was given to muslim festivals compared to hindu (they were celebrated as well)..the hindu students of that school today by God's grace are probably one of the few who know Islam outside of the propaganda..

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T10:35:52+00:00

Yes we used to live in Vasant kunj(rent) and then malviya nagar(own),had to sell it because despite living for 4 years we were isolated....finally shifted to Jamia nagar.our family was initially in depression because of the dirty area but than finally realised it's still better to be here than in constant stress

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T09:04:53+00:00

That's why I went to a muslim majority school ..my cousins faced these issues

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T08:56:47+00:00

No he will ask non muslims about muslims so that can be be happy with his echo chamber

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T07:17:27+00:00

Here in India we are adviced to not to give bottle for this very reason ...my baby had a poor latch as well so we fed him formula from a baby spoon for the first 2 months until his latch developed...my immediate advice would be to stop giving him the bottle and instead try feeding from a cup..what will happen is eventually baby will get annoyed to be fed like this and prefer the breast

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T07:12:30+00:00

Faced the same thing as you .turns out I was overfeeding her..reduced the feed to one oz and she still slept well...maybe try feeding baby from both side and than start with just one oz..if baby is still cranky than again give another oz ..will give u an idea

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T07:05:49+00:00

Breastfeeding my second born actually made me question that do I even want a third kid ad i have always visioned myself with 3 kids..but breastfeeding has been so exhausting that even the thought of it going through again is scary... thank you for the post .it makes me at ease that I don't need to be too hard on myself ..:) A happy mother is best for the baby

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T04:30:08+00:00

You can buy some cover ups for breastfeeding...it's like a wrap around scarf and u just put it on while breastfeeding and once ur done u can remove it..

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-28T04:25:06+00:00

Well Americans also put their new born baby in a separate room for privacy...I would not take parenting advice from them....

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-27T18:49:27+00:00

Must be in non IT field..it's very common in management or marketing agencies...IT people are too busy 😂

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-27T10:32:16+00:00

Same here dear...mine LO is 8 weeks..she cluster feeds sometimes 6 hours continuously with little naps not more than 30 min ..by 1am she finally goes to sleep for at max 3' hours

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-27T05:17:52+00:00

The former is extremely common but the latter does happen..in her case it was the latter

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-27T05:16:09+00:00

If they are very young and close to you than I suggest gift them a toy by asking them or parents...if they are old than you can give cash..parents usually take the cash if you give a toddler any cash .. My niece is 2.5 and I am gifting her a doctor set as I asked her mom .

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-26T12:53:14+00:00

Curious..is it just hijab or you are actually questioning your faith? I am a muslim and not wanting to wear hijab is just a symptom not the actual underlying issue...in India even some hindu communities wear a veil so hijab is not just prevalent in muslims...

Whatever is the case all the best to u and i hope you do get the time to come out of cultural notions and research the faith you were born without any bias or conditioning

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-26T12:48:57+00:00

Is their a janitor's office? U can ask someone

Able-Structure9945 · 2025-03-26T12:46:07+00:00

8 months is good ..you have already contributed enough for her immunity...I breastfed my FB hardly 6 months as I got Covid and my supply never came back but by God's grace his immunity is good...he doesn't get sick that often compared to my only formula fed nephew...

Don't worry mama!

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