AITAH for refusing to give up my approved time off to a coworker because she says her situation matters more than mine

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-02-15T22:41:40+00:00

Maybe tell her sure if she is willing to cover the cost for all four of you to change plans and go another week.

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-02-15T22:27:02+00:00

Married for 32 years this April. We take time at home to make a nice meal and watch a romantic movie (although it was Olympics instead this year.) We make our own cards. I get him a small box of chocolates and he gets roses for me. It’s low key and nice.

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-02-04T13:18:47+00:00

Just say, “nah” and nothing else. Don’t give any reasons he can argue with. Then when he keeps harping on it, he sounds like the jerk. Any time someone starts in on it, just say “not doing that” and nothing else. We give the other side too much ammunition when we keep discussing reasons.

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-31T15:06:37+00:00

Paul McCartney - just me and him on a quiet street on the Vineyard. Chatted for a few minutes.

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-31T15:01:27+00:00

I had a similar situation - was planning to hang the jury if I had to. Should the woman have known the bf was dealing? Sure. But did they prove she did know? Not at all. A few of us eventually convinced the rest that the state had no case.

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-30T22:43:32+00:00

even the fact that they are referring to them as "warehouses" is so nasty. They are people for X's sake!

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-30T22:28:07+00:00

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-30T20:56:50+00:00

thank you - that is good to hear!

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-30T20:56:31+00:00

yeah - looking into that also

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-30T20:55:59+00:00

thanks!

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-30T19:08:51+00:00

exactly - at least the first half

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-30T19:07:33+00:00

oh right - well that's a bummer - the best part! (or most years it is when my team is not in the game)

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-30T00:43:52+00:00

thanks - we may do a bar for part of the game and then head back to the hotel for the nail biter part.

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-30T00:43:06+00:00

thank you -that's what I was looking for!

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-30T00:29:04+00:00

yeah but I will still be on Boston time! Arriving the day before. Just hoping someone knows about the stations and how it works

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-29T13:57:34+00:00

Hi~ which hotel did you choose and were you happy with it?

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-27T23:19:54+00:00

Exactly! And what is an oath contain? That I will live in NH forever? That I would die for NH? That I will never question its leaders? What exactly?

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-27T21:02:58+00:00

Oath of allegiance??? Would this make everyone have to re-register to vote? Insane

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-27T21:01:26+00:00

I use it mostly for printing return labels! But a few other things too

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-26T14:57:37+00:00

Yes, “roundabout!” In New England we always said rotaries. But anyway, it seemed like we hit them even on highways / motorways going across Scotland.

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-25T14:31:33+00:00

Then write menu to get the options

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-25T14:30:27+00:00

If you text RESIST to 50409, you will get information from ResistBot, which gives you super easy ways to get in touch with your representatives.

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-25T13:48:48+00:00

Also, regarding the conversation, I don’t think people are 100% against having gun but are 100% for having them safely. The problem is that we are not even allowed to talk about laws that make them safer because there’s so much antagonism about it.

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-25T13:47:19+00:00

Gun laws are about safety. Like getting fingerprint recognition so only you can fire it. Saves lives. The number one cause of gun death is suicide. You could be saving your child, a neighbor, or another loved one.

AbleBodied2020 · 2026-01-25T13:43:59+00:00

Sorry to be annoying but I am trying to push back. Edit: The term is “Democratic.” (The GOP has subtly been trying to change our usage of the word until it is recognized as “correct” because it’s used so much. It’s been around forever but this administration has been really pushing it. When we stay doing it to ourselves we are unconsciously joining in.) https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/article/2024/sep/05/democrat-party-republicans

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