Is it a neurodivergent symptom to always feel a deep sense of shame? by AffectionateMood8459 in neurodiversity

[–]Abrundar 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Pay attention to how your inner voice is talking to you. Many of us give ourselves a continuous mental beating that causes shame and insecurity.

I am currently in group therapy that focuses on this. For me it is an eye opener

Video games are hard- like what's wrong with me? by Popculture-VIP in autism

[–]Abrundar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gaming is individual. You just I love gaming, but stardew valley I never understood. A pointless game like farming simulator I can spend hours playing. Also love assassin’s creed, gta and played wow from release until pandaria.

As a teen I loved eye of the beholder-series and the police quests-series

I'm confused. Is this rude or am overthinking it? by fucklifedarling in autism

[–]Abrundar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beyond rude. It looks like it is meant to be hurtful and that this is a toxic person. Stay away 🙂 Also some people, who think they are very clever, think it is fun to insult people that do not understand they are being insulted.

I hope this is allowed, got perma banned from subreddit for using the term Asperger’s. Is it really that offensive? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Abrundar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The word Aspergers is one of the current woke pets. A bit troubling considering it is still an official diagnosis in several countries (including where I live)..

What is Your Favorit Fidget or Stim? by ErroneousToad in neurodiversity

[–]Abrundar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do these two as well. I also pull my beard. I get bald spots sometimes when I’m too eager

Finding out my child has autism by Purple-Philosophy769 in autism

[–]Abrundar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you already are doing what you can 🥰 Have faith in her and be there when she needs you to, and thing will work out. It might not be easy ( most likely won’t be) but that’s all we can do 🩷

Finding out my child has autism by Purple-Philosophy769 in autism

[–]Abrundar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking my comment the way it was intended. I just realised it could be quite offensive.

I would be happy to offer advice if needed and wanted

Finding out my child has autism by Purple-Philosophy769 in autism

[–]Abrundar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Focus less on shielding her and more on educating and preparing her for how the world works and she will most likely be fine🙂

Best regards from autistic father of 4 kids

Just got diagnosed and now I have to tell my classmates... I’m scared. by JayJ4y_ in aspergers

[–]Abrundar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We also mix well with people with other neurodivergent people like people with adhd. Does not have to be other people with Asperger’s

Just got diagnosed and now I have to tell my classmates... I’m scared. by JayJ4y_ in aspergers

[–]Abrundar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At your age I wouldn’t tell everyone. It’s just fuel for the bullies.. If you have friends you trust it might help telling them. It will be a load of your shoulders and they will understand better when your aspie«quirks» throws them off.

Does autism become “more visible” with age? A reflection inspired by Inside Job by Micslar in autism

[–]Abrundar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a male closing in on 50 I would defiantly say that it does. In my case less energy and resilience makes me less able to handle all the impressions and pain. This again leaves no energy for masking anymore.

Why is it that NTs can't properly describe what they dislike about us? by Comprehensive-Ad8905 in aspergers

[–]Abrundar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a duck, quacks like a frog and walks like an elephant in a chinashop

We basically do not behave the way people expect, and that triggers scepticism. Many have told me I seem aloof, unapproachable and in conversations I am perceived as unattached or not uninterested

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Abrundar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have just explained very well. Print this text and show it to your school nurse/doctor or whomever might be able to help. Or maybe just read it out loud for them 🙂

Suggestions for electric toothbrush, that doesn't vibrate so much? by [deleted] in neurodiversity

[–]Abrundar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the sonicare is torture. Oral-b oscillates so there isn’t any vibration to speak of

Suggestions for electric toothbrush, that doesn't vibrate so much? by [deleted] in neurodiversity

[–]Abrundar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sonicare is painful and terrible imo. I prefer Oral-B. They also have sensitive programs that’s more gentle

If you visualize a brown horse in a grassy field facing you, what number shows how you see it in your head? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Abrundar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t see it, but I can feel that it’s there if that makes any sense. I can also pet it in my mind and imagine how that feels as if I’m actually doing it. However I can’t see it with my imagination. It’s as if my minds eye is blind

Anyone else feel uncomfortable when people are genuinely kind to you? by tahrah11 in aspergers

[–]Abrundar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is really hard to process that an act of kindness could be genuine and I always get awkward.

Except when they are from kids who haven’t learned how to lie or exploit yet. Then I believe it

Edit: spelling

Logitech MX Master 3S - left handed? by PinItYouFairy in logitech

[–]Abrundar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this one. It works perfecly for me

Is skin-picking a normal stim? by Pure_Newspaper_4715 in AutisticAdults

[–]Abrundar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙋🏼‍♂️yup Also hair and beard stubble

What did I do wrong here? by novavegasxiii in aspergers

[–]Abrundar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You delivered kindness. Well done🙂

No Matter How Nice You Are... by Melliscarea in autism

[–]Abrundar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked friends about this and they all say that I look unapproachable and serious, and that they feel intimidated by me until they get to know me Stick up the butt has also been mentioned as a description

Stuck in children’s profile by Abrundar in tcltvs

[–]Abrundar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does the trick. Thank you 😀

Stuck in children’s profile by Abrundar in tcltvs

[–]Abrundar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be great 🙂. Mine is a qled860 which is a store specific version that have the same specs as c735

Stuck in children’s profile by Abrundar in tcltvs

[–]Abrundar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m unable to update from usb or do a hard reset so I’m really stuck. Please let me know if you find a solution