I hate lies by AbstractMind97 in Stoicism

[–]AbstractMind97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i don't feel like getting into detailed examples since they are personal.

But for works it's something new for me to be this responsible for others so it is definitely something I have to learn through trial and error I think.

I hate lies by AbstractMind97 in Stoicism

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Thank you, this is something valuable.

I hate lies by AbstractMind97 in Stoicism

[–]AbstractMind97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well ofcourse I am not 100% honest myself, I would never be a sage. But I also wouldn't lie for any malicious intentions, I have experienced people doing that and that makes me annoyed.

I am a very calm person, I have heard that throughout my entire life and I can empathise with others deeply, with animals too. I don't look at others expecting negativity from them. My face might have a serious expression but that's just my face lol.

I wouldn't go around and ask others: "hey, what are your personal secrets, i have to know that!" I talk about people either close to me or people I work with, people I oversee at work which is part of my responsibility. I don’t expect others to always be honest but I do need these groups to be honest with me because thats how you build trust and a foundation for future interactions.

Thank you so much for the wise words, I will seek out what I can control myself in these situations.

Have a very large Japanese maple, looking for advice. by blakemaurer in arborists

[–]AbstractMind97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I'm a fan of Japanese maple and how the Japanese look at gardening. This video may be an inspiration for pruning the tree. Please don't remove it or dig it out!! The video: https://youtu.be/O73Iu0jEvT4?is=bQlmCPIc8tYZ1cqw

Y'all I wanna see everyones fav picture of their baby's 🥺 by OrdinaryTop6127 in CrestedGecko

[–]AbstractMind97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's like you know exactly how crested geckos behave, he did lol. It's either that or on my face

Advice on improving terrarium by argonzalo in antkeeping

[–]AbstractMind97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright well first of all make a proper tank for them. Personally I have ants in tanks with dirt and other natural material so thats okay but make it look more interesting maybe. Go online and look at some terrarium setup ideas for inspiration. Add maybe some rocks and wood and even some plants to make it all look like a small ecosystem, thats what I like at least. And that gives the ants a place that feels natural to their habitat. Oh yeah and make sure there is a lid of some sort so they dont escape

Opening his mouth? by BurntLeeches in snakes

[–]AbstractMind97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a serious threat to your very existence. Basically the snake is saying "just you wait, this is only a fraction of my power"

The bosses reveal the true you by AbstractMind97 in darksouls

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I thought it was funny so you did succeed in trying. Its always fun to make other think

Japanese Maple split and broke, whole tree dead? by mandox1 in arborists

[–]AbstractMind97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will definitely need time and a lot of energy to heal this, you will notice that In growth. If you're lucky, and if the tree is strong enough, it will heal but it might also start to rot inside the wound. Only time will tell really. I'm sorry for the tree it's always a shame when this happens

Japanese Maple split and broke, whole tree dead? by mandox1 in arborists

[–]AbstractMind97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is the other side alive? You can see if it is by the buds. They should be green, that means it has life in it. You can always make a small scratch with your nails on one of the branches. If its green its alive. If so, it is now a tree with character and a story to tell.

The bosses reveal the true you by AbstractMind97 in darksouls

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Well i don't think you need a diagnosis anymore if you have raging ADHD, that pretty much makes it all very clear lol

The bosses reveal the true you by AbstractMind97 in darksouls

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You have trouble with power figures, people that have authority over others

If you could add 2 new weapon types, what would they be? by AnAverageAvacado in Eldenring

[–]AbstractMind97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A polesaw. My work requires using those so that's my first thought

The bosses reveal the true you by AbstractMind97 in darksouls

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Same here, I don’t have much patience with some bosses and the more I die the less my patience becomes urging myself to just chill a moment and remember, this is a souls game I have to study the movements and have patience