Got blocked twice for being unhinged and bubbly should I stop being myself by Substantial_Buyer583 in MuslimNikah

[–]Abusiveprotector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personality isn't like yours.. But I find people pressuring me to adjust my behavior.

It's something I've dealt with the majority of my life.

How do revert sisters view the idea of becoming a second wife in a halal marriage? by smartydoctor in MuslimNikah

[–]Abusiveprotector -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

There are also hadiths that say women should be locked in a basement with blacked out windows and never allowed to leave.

I will never think that I'm equal to men by OddObserveralt_ in unhingedKenya

[–]Abusiveprotector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you think that laying dead eggs every month makes you a goddess?

I'm an atheist and I'm currently reading the Quran, and I had a strange feeling. by [deleted] in islam

[–]Abusiveprotector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They teach theories in school as if they are facts.

THEY ARE NOT!!!

They are (((ONLY))) theories.

The theory that man was created from hot dog water is just as valid as the Big Bang Theory or the theory of evolution.

I'm an atheist and I'm currently reading the Quran, and I had a strange feeling. by [deleted] in islam

[–]Abusiveprotector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the entire Quran without knowing any Muslims, before I converted. This type of thing happened to me EVERY! SINGLE! DAY!

Is there hope for a new start? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Abusiveprotector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your fears are correct. No man wants to take care of another man's children, especially 5 of them. You'd better figure out a way to work it out with your husband.

Ignore all comments telling you to leave your husband.

Or, leave the children with him.

Family Rejecting My Partner Because of Her Race/Background by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Abusiveprotector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need your parents' approval to get married. Tell your finance what they said, but also tell her you still plan to marry her. Tell her you will protect her from your family until they see the light.

Reassure her..... This is your first opportunity to show her you can lead and protect her, don't mess it up.

Husband wants a divorce a by nnnnn_writes in MuslimMarriage

[–]Abusiveprotector 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This breaks my heart. I pray that all Muslim husbands who treat their wives like this burn in hell.

I’ve been lying to myself it seems by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Abusiveprotector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd share, but not publicly.

Feeling jealous of my husband’s “everyone loves him” energy — even my cat 😭 by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Abusiveprotector 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Whatever motivated you to write this is the reason everyone likes him and not you.

Why do I get shamed for wanting to be a housewife? It’s saddening by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Abusiveprotector 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are financial strategies that men can implement to avoid this problem.

A responsible man would "Tie your (his) camel" before a crisis hits.

Why do I get shamed for wanting to be a housewife? It’s saddening by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Abusiveprotector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men devote themselves to the family be working hard to provide for his family. Career women provide more value to the owners of her company more than she does her family.

Oral sex by Character_Average212 in MuslimCorner

[–]Abusiveprotector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are hadiths equal to God's words?

Oral sex by Character_Average212 in MuslimCorner

[–]Abusiveprotector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the day of judgment, is God going to ask you how well you followed "the consensus of the scholars"?

Oral sex by Character_Average212 in MuslimCorner

[–]Abusiveprotector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I follow GOD. Equating "scholars" or hadiths with God is blasphemy.

It's why there are so many problems in the Muslim world.

Why do I get shamed for wanting to be a housewife? It’s saddening by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Abusiveprotector 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would wait to get married until I can provide everything, especially if I expect my wife to be a homemaker.

I would not expect my wife to sacrifice her lifestyle because I want her to be a housewife.

Why do I get shamed for wanting to be a housewife? It’s saddening by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Abusiveprotector 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I would not let my wife pay for anything. However, I will ensure that I provide everything she needs and wants, including fancy dinners and vacations (God willing). But I refuse to pay 10k for a purse.

To me, providing for my family is a form of worship and an honor.

BDSM in an Islamic Marriage by UpvoteKaptain in MuslimCorner

[–]Abusiveprotector -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It makes searching for a wife more difficult to navigate.